Is my friend just shy or does she not care?

Question

I am with this really awesome , but it seems when I ask her a question, the answer is I don't know or I don't care. Maybe she is just being shy but I need a way that we can really become close. I Spent 2 hours trying to figure this question out and so far have come up with nothing. If you have any valuable info please tell.

Answer 1

i,m sure she cares . maybe she has trouble opening up to peop;e. maybe she has been hurt in the past and afraid to get to close to someone.

Answer 2

well in this case i say that the best thing to do is to tell her how you've been feeling, it looks to me like you have some hidden feelings for her, and so does she. I'm thinking that she likes you but doesnt want to risk anyhting to show it, its either this or you have done somehting that really offended her that you are ignorant towards, she doesnt want to ruin the relationship she has with you, but at the same time she wants to give you a heads up on how she feels, she;s implying it without actually telling you whats going on...the best thing to do is to tell her how you feel....and if in the end she really doesnt care, or doesnt want to talk to you, then maybe you guys arnt meant for eachother like you thought...its sad, but it could be true

good luck

fuzzy...

Answer 3

You are asking for someone to provide you with a way that you can MAKE her work to YOUR AGENDA.
She may not be ready for a relationship with you or anybody else. You will just have to be patient, & just let her know that you are interested in her.

Answer 4

It sounds like she is not comfortable telling you what she really thinks and feels.

Answer 5

she could be trying to be nonchalant. sometimes that kind of attitude can back fire in one's face. she probably doesn't know how much it's bothering you. that kind of attitude would bother anyone.