Other - Family & Relationships - 20 December 2007

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2007-12-20 07:50:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went to New York for the summer and loved it, I've always loved New York. But when I came home to the country I hated it. I gained weight and college was just so weird to me. How am I supposed to be an adult but the college was still trying to tie me down and make me have the same rules that I had in high school? Anyway, I really love New York but I'm just a young adult without that many funds trying to do right with my life. I do want to complete school and I want to pursue singing (which my mom is against) but I'm just not happy. I don't want to grow up to be a 40 year old that hasn't completed my dream but at the same time I want to make myself and everyone else happy. What should I do? Please don't tell me that I can't please everyone and to not care about anyones opinions but my own because it doesn't help. My family is a big part in my life and in all the decisions I make

2007-12-20 07:46:57 · 3 answers · asked by blueprincessdivina 2

My partner is 32 im 25 and we have been together 10 years and 6 months. 2005 I had sex with a man in our bed after months of falling out, it gets worse-he walks in on us and doesnt get violent just calls the police and has me removed from the house. I was then not allowed back in and forced to sleep in our little girls wendy house for two weeks. He paid for a rented house for me and 2 kids to live in, I couldnt afford to keep the kids on social security so i had no choice but to do the heart breaking thing and hand them over to the dad-the man im with. He had his revenge by sleeping with a woman he meet on line girls date for free then have sex with me at the rented house without even a bath.I can tell you i felt dirty and sick but i loved him so much and did everything i could to win him back.
Its now been 2 years since and he now tells me i wouldn't leave him alone so he felt he had no choice, he rubishes everything i do. Im demoralised and traped i cant leave him as i cant afford 2

2007-12-20 07:27:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-20 07:24:33 · 11 answers · asked by xìn xīn 1

Me and my fiance constantly fight it seems. She says its because she must repeat herself and remind me constantly of things I forget to do. So basically I cant remember things or I have to be reminded. She says she cant live the rest of her life repeating everything. Well a we have been together for 3 years and things didnt get bad till maybe a year and a half ago. She said it just all added up. Says she doesn't know if she can spend her whole life repeating things. She has a short fuse and gets frustrated pretty easy. Because I am pretty laid back she insists that i can find someone better that would treat me better, but i beg to differ. Other than that we have a pretty good relationship i think. I have suggested counseling and everything but she said it would do no good. What can I do? I try to listen better but sometimes i just zone out and cant remember what she says. I see it all as very little problems in the grand scheme of things...but i guess it really bothers her. Help?!

2007-12-20 07:16:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were together for 1 year and 8 months he told me he doesnt love me no more, and that he wants to be free cos he doesnt want a serious relationship atm
i went out the next day with a friend we met up with others, and i bumped into my ex that night he saw me with this guy who apparently wants me ( me n the guy didnt do anything at all )
and then the next day my ex said he is completly over me, and im so confused i want him back i love him so much, i have cried everynight cos i want him back, and the fact im IN love with him, he keeps saying move on and crap but i dont get i how can you just get over someone you have been with for nearly two years and not even feel hurt, to be honest i think he needs to think about what he wants and he was getting stressted about driving not having a job and trying to fit me in with seeing friends and college etc...i still love him and ive told him i do and i will wait for him now im respectin his space and his dad sed he is dissapointed wiv him?

2007-12-20 07:02:26 · 1 answers · asked by St*r 2

It's like we still have feelings for each other because whenever I ask him to do something for me he does it or when he ask me to do something for him I do.
Then our bestfriends keep telling us we need to get back together because we made a good couple.
So should I ask him whether or not we should get back together or should I just wait for him to ask me?
I just don't know what to do
I'm just so confused because I straight have feelings for him

2007-12-20 06:44:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

putting fingers up me doesnt work, and ive tried vibraters, but nothing comes. What else can I do?

2007-12-20 06:31:20 · 22 answers · asked by Amanda B 2

This Saturday, I agreed to babysit two kids and I have no idea what activities I can do with them to keep them entertained for at least 4hrs.
One of them is a boy about 10yrs old and the other one is a girl in kindergarten....

Any ideas?
Just any basic tips would be great.

2007-12-20 06:30:19 · 5 answers · asked by whatever21 4

my friend keeps getting beat up by her 15 year old daughter,where can she get help?

2007-12-20 06:29:46 · 7 answers · asked by marty w 1

I am 17 years old and I got a part time after school job at a discount store. The last time i was at work was on Tuesday and this guy came in a gave me a fake 20. I never saw a fake bill before so i checked it with the pen and I was holding the mans change in my hand. Before I could look at the bill, the man just grabbed his change and his bag and ran out of the store. I was wondering why he did that and then noticed that the bill was fake after about 2 min after the guy left. I showed it to my boss, thinking it was the right thing to do, and he yelled at me in front of everyone. I have been working there since august and he never yelled at me. I started like tearing up because he yelled at me in front of all my friends and co workers and i was totally humiliated. Later my boss came over and apologized, saying that he felt bad cause he went off on me. I accept it apology, but now i still feel totally embarresed to go back to work. How should I handle it?

2007-12-20 06:17:29 · 7 answers · asked by rEaDy4cHaNgE 4

It has been a few days and I am starting to feel alright again. How did you get through it?

2007-12-20 05:51:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so my girlfriend is beautiful and I love her and all but shes never ever horny. I mean we have sex and all that fun stuff but I have to plan it out usually 2-7 days in advance and slowly turn her on. I kiss her in her non intimate parts, run my fingers down her hips and back and do all that foreplay stuff pretty good but she is never in the mood for sex! She knows this too which makes me feel better so she usually gives me a bj which is awesome.
My question is how do I turn on a girl that never gets horney? Shes too pure and pristine which always turns me on. She never looks at porn, never thinks of other guys, never masturbates. Is this all healthy?
Will her sex drive increase with age?
We have been together for almost 3 years. I'd like some good feed back please! Thanks!

2007-12-20 05:30:26 · 4 answers · asked by drfark 2

my boyfriend wanted me to have sex with him.. we've been together for 1 year now. sometimes i feel like wanting to give my virginity to him but im afraid that if i give myself to him., he will leave me because it id just what de wanted from me. but iknow that he loves me. and i love him too. im also afraid because i think im too young to have sex. but i want to try it sometimes.

2007-12-20 03:32:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was working at a retail store. I have a lot of personal problems in my life. Even though they're NOT excusable for this sort of behavior, I used them to give a few of my family members some free merchandise from that store. I am scared. I really would like to take some time away with tears, but that is clearly impossible. I take in on all the responsibility, but I also feel super bad for my family. I have made them look like some delinquents, when it was me that persuaded them to take the merchandise. Now I would scan and delete. The videos on the camera are RIGHT. I am very nervous, embarassed and scared. Does a "Warrant" mean that they can come ANYTIME and take me away?
The store says I have to appear in court with my family, confess and agree to pay the amount I owe this store, and return most of the merchandise back to my store. I am new at this retail stuff. I make mistakes. but this one will definitely affect me for the rest of my life.
*sniff*

Thank you for your time.

2007-12-20 03:28:10 · 9 answers · asked by Ciao Bella 2

Ok im feeling pretty down today, probably the run up to Christmas and trying to get everything done......... What would you do to cheer me up?

2007-12-20 03:01:33 · 16 answers · asked by Ayrshiregal 3

I'm 16 and work part time at a store and the other day I was in the canteen and some lad said 'i'm well desperate for a shag i'd do anything at the moment' and this man from my dept whos like in his 30s,not knowing i was there, said 'what about (my name)'.
so later on in the day i just broke down about it in front of my manager (i was already having a bad day) and now hes saying hes gonna have word with the guy and get him to apologise. was i within reason to act like that or should i have just taken it on the chin and moved on?

2007-12-20 02:45:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can i make it stop? (she is not very approachable btw.)

2007-12-20 02:19:39 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My resolution is to organize my household by making a chart for my husband, our son and myself. I will also do everything to drop 60 pounds. Lastly, I will try to get out of the house more, because my husband doesn't like being stuck in the house.

2007-12-20 02:00:12 · 20 answers · asked by Melissa T 3

I hate my job. The other office manager I had just recently left after 8 1/2 years. Now the other woman I work with is office manager. She wants me to let her know every flippin fart I do. It's just ridiculous. A patient called because his family was getting life insurance on his mother and wanted her records for the past 2 years. I left a note in the doctor's box so he could give them the info that they needed and the patient wanted to know the fastest way to get the info. That's where I left it off. He had me copy the info they needed but that was it. Then apparently the patient's son showed up after I left. I got yelled at this morning and told I need to communicate more. I told her right out I did not know that anyone was going to be coming in. I mean aren't I right that since the doctor was the last to speak to them of how they would get the info he should have said something to her? I feel like crying...I'm tired of being put down.

2007-12-20 01:27:06 · 8 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2

2007-12-20 01:23:14 · 4 answers · asked by arrinne 1

i'M a VirGo Born On 28 AuguSt 1989.
WhICh HoRoScopE iS ThE beSt FoR mE??
I LikE a TauRus Guy(6 May 1984) But he Seems to Be lEss BothEred abouT me and iS alwAys With his Friends. TheRe's AnoTher VirGo Guy(26 aug 1987) Who SeeMs To bE inTerEsteD abOut Me buT i'M Taking iT SlowLy. And my CouSin Who's An AquAriuS(6 FeB 1986) Who Is WaiTing To GEt me.. I ReaLly Don't know WhiCh GuY is The RighT guy For me. I WanT To GeT a Guy Who wOuld ReaLly Be TheRe For mE, Who WoulD ReaLly LovE anD ChErisH mE.. I'm ConFusEd.. I nEed Help!!!

2007-12-20 01:14:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean we have ours done, but I know of some that don't and have a house and children. I keep trying to tell them, you need to get it done. But, I really don't know what happens if you don't have anything in writting. Does it have to be legalized?
What happens?

2007-12-20 00:50:11 · 5 answers · asked by Mom of 2 great boys 7

Do you have a will?
Do you have a funeral plan?

If you have no assets, then please don't answer this.

2007-12-20 00:42:04 · 9 answers · asked by Mom of 2 great boys 7