My girlfriend found out i was a virgin through some of my friends, and we ended up talking about it. In the middle of the conversation she told me "It's ok ur a virgin,my last boyfriend didn't lose his virginity until he was 21". The thing that scares me about that is that she is 14 and i am too,i also heard her boyfriend is gangbangin',my friends said she said her last boyfriend was a Latin King. What should i do?,i love her but she does quite akward things. The thing i also hate is that she kisses everyone on the cheek,i though she only kissed me on the cheek,but i found out she kisses al of her friends on the cheek,best friend,cousin ect. HELP ME!
2006-09-27 17:11:55 · 15 answers · asked by Ramon O 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look,she's not trashy not a hoar. I think with kissing on the cheeks part it might have something to do with her nationality,she's Peruvian/Codorian/Puerto Rican. She's definetelly not fast,she made me talk to her a month to get with her,she told me the first day i tried to get with her "I'm Not Fast".
2006-09-27 17:19:03 · update #1
she's not forcing me to do anything,just so u know,she's cool as hell.
2006-09-27 17:20:32 · update #2
She has no problem with me being a virgin,see she always tell my friends thing she want tell me,and they run and tell me. She said she thinks its cute that i'm a virgin.Whats so cute about that?lol
2006-09-27 17:21:47 · update #3
Its not that bigger deal! Everyone makes stupid relationship choices, im sure you have! Age is just a number and your with her now not that dude, so obviously she figured out that the age difference wasnt going well for her.
About the kissing just talk to her (and remember a kiss on the cheek to her friends n family isnt a bad thing)
And um about the virgin thing its good that your still a virgin at 14! Trust me its really really good!
Well good luck with it all!
2006-09-27 17:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See through all you are saying and you will come up with this: your girlfriend lacks healthy boundaries.
1. She kisses everyone. Not only is this kind of phoney, but not everyone you know deserves this sort of intimacy.
2. She dated a 21 year old and had sex with him. Not only is the age difference big (21-14 is a lot at that age. When you are over 20, it is not so bad, but as a young teen and a young adult, you can see what I mean) 21 males who date 14 year old girls are either incredibly immature or are just looking for an easy naive girl who will put up with things a girl their own age would know better than to deal with.
3. What does it say about someone who doesn't care that the person they are with is abusive towards others and is active in a lifestyle that makes that abuse part of it's goal? She has pretty flexible morals if she let his lifestyle slide.
4. What do you think about a girl who tells her ex-boyfriends most intimate secrets to the next guy that comes along? If she can do it to him, she can certainly do it to you! Not a very good quality for someone you want to share a very private thing with.
You are 14 and sound mature for your age. The most mature thing you can do is save your intimacy for someone who deserves it, not someone who values it so little that they give it away freely to anyone in line. That does not mean she is a bad person. It just means you are on a differnet level than her.
2006-09-27 17:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by BadSarahBad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 and having sex! what is wrong with the this day and
age .. 14 is still a kid.. I am sorry but 14 is ridiculous to young to be doing that stuff.. at 14 the exciting things are holding hands and walking on the bike path or in the mall.. kissing for the first time.. having your first nice dinner out at a restauraunt, going to the movies! Jeeeeeez
2006-09-27 17:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! Calm down! If you really love her, you will decide to stay with her even if some gang dude would try to beat you up! And if your not happy with the kissing the cheek , which is how most latins greet each other, tell her how you feel and maybe changes might be maid. So dude, calm down! But careful, she dated a 21 year old! Probaly hyperactive with that stuffand cause you probles. though i would probably wait till you get older...you want to wait for that special day
2006-09-27 17:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by Shy Kido 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Get the hell away from her and do it now!!! You are fourteen and embarrassed about being a virgin? They were right when they say the kids aren't alright.
2006-09-27 17:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn u! hell get ur head thinking bout studies...cause if u dont make it good...u sure will be just bangin the walls...& 14 is a age where one experients all..& so is ur Gf... just tell her to be safe & for u...keep the friendship rest will make sence when u hav enough maturity...u will learn much more of this world...there r all kinda of people around...keep ur parents close they will guide u right....& just tc
God bless u
2006-09-27 17:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first answer. Cut that skankwad off now before she rips your heart out and feeds it to a stray dog.
2006-09-27 17:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by moonshadow_knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break up with her right away. A hypersexual 14-year-old girl will bring you nothing but trouble and venereal diseases.
2006-09-27 17:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes 14 and had a 21 yr old bf? dude, find a new gf who isnt so dumb and trashy
2006-09-27 17:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make up your mind, you said 31 in one question and 21 in another. A girl that sleeps around is trashy, whether you like it or not.
2006-09-27 19:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋