Other - Family & Relationships - 27 December 2007

When im talking to this other personality i cant handle it she drives me crazy. I love my girl so much but when she changes I dont like who im talking to at all. the only way she can go back to normal is when she cuts herself, but i dont want her to cut herself however i do want to talk to the one that i love again. I dont know if shes just making the whole thing up for attention but, i dobt it cause thats not how she is....God i dont know what to do its driving me insane please please help me.

2007-12-27 09:53:39 · 36 answers · asked by Drew S 2

Okay.I had to buy this DVD-box for my boyfriend as a christmas present and im gonna see him tomorrow, but now here's the problem: I havent bought the DVD box yet even though I told him i had and now there isn't any of those boxes left in that store where i had to buy it like a week ago(i didnt have money at that time) and now i dunno what to do I mean,i told him that i had bought it already and that i'll give it to him next time we meet. Now I seriously dunno what to do cause he knows what the gift is so i cant buy anything else now... I know, it was stupid to tell it to him ESPECIALLY when i didnt have the ****** dvd box yet.. I am so fkin pissed right now. One might even say that im completely FKED. Im really stressed about this...i know it sounds stupid but please,anyone have any ideas what to do or what to say to him because his expecting this dvd box from me,and i also told him that i have bought it already.i need good excuses,lies etc. why i dont have it and thanks in advance. =

2007-12-27 09:51:05 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I usually answer these but the tides have changed so here we go. My ex (broke up 4-5mths ago) and me have been going in circles with our break up and she wanted to stay talking, hang out one day a week, and maybe even be intimate. I thought I would be ok with this until I found out she was going on dates, making out with guys, and being pretty active. I can't even think about this without almost puking, Why is she doing this? Does she want her cake and Ice cream? I told her that I was not going to talk to her until summer time (been 2 weeks so far) because we needed that time to heal and not be so bitter towards each other. I miss her dearly as a friend everyday and feel like this is a little game we are still playing to see who gives in first. Wish it wasn't that way. Do I give in? Do I keep my word? Do I try and get her back if I still love her? She has made herself very clear about not getting back but keeps giving me mixed messages? What would you do ladies? IS this a Game?

2007-12-27 09:46:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have worked for this co. for 7 years and have worked with this person for the same amount of time. She's started crap between me & another lady here at work, she belittles me in front of people, tells me that everyone hates me, makes fun of the way that I look, but will turn around and be super charming and friendly...she's always calling me throwed off but I think it's her? my boss is on her side and they're very chummy. What do I do? I don't want to be seen as a trouble maker or drama queen? I just want to come to work and go home. I can avoid her but she always tries to talk to me and makes me feel guilty for not waiting for her after work (she can't go anywhere by her self). We're adults...I figure that if she's such a backstabber and doesn't like me, then why try and be nice to me? I feel as if I'm in junior high again.

2007-12-27 09:44:04 · 2 answers · asked by Di Di 3

on christmas eve i recieved a gift that i have already and my cousin asked me to trade for the box and i open it and nothing was in it and i was upset is that cheating?

2007-12-27 09:43:28 · 3 answers · asked by msjessie214 2

2007-12-27 09:28:15 · 32 answers · asked by liddoxweeman123 2

2007-12-27 09:16:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it bad that a man do sex with a woman he didnot know her before ex : he met her in airport,hotel

2007-12-27 08:32:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-27 07:47:53 · 3 answers · asked by hi 3

How would tell that person( person is family) it was not a good present..when you got them a gift that was over $35.00.

2007-12-27 07:34:49 · 3 answers · asked by ? 4

My mom keeps going to a guys house and gets beat up. I want to help her but I don't know how. Can I get a restraining order, beat him up, etc...

Help!

2007-12-27 07:27:08 · 14 answers · asked by Leorina the Sky Pirate 1

Thats not fair. When these females get nice jobs they have poor choices in relationships because most of the black males are in jail somewhere.

I guess I'll have to go outside the race. I need some adventure anyway.

2007-12-27 07:09:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother has a PSP and I have a DS, so I figured I'd bring those. There's a DVD player in the car, but we don't have any new movies and the kids will only sit still for so long.

I guess I could bring coloring books. Maybe some snacks like Goldfish or something. Ummm ...

See, the thing is we're going to be doing most of our driving during the day. So I need ideas of stuff to keep them not-annoying!! xD

Also, we leave tomorrow (I pretty much just found out) so there's no time to go out and buy anything ...

And if you have any ideas for kid songs, tell me because I'm planning to make some CDs. The kids love songs like Who Let The Dogs Out and stuff like that.

2007-12-27 06:46:02 · 2 answers · asked by Me 7

2007-12-27 06:45:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think i will never be able to see sexual things like any other person would. i know it has to do with the fact that i was touched when i was younger. i am a jehovah witness and we dont have sex until be are married which i know is the best way to go. but even now i know i wont have the desires my husband will have. my questions is why do these guys hurt little girls lije they do? how did this begin? how to get over it? mani hate when people tell me to see a doctor. i have not and will never tell anyone in my family.

2007-12-27 06:22:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been marred 1yr and half I’m 22 he is 30 we have 6 month old baby. I lost all the baby weight right after I had my baby. I work out I’m a good looking girl I get that a lot. We had more sex when I was 9month pregnant than now. My husbands sex drive is very low his on depression medication which lowers his sex drive and even when has one is hard for him to get hard. Any how what makes me upset is that his not taking any pills to enhance his sex drive in the other hands he takes pills for almost everything else for working out to get bigger for sleeping for depression but he doesn’t want take any thing for his low sex drive. He knows and his worried that I may cheat on him sense I hardly get anything from his and he is very sensitive about it, but he won’t do anything about it he said he will b he never does. I never try to push him ‘cuase is should come from him. Help???

2007-12-27 06:22:00 · 4 answers · asked by Leyla 2

i am 13 and i am going out with an 8th grd. i go to a private school and he goes their. Well i saw him over christmas break and stuff and he forced me to do something inapporaite and i didn't want to and now he won't leave me alone and i told my mom and dad and they said to ignore it. I don't know what to do espeacially back at school. Help. I am in the 7th grd.

2007-12-27 06:19:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

so every time i don't talk to my boyfriend like on the phone or
i dont see him or hear from him i get really mad @ him.
when he didn't do anything. i didnt talk too him in 3 days know
and i dont even want too because it seems like he doesnt care. he doesnt bother know why should he later. i keep calling him but his dad's like he's at his cousins its like he hangs out with him more then me. and i keep having all these nightmares about him which makes it WORSE. but then when we do end up talkingg i get over it. WHY?
do i miss him too much? seems like i love him then i don't
what's up with me????!!!!!!

2007-12-27 06:11:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's too hard to not think about it when I see things on television or in movies about certain situations that I have been in. So how do you move on with a positive out look on such a painful past? Any suggestions and advice would be strongly appreciated.

2007-12-27 05:53:13 · 8 answers · asked by God Bless America!~ 4

Honestly, I have to laugh when some guy says, “I’m not getting that, I have no tolerance to pain”. This is usually the same guy that has 4 tattoos, and a visible body piercing. I even listened to a guy that told me he had “Mr Happy” pierced, but he said he didn’t want any needle anywhere near his genitals. Hahahahaha

I have heard guys that are body builders complain about paying child support for three kids, by two different women. This often results in a question like, “How about you?”. I just tell them that I had a vasectomy, and never had kids. The usually reply is, “I can’t do that because I don’t like needles”. I will usually say, “Well, I don’t like them either, but needles are a small price to pay compared to being a father.”. Usually all I get is a nod. I wonder if in their hindsight they somewhat envy guys like me.

2007-12-27 05:28:47 · 4 answers · asked by Marvin 7

I have a cousin who has always considered herself a DIVA. She always has to look good, etc....Well...I'm not conceited like she is, but I do know that I am truly beautiful. I don't walk around with a DIVA mentality like she does. Everytime we see each other, she always has something negative to say. SHe is a 30 year old woman and I am 19. She has highlights in her hair and for my 19th B-day I got golden hightlights in my hair. On Christmas she saw my highlights and she said that I am trying to copy her!!! OMG!!! I wish that she would get over herself! When I got my hair done, she never even crossed my mind! I wanted highlights becuz I wanted something new and different and I did if for ME! She is my own blood and it just irritates me that she is the way she is towards me! I noticed that she kept looking my way on Tuesday. Then she asked me did the belt that she had on look good with her outfit and I honestly told her no and she took the belt off. What is it with my DIVA cousin?

2007-12-27 05:26:00 · 1 answers · asked by **Sparkle** 1

My uncels daughter has a car and never uses it and when my uncel asked her why she dont uses it she says I whant to show my work mates that I can have a beter car than them. Is she daft?

2007-12-27 05:10:05 · 7 answers · asked by Phillip K 1

REPOST: He has an addiction problem, it has affected the house for 5 years, lost everything 3 times, lost my company, lost my home, and almost lost my salvation dealing with it. Children are out of control, he is never home, we have moved 12 times since 2002. He wanted me to stay home with the children, I have no where to go, no money. My credit is shot now and pregnant again. I am very attractive, had it going on when he met me now I have no friends, no job and 6 children, got my looks, thats it. whats the problem?

2007-12-27 04:58:01 · 9 answers · asked by mom3x2 1

My 15 year old cousin is dating a guy I went to high school with (hes 26ish). As if that weren't bad enough, she got preggo, and had a miscarriage. She is devistated, and I am just looking for some advice on what to do here. I want to tell her shes ruining her life, and that hes a peice of crap for dating a girl so young, and that losing that baby was most likely the greatest thing to happen in her life. I also know that I don't want to push her away forever, as we're pretty close and she confides a lot in me, so I can't just fly off the handle and say these things to her. Anyone know how to handle this delicate situation without crushing her feelings? And, yes, her parents are now aware of the situation...her older brother, whom the pedophile also went to school with, is also aware of the situation. Just looking for some sensitive advice here, and save us both the time on the hate mail and insensitive comments. I dont need that right now. Thanks!

2007-12-27 04:38:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-27 04:33:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My grandmas dating and I dont like him.....She seems so happy what do I do?

2007-12-27 03:58:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ran into a very nice guy a week ago, He was upfront honest about the fact he had a son and seemed genuine,so no harm done we swapped numbers.
He contacted me straightaway next day and spent next few days together relaxing.He even took me to see an ill family member, bought me food and wasnt after my body. It felt like we had known each other for ages, got on great and brill chemistry. HE asked ME if wanted to have a go at a very steady relationship since it felt so right. I agreed.
Christmas eve, however, he started to act strange and said I was acting strange when i had sent nothing. Ringing him back up after a lot of drinks to see why, i ended up getting very upset at him and what i can remember accusing him bad things.The next day he rang me up saying i had ruined his xmas we was over. Later that day he rang me again very erratic suddenly wanting me to stopover &calling me a psycho.He rang again next day but i missed it.
What is going off??I know im alch problem &he does drugs?

2007-12-27 03:55:59 · 2 answers · asked by Skye_Babez 3

This is so silly and I have no idea if I just have PMS or if i have a right to be mad. My fiance wants to take private tutoring language sessions. He told me that his soon to be teacher is a man but I just found out that it is a woman. I specifically had asked him if it was a woman prior to me finding out and he said no. Do I have a right to be mad?

2007-12-27 03:54:55 · 2 answers · asked by missy 1

I had unprotected sex (he pulled out) a few weeks ago. I could potentially be pregnant. My period was soposued to come this week, but hasn't yet. I am still feeling PMS symptoms such as moodiness, bloating, munchies, backaches...all the usual. Just no bleeding yet. Is it a good sign that I'm not if I'm having PMS symptoms? Do you usually keep PMS symptoms even if you could be pregnant? OR should I worry and go buy a pregnancy test?

2007-12-27 03:37:55 · 5 answers · asked by ---- 2

2007-12-27 02:38:57 · 24 answers · asked by Rainbowsssss 4