My partner is 32 im 25 and we have been together 10 years and 6 months. 2005 I had sex with a man in our bed after months of falling out, it gets worse-he walks in on us and doesnt get violent just calls the police and has me removed from the house. I was then not allowed back in and forced to sleep in our little girls wendy house for two weeks. He paid for a rented house for me and 2 kids to live in, I couldnt afford to keep the kids on social security so i had no choice but to do the heart breaking thing and hand them over to the dad-the man im with. He had his revenge by sleeping with a woman he meet on line girls date for free then have sex with me at the rented house without even a bath.I can tell you i felt dirty and sick but i loved him so much and did everything i could to win him back.
Its now been 2 years since and he now tells me i wouldn't leave him alone so he felt he had no choice, he rubishes everything i do. Im demoralised and traped i cant leave him as i cant afford 2
2007-12-20 07:27:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, you've got yourself in quite a pickle here. Best of luck to you.
2007-12-20 07:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is this the way you're raising your children--in this kind of filthy environment. I feel sorry for you, because you don't have the courage to fight for your children's well being. Neither you nor their father have any self respect. You behave like animals and you have no business with children. I honestly hope someone will have the good sense to place them in a proper home, before they grow up to be like you!
2007-12-20 07:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't let someone abuse me ever again, (i'm a man), but verbal/phy abuse runs both ways!! Make a plan to leave w/kids, and get away from him,it will never get any better!
2007-12-20 15:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been together for 10 years... that is common-law marriage in most states.
If those are his kids, you need to file for child support.
2007-12-20 08:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you like to take the abuse. Move on and have some dignity for yourself and the kids.
2007-12-20 07:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Leonidas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋