my boyfriend wanted me to have sex with him.. we've been together for 1 year now. sometimes i feel like wanting to give my virginity to him but im afraid that if i give myself to him., he will leave me because it id just what de wanted from me. but iknow that he loves me. and i love him too. im also afraid because i think im too young to have sex. but i want to try it sometimes.
2007-12-20 03:32:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i already done it.. and it definitely hurts.. huhu..
2007-12-21 01:57:25 · update #1
Its your decision, but it does involve laws in most spots and he could get in lots of trouble. I suggest you wait, and make sure it is your love he really wants.
2007-12-20 03:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question that matters here is if you got pregnant do you feel you could raise this child at the age of 17? Imagine how this will affect your life. Nobody intends to get pregnant at that age. So really think about the consequences of sex. Some STD's can claim your life and others will just make your sex life tough. Good Luck & God Bless!
2007-12-20 11:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by zerotimeforfun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you have the answer honey. I think that if you're afraid of anything, you are not ready. I don't think you are ready just yet because if you were ready, you would not ask yourself those questions. There's no rush :-)
Just please do not have sex because you are afraid he will leave you. If you do have sex, use protection! the last thing you want to do is get pregnant.
2007-12-20 11:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by S007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready, dont do it.Just know that if you do, your BF most likely wont leave you for that, because if all he wanted out of a relationship was sex, then he would be with someone who would give it to him right away, not wait around for a year.He really loves you, I would say, and it sounds like he is respectable and will respect your decision, whatever it may be.!
2007-12-20 11:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by *_* Katerrr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you that much, wait until he's made a commitment to you. (i.e. marriage). If you give your virginity to someone who hasn't made a commitment to you, you're just asking to be hurt and asking for trouble. Sex won't make him love you one bit more, but it could make him respect you a whole lot less in the long run.
2007-12-20 11:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by Rock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you're too young to have sex, you are. Wait until you're certain you are ready, and when you do, make sure the guy wears a condom for safety.
2007-12-20 11:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do it when you feel its right. The legal age is 16 so your not too young legally. You should talk about it first. Have trust in him
2007-12-20 11:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by Sarahz12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.
SO i WAS iN THE SAME EXACT SiTUATiON. EVEN THE SAME AGE & EVERYTHiNG!.
& LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHiNG =]
ALL MY LIFE i WAS TOLD "DONT HAVE SEX TiLL MARRIAGE" AND i HAD MY MiND SET ON THAT.
BUT THEN NOEL CAME iNTO MY LIFE [HES MY FIRST ACTUAL LOVE]
i KNOW HE LOVES ME & i LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART BUT i TOO WAS HESiTATiNG.
BUT iF YOU ARE SO SURE THAT HE LOVES YOU LIKE YOU SAY HE DOES THEN WHY WOULD HE LEAVE YOU?
iF THAT'S ALL HE WANTED HE WOULD OF LEFT EARLiER THAN WAiTiNG FOR YOU.
WHATEVER YOU DO iS YOUR DECiSiON. BUT ME
i DiD GiVE iT UP TO HiM & i HAVE NO REGRETS CAUSE AT LEAST i KNOW THAT HE LOVES ME & i LOVE HiM SO i CANT REGRET LOVE.
& EVEN iF YOU GUYS DONT LAST FOREVER AT LEAST YOU KNOW YOU LOST iT TO SOMEONE WHO LOVED YOU <3
2007-12-20 11:42:12 · answer #8 · answered by celeste 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, because you're not married yet. and don't you want to give your future husband the best gift of all? your virginity... i know i'd sound stupid to others but hey, isn't it better to wait till you're married? think about it.
& all the best in whatever you decide. :)
2007-12-20 11:38:45 · answer #9 · answered by bluey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to think about it, that is, if you have any question in your mind, then the answer is no, don't do it. Only give it up when you are certain.
2007-12-20 11:36:30 · answer #10 · answered by crazyotto65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋