i have a boyfriend we've been together for more than year now, i love him, we both dream, e have the same school and in the same field, we are too close to each other, our parents are already friends, in our studies, he missed some of our classes because he is staying inside the computer shop almost every hour.... is he really love me? another thing is, he has a textmate a first year college student of our school, but he told me, he only treats that girl as a little sister....please help, ilove him so much, and i don't want to lose him...
2006-09-27 17:34:31 · 11 answers · asked by cheng 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has done nothing to betray your trust, then you should believe him about his friend that goes to your school. If you are insecure about the relationship, your insecurity alone could ruin it. If you can't trust the person that you are in the relationship with, it won't work.
2006-09-27 17:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by Justin H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do tend to treat younger girls as a little sister, especially if they have little sisters. My boyfriend has a lot of girls he calls "sister" and they are no way related. But the point is, don't worry about him, I'm sure he won't screw up such a good thing/ But if you are that worried about it, talk to him. Communication is the number 1 tool in a relationship, if you can't communicate with him, there is no reason you 2 are still together...
2006-09-28 00:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have trust in every realationship,or it just doesnt work.If he ends up leaveing than it was never ment to be....Life is too short to worry if you are going to loose some body....injoy life ,live every day as it was your last.........If this realationship doesnt work out ,dont worry there are plenty of more men out there that will treat you the way you should be.dont let some guy turn yor life up side down..If a gut wants to leave they will you cant stop them so why worry....yea sure you love him ,but dont make your self look like an idiot....Dont give him that pleasure to see you gavel over him..........But than agian maybe he wont leave ya.......she could realy be his friend.......
2006-09-28 00:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by rachael z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, we have all been there... If it is meant to be you can't mess it up. And if it is not meant to be, you cannot keep it. So ride the waves... no-one knows for sure... but peace is in believing in things deeper then your problems. Good luck girl:)
2006-09-28 00:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by Tia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL you what. GIVE him space if he comes looking 4 you then it was ment to be. YOU cant make a man love you. HE needs to decide that 4 his self.
2006-09-28 00:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cling. Start backing off a bit. If he loves you, he'll reel you right back in. Just stay sweet - not Needy.
2006-09-28 00:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by risa131313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are fine, give him the benefit of the doubt. If he cheats on you or something like that, then he isn't worth it, like really.
2006-09-28 00:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by bks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been together for over a year, he prolly loves you.
2006-09-28 00:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD TRUST HIM, AND IF HE HAS NOT GIVEN YOU A REASON NOT TO, THEN DONT LET THIS WORRY YOU,
BU IF YOU HAVE A REASON TO DOUBT HIS LOVE THEN
YOU NEED TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT.
2006-09-28 00:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been showin' him your t*ts,like a good girl?
2006-09-28 00:36:49 · answer #10 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋