When it comes to approaching someone I'm interested in, I can't help but to be stuck in this mindset that the guy has to approach me first. My reason being is that I know if a guy is interested, then he'll come up to you, no? Lately I've been so impatient. I want to go up to a guy that I find interesting and ask him out but I think that is kind of weird. Also is it weird if the girl is the one pursuing? Like doing all the talking or trying to get together and stuff. Just wondering because I make myself look dumb.
2006-09-27 17:35:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By all means, go for it. If he doesn't dig it, someone else will.
2006-09-27 17:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's weird to do the talking and trying to get together with a guy. If you do talk to a guy then the guy knows you like him or that your interested in him. Sometimes just talking to a guy for awhile and being his friend can quickly turn into something more then just friendship. If I were you I would go up and talk to this guy he may like you just as much as you like him. He may be nervous or to shy to come up and talk to you. If you don't go up and talk to him then you will never know how he feels about you or if it could have turned into something more. Good Luck with this.
2006-09-28 01:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by Apy S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah kinda weird in the respects of u doing the approachig aint fun without the chase but i wouldnt mind the girl paying for my homecoming and prom tickets :D LOL messin
2006-09-28 00:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found that sometimes girls have to make the first move and although it's scary, it's worth it in the end.
2006-09-28 00:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make the move that way you pick, not him. Also if you were to pick me than I would know that you like me and I will take it from there...but since you havent asked yet, what are you doing later....
2006-09-28 00:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation.
2006-09-28 00:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋