me!! i am polite and dress nice.my looks are okay i look just like my avatar hair and everything! any advice??
2006-09-27 17:06:56 · 34 answers · asked by MS. DAISY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men approach confidence and assertiveness. DON"T BE SHY. I don't know if your attractive or not, the avatar means nothing to me, but I've seem some unattractive ladies and even some considered obese and they're pullin some descent lookin dudes.
Work on your GAME!! Some dudes are shy as well, make the 1st move and feel comfortable with yourself. Break the ice, buy HIM a drink.
Good luck.
On another note, are you permiscious? If you put out that night you barely have a chance to secure a man. Men like their "girls" to keep them hooked on the line.
2006-09-27 17:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by django716 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I swuare this happens all the time....
If you have a boyfriend, tons of men are trying to get with you.
If your single, noone is in sight.
Trick I learned, go out with guy friends.
When your with someone of the opposite sex, others get curious and want to know more about you. FACT.
Also if your pretty and you dress really nice, your most likely to intimadate men. Its true alot of my guy friends have confessed to this. They said if a girl is hella fine, they most likely wont go up to her because they are scared of getting dissed. Personally, I get way more game when Im dressed casually than when Im wearing a really cute outfit, hair done and everything! Wierd!
So just in case your doing this, dress down a bit. Also make sure your hair color is tasteful cus if its too off the hook, guys and people in general will look away.
2006-09-27 17:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by muuuua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Babygirl,
First let me start my saying STOP looking for a guy. Let him find you. You are young, concentrate on things that you like to do things that make you happy. If it's satisfactory to you maybe make a career out of it. When you start to do things that make you happy you will soon meet that someone that will be at the same place at the same time as you. Besides its not about your looks when you meet that special someone he will fall in love with YOU not your apparel.
Concentrate on personal growth and development and when Mr. Right does come along you will know what to do to keep him happy.
2006-09-27 17:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by bizlady_01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so desperate. Why do you need a boyfriend? Will he make you feel special?
You are indpendent. You shouldn't need a man to make you feel validated!
Learn to love yourself first--if a guy knows that you won't be needy or clingy, you just turn twice as attractive. Most guys would rather get to know a woman who KNOWS she's gorgeous and smart and independent. Instead of having a girl always ask "do you think I'm fat" or "do you love me?" be the girl who doesn't need a guy. She CHOOSES to be with a guy because she wants to be, not because it's needed to survive.
2006-09-27 17:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to places where people are not so conservative. From your avatar it seems like you are on the punk side so go to clubs that play metal music and such. If you are a nice woman you will meet someone great in time
2006-09-27 17:10:00 · answer #5 · answered by *Amanda* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u could change the way u look just a lil and see how they look at u :p or u can be ur self and walk up to a guy that u wanna approach and start a convosation, a lot of guys saw a pretty girl they're shy to look or talk to u, so we have to talk to them fist.
2006-09-27 17:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the red hair . Go with a soft brunette look . Channel your inner girly girl .Hit on guys hard . Date outside your race , date white guys .
2006-09-27 17:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your avatar looks a little wild and crazy. That may turn some normal guys away but if you are acting in a wild and crazy manner, I would think some other wild and crazy guys would look your way.
2006-09-27 17:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by Zero Cool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself the right person will come along when your not looking. I find if you search so much you'll go crazy thinking something is wrong with yourself. Be patient and let the right guy come your way.
Don't rush it, keep yourself busy so, you don't think about so much.
2006-09-27 17:32:38 · answer #9 · answered by sandysweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be your self and don't try to change your self other whys guys will only want to sleep with u not have a relation ship 2 go talk some guys let them no u r there i mean guy ain't the smarts pl on the plant
2006-09-27 17:10:19 · answer #10 · answered by latigerchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋