Singles & Dating - 27 September 2006

ok heres the situation. i've been dating this guy for 6 months, and i love him (i think), but i feel that he doesn't have time for me. he keeps telling me things will change when he gets his latest business venture up and running. if i stay with him i know i could have a good, stable future with all the houses, cars, cloths and what not. sounds good right?! well, i'm also inlove with my best friend of 2 years, who is married, well going through a divorce. i know he has the time for me. and he understandsa me and knows everything about me. but staying with him, would be pretty much living pay check to pay check, and i don't have a problem with that. he has recently asked me to move in with him.
i'm so confused.

2006-09-27 17:35:22 · 6 answers · asked by amanda 4

When it comes to approaching someone I'm interested in, I can't help but to be stuck in this mindset that the guy has to approach me first. My reason being is that I know if a guy is interested, then he'll come up to you, no? Lately I've been so impatient. I want to go up to a guy that I find interesting and ask him out but I think that is kind of weird. Also is it weird if the girl is the one pursuing? Like doing all the talking or trying to get together and stuff. Just wondering because I make myself look dumb.

2006-09-27 17:35:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a boyfriend we've been together for more than year now, i love him, we both dream, e have the same school and in the same field, we are too close to each other, our parents are already friends, in our studies, he missed some of our classes because he is staying inside the computer shop almost every hour.... is he really love me? another thing is, he has a textmate a first year college student of our school, but he told me, he only treats that girl as a little sister....please help, ilove him so much, and i don't want to lose him...

2006-09-27 17:34:31 · 11 answers · asked by cheng 1

2006-09-27 17:33:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'll start: I'm afraid of frogs and lighting.

2006-09-27 17:30:55 · 14 answers · asked by thunderstorm 2

2006-09-27 17:25:43 · 29 answers · asked by Frenchie 2

I have a really great bf and I love him more than life but recently I have been having some problems with controlling my jealous nature. He is married....wait! It`s not like that! He`s legally seperated and has been for 5 months before we started dating. We have a really awesome relationship and I love being with him but I have a REALLY hard time with the fact that he is technically still married. I met his wife once and she is a horror. I can totally see why he is divorcing her. The problem is I live with him in the house they bought together. When I first moved in, everywhere I looked there was something from their life together staring me in the face. I have lived with him for 4 months and pretty much got rid of everything from "them" in the first couple weeks I was here. Or so I thought. The other day I was cleaning out our bedroom closet and came accross some pictures and notes that were.....let`s say " of the sexual nature". I was immediately upset and......continued..........

2006-09-27 17:25:02 · 8 answers · asked by slipknots love slave 1

our science teacher is always staring at my friend grace, and we dont know what to think, he just stares at her while hes talkin and stuff and has started calling her 'gracie', whcih no one else does. shes only 13. what do u make of this?

2006-09-27 17:24:47 · 24 answers · asked by ezzaphill 3

and you want to be friends but they want more?

2006-09-27 17:24:35 · 3 answers · asked by baby-face 2

Curious....do guys really like boobs that are not real....implants or surgery created boobs...or does it feel funny when you know they are not real????

2006-09-27 17:23:02 · 7 answers · asked by north44girl 1

this guy online seem to be really into me and wants to come over but all he wants is sex and no commitment at least that was what he said for the time being at first a few months back...things never worked out he never came over the few times he could have he never showed up he chickened out he said he got scared...but yet he is the one begging me...and i am the leary one...as i want commitment or at least the prospect of it someday...well now he says no no committment ever... but he still wants to come over wants this that and the other thing sex sex and more sex im like yeah right what ever .... he is a joke... for one he would never show up i dont think i think he just was using me for online sex maybe... and never had any intention of showing up .... i dont know what do you all think i want some opinions.....i know playing on the internet was a fools game in the first place but please tell me your opinion on this guy not on my actions.. i know what i did was wrong now obviously lol

2006-09-27 17:22:13 · 20 answers · asked by fantasia91273 2

2006-09-27 17:21:02 · 17 answers · asked by 56 1

what can u do or say when you are out with a friend (not a date) to hint that you are going to kiss her at the end

2006-09-27 17:20:31 · 4 answers · asked by cronaldo17 2

Or know someone who hasent been married before?
And what is there purpose for not being married ,im talking about someone who is older than 40.
I got a feeling im not going to get married for a personal reason,not that i dont want 2 is just u wont understand,trust me.

2006-09-27 17:16:22 · 4 answers · asked by Compton,CA 4

2006-09-27 17:15:11 · 37 answers · asked by k 3

I lost my best friend due to a misunderstanding. He's taking it way out of content. He asked me to leave him alone, then we saw eachother in the club the next night, and he didn't even speak. I sent him a letter expressing myself deeper than I ever have before. He knows that I love him and there's nothing I'd ever do to hurt him, so why is he acting like this. I need to know what other steps I can take to get him back. It's been a week tomorrow, and yesterday, I received a text from him askin how I've been. I told him fine, that I was missing him and asked how he was. I never got a response back. I got my hopes up that we were making progress, but now I'm missing him all over. Will he ever be back? How can I get him back?

2006-09-27 17:14:27 · 10 answers · asked by Charlies_Angel 1

aff and passion offer free w/c acess as long as you register as a free member ....

2006-09-27 17:14:03 · 5 answers · asked by purpleknight2957 2

My girlfriend found out i was a virgin through some of my friends, and we ended up talking about it. In the middle of the conversation she told me "It's ok ur a virgin,my last boyfriend didn't lose his virginity until he was 21". The thing that scares me about that is that she is 14 and i am too,i also heard her boyfriend is gangbangin',my friends said she said her last boyfriend was a Latin King. What should i do?,i love her but she does quite akward things. The thing i also hate is that she kisses everyone on the cheek,i though she only kissed me on the cheek,but i found out she kisses al of her friends on the cheek,best friend,cousin ect. HELP ME!

2006-09-27 17:11:55 · 15 answers · asked by Ramon O 3

God has blessed me with a man who is absolutely everything I've always wanted. I cannot even begin to describe the love that I have in my heart from this man.
Here is the problem.
In the last few months there have been many times where I have drinken so much that I cannot recall what I did or said. I go on crying sprees when I am drunk and ramble on and on. He told me the other night that I practically broke up with him. I have gotten help for my drinking, and stopped for a while. But because of stresses in my life, I have had quite a few times where I just had too much. He never complains. He tells me that I am not at all mean, just that I cry alot and that he makes sure that I am ok.
My question is........how can he love me this much to put up with this? I couldn't put up with it. He says he loves me, and he doesn't LIKE it, but it doesn't bother him........I tell him that I am so sorry, and he always says "don't worry about it. I love you."
I don't want to lose him...

2006-09-27 17:11:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

A woman from work and I have been good friends for a year. I realized I wanted to be more than friends as she is very special. I knew she wasnt seeing anyone, so earlier this year, I asked her out on a date. She said "No".

I changed jobs recently (she knew all along my contract was for a limited time only) and we remain close friends and hang out alot still. I have heard from 2 mutual friends that she has had feelings for me all along. Why then did she reject me when I asked her out?? If it was because we worked together, I figured she would have said SOMETHING like "Not now" or "Wait til you're done working here". To complicate things, she is allegedly seeing someone else, even though she denies that to me, which also makes me think she has feelings for me.

What to do?? Help!!

2006-09-27 17:11:34 · 27 answers · asked by merrizz 1

So, I met this guy at a gas station, we exchanged # s and I usually never do this, but how did u meet ur spouse or fiancee?

2006-09-27 17:10:38 · 14 answers · asked by Justme 2

i think its a really healthy and effective way and it doesnt mess with ur schoolwork or extracurriculars or friends

so is there any risk in this besides getting rejected? its foolproof

2006-09-27 17:08:41 · 17 answers · asked by joey 3

I'm a thick chick that cant seem to find the right man to be with. I'm pretty, take care of myself and I dont ask a man for anything, but yet I keep on getting the short end of the stick. What is up with that.

2006-09-27 17:08:40 · 7 answers · asked by sweet thang 1

2006-09-27 17:08:32 · 5 answers · asked by 56 1

She's my x gf and if u know her can u convince her to talke me back and that I luv her. I cheated less then 40 times and she's the only one I want plz tell her this and she just won't take me back today would be our 4 year anniversery plz tell her this and that I'm sorry, I know she's not playing mind games cuz when her x and her broke up I suggested she goes out with outher guys and play hard to get and she said no cuz she doesn't play mind games. PLz HELP

2006-09-27 17:08:13 · 2 answers · asked by eric.gothicgod666 1

me!! i am polite and dress nice.my looks are okay i look just like my avatar hair and everything! any advice??

2006-09-27 17:06:56 · 34 answers · asked by MS. DAISY 2

I am with this really awesome , but it seems when I ask her a question, the answer is I don't know or I don't care. Maybe she is just being shy but I need a way that we can really become close. I Spent 2 hours trying to figure this question out and so far have come up with nothing. If you have any valuable info please tell.

2006-09-27 17:06:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Look i'm 14 and i don't like dating girls my age because they are too immature,not on my level. All of my girlfriends this year have been above my age,i heard the law is 6 years. Is that true?,i hope so,then i can mess around with this girl who's 20. Please tell me,if that law is true,then it's on.

2006-09-27 17:04:33 · 19 answers · asked by Ramon O 3

I put a note in a girls locker last tuesday asking her to a dance. I never got an answer, but swear I heard my name today in history in her voice, so I turned and looked at the clock (looking at her, she was right in front of the clock) and she laughed. Same day, during engish she saw me look at her an she waved at me and smiled accross the room, then went back to her conversation with her friend (heard my name mentioned again)

2006-09-27 17:03:35 · 20 answers · asked by steve 4

He's a great boyfriend.....but he does this alot.

2006-09-27 17:03:35 · 36 answers · asked by kaycee w 1