God has blessed me with a man who is absolutely everything I've always wanted. I cannot even begin to describe the love that I have in my heart from this man.
Here is the problem.
In the last few months there have been many times where I have drinken so much that I cannot recall what I did or said. I go on crying sprees when I am drunk and ramble on and on. He told me the other night that I practically broke up with him. I have gotten help for my drinking, and stopped for a while. But because of stresses in my life, I have had quite a few times where I just had too much. He never complains. He tells me that I am not at all mean, just that I cry alot and that he makes sure that I am ok.
My question is........how can he love me this much to put up with this? I couldn't put up with it. He says he loves me, and he doesn't LIKE it, but it doesn't bother him........I tell him that I am so sorry, and he always says "don't worry about it. I love you."
I don't want to lose him...
2006-09-27 17:11:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your story is really sad...I really hope you get all the strenght you need to stop drinking....you need to realize what a good man you have with you , that he loves you that much to put up with your problem. You need to be in your five senses to enjoy what life has bring you...I don't know what kind of problems you have that is causing you to get depressed and at the same time giving you excuse to drink...but the only thing I can say to you is GOOD LUCK, and get some help..not just for your drinking problem but for your stress, don't throw away the man you have right beside you, God Bless You!
2006-09-27 17:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by fun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he probably thought about it. But you should continue to seek professional help. Alcoholism is very serious, don't wait. You know you have a problem. He loves you and if you try to change, he will be by your side (it seems like it). Tell him you want to be better and that you need him to be there, but don't just say it, do something. Go to an AA meeting, talk to someone. Good Luck.
2006-09-28 00:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by Megan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a good man who loves you. You really need to stop drinking completely. Learn to have a good time without alcohol.
2006-09-28 00:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has to bother him ...how can anyone say it's okay for your g/f, wife, whoever..to get so wasted & act a fool, crying & babbling on... if you know you lose control after too many then why do you keep doing it ? get some help. i would have left you already & altho he has more patience, he'll only take so much
2006-09-28 00:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by DEWEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well PRAYER is the answer for this question i know you dont wanna lose him just PRAY if its gods will hell turn things around.
2006-09-28 00:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by ~Godrules~#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's simply patient and understanding.
Stop drinking so much!
2006-09-28 00:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by Kittyfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop drinking before you do loose him.
2006-09-28 00:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋