Other - Family & Relationships - 16 December 2007

2007-12-16 12:15:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

alright i know you cant FORCE anyone to commit to a relationship...but how can i help him want to?

2007-12-16 11:59:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so I'm in high school and have trouble talking to guys.. when they talk to me its like hard to get a conversation going like its all" hey, whutsup, how are you, anything new, yeah, so ,awkeward silence, ttyl", and its hard especially when I like the boy..its like I'm socially awkaward talking to guys because for so long my parents were so strict and wouldn't let me talk to them..and now they let me

how do I talk to a guy..like conversation and actually seem interesting and funny and stuff
help please!

2007-12-16 11:54:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have just found out that my 14 year old stepsone has been sexually touching my 4 year old daughter. She is my only child and I feel that I hate him he is not alound to be here at this time or spend the night at all. But when I do see him I believe that I'm going to freak. I have so much anger and feel that I have failed as a parent. I couldn't even protect my own daughter in her own how. Never thought that this would have happened exspecially to our family. Why couldn't I protect her in my own home? This is her brother that she loves and looks up to. How could I fail I guess that I blame my self should I? Please help !!!!

2007-12-16 11:52:28 · 27 answers · asked by krispix 2

ok well i think this guy may like me. i have 3 classes with him. i catch him listening to my convesations sometimes, playing attention to what i wear (he commented that we both have a pink floyd shirt), and i catch him staring at me sometimes. also when my friends are mean to me and i go over to hang out with him i ask him if im bugging him and he quickly says no.

i like him alot but something happened over the weekend.
my mother rear ended his sister yesterday (my mom was only going like 2 mph and she was stopped so it wasnt huge at all and no one was hurt) and he was in the car and it was kinda awkward/embarrassing because he kept staring at me the whole time and kept grinning.
do u think he likes me?
do u think he'll make a huge deal on monday about what happened?

thanks so much for the advice!!! so sorry if this is confusing!!

2007-12-16 11:42:27 · 4 answers · asked by nycLAgirl604 2

My wife gave birth 20 months ago and she is STILL wearing her pregnancy clothes. All the weight she gained during her pregnancy is still there and she has shown no motivation AT ALL to lose it.
Because her best friend keeps putting weight on (because her man likes larger women) she seems to think I wouldn't mind that either. I have asked her nicely to lose some weight as she is also a chronic asthmatic but she still seems to think that she'll be O.K.
Her mother keeps saying " You look good dear" everytime she see's her and this pisses me off even more as she thinks that mummy thinks shes losing weight when she is not!

We went on a holiday a short time ago and she saw a nice dress ($160.00) that she liked but the size was a size to small, so I said I'd buy her that dress if she lost the required weight by xmas, and give it to her as a xmas present, but as I was about to buy it she said no don't worry about it.

She's just too lazy to bother losing it.

Any advice please!

2007-12-16 11:40:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-16 11:39:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I met during our 8th grade year, by the end of that year, we were boyfriend/girlfriend. We dated all the way up until the beginning of our Sophmore year, when I finally broke it off because I didn't want sure a serious relationship at such a young age. We still talked every now and then, but We went on to date other people. One night during the end of our Junior year, he randomly calls and comes to my house; we both had just gotten out of nasty realtionships, and we talked for hours on my front porch, shortly after we became BF/GF,again. We just currently finished our 1st semester of college,together and about a month ago I broke up with him because he was acting different, we just got back together a couple days ago, because he seemed like he was still really into me. He tells me he loves me, but his actions tell me otherwise, like the way he kisses me and looks at me or hugs me, it not the same like it used to be, but he says he still feels the same. What going on?

2007-12-16 11:38:39 · 1 answers · asked by OMGflyingMONKEYS 2

I want to give her something thatll sweep her off her feet. That'll make her cry and show how much I love her. The first time we kissed was on a beach. I was thinking of driving to that beach and somehow using sand from the beach to remind her of that day. Also she loveeesssss flowers.

Anyone know how I can use those items? Any ideas? Suggestions? Let me know!

2007-12-16 11:35:37 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2

Why does a man state that he really wants to get with a person? Then when the person reciprocates, the person who "gushed" all over themselves, "acts" as though he has no clue. This has not been done "once" but multiple times. When he appears, he is all "happy" to see me. He even pretended he didn't say that he cared for me, to all of those people. What is going on here. The way that he acted, it almost sounded like an advertisement. He "kissed me" on the cheek at a "party" and no alcohol was served there. He "hugged me" in the aisle at church. This is very strange behavior.

2007-12-16 11:33:13 · 18 answers · asked by In God We Trust 7

Today is Sunday. I never shaved since Thursday. I was thinking about growing a beard because I want to see what I would look like with one. And I want to see how people would react at school. Also, I want to look older. I'm 18.

2007-12-16 11:29:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why does a man state that he really wants to get with a person? Then when the person reciprocates, the person who "gushed" all over themselves, "acts" as though he has no clue. This has not been done "once" but multiple times. When he appears, he is all "happy" to see me. He even pretended he didn't say that he cared for me, to all of those people. What is going on here. The way that he acted, it almost sounded like an advertisement. He "kissed me" on the cheek at a "party" and no alcohol was served there. He "hugged me" in the aisle at church. This is very strange behavior.

2007-12-16 11:28:48 · 5 answers · asked by In God We Trust 7

should i forgive her or not. If I try to ignore her it never works. what should i do?

2007-12-16 11:23:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in a long distance relationship, and we have been bf and gf for few weeks now. He calls me almost everyday. The thing is he keeps saying he wants me to go there and visit him, but the only problem is that my parents don't let me go. I tried talking with my mam, and to let me go for couple of days but it didnt work. So I have told him that they dont let me go, and he didnt really say much about it. I do want to se him and everything, but I just don't know if I could do it sence my parents don't let me. He is 22..and I am 19. I just don't know what to tell my parents..they will think am crazy. All I want to do is visit him..and thats all, not move in with him, or ran away from home. What should I do..help me?give me some advice please.
The only thing is I am not sure if I trust him, because he did kiss a girl once when he was really drunk in a bar.
Also we have never really hang out as bf and gf before.
Also he dosent call me when he says he would, he just goes out and drinks

2007-12-16 11:22:54 · 4 answers · asked by blondie 3

2007-12-16 09:30:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife was in a relationship with another man while i was working. i thought me and this guy were friends but she had a three week relationship with him.now she wants a long distance relationship with him.i told my wife that id take the the kids and divorce her if she ever talked to him again.

2007-12-16 07:51:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have this habit of cutting my hairs with my teeth. whenever i am thinking something or i am upset about anything i start playing with my hairs and start cutting them with my teeth. tell me something to get rid of it?

2007-12-16 07:42:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my mom do not share a very great relationship. Her and my sister are really close. I feel really really left out. Whenever me and my sister get in an arguement she always supports my sister even if i am the one that is right. This morning me and her got in a really huge fight and she has decided that she wants me to move with my brother to a different city. Does she not love me? Is that why she wants me to leave her and my sister alone. It hurts me to know that my mom is tired of me and doesn't want me to be around her anymore. I just want to be able to have a better relationship with her and my sister but it seems like they don't want me to be a part of them.How can i do this?

2007-12-16 07:37:36 · 11 answers · asked by bubbalicoius 2

We broke up on monday, and he treated me sooo bad, lied, did drugs, went behind my back didnt give a damn about my feelings throughout the relationship when i did everything for him ! and i just feel so much hate towards him..... I feel like sending him a txt message saying I hate him for the way he treated me, i havent called or talked to him since monday nor did he try to talk to me. . . i just want to say it so bad, but at the same time ppl are telling me not to do anything.... what do u think?

2007-12-16 07:33:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, I apologise for asking this question, but my partner is 44 and up until recently, whenever we had sex would always last for at least an hour before climaxing. The same goes for whenever I gave him oral sex. We split up for a while and didn't have sex, but have recently got back together (after a months' break) and have had sex about 4 times since then (it's been once a week because we've both been busy). Anyway since we started sleeping together again he's only been 'lasting' around 15 minutes. This is actual intercourse, although there has been quite a bit of foreplay (rubbing, touching etc) beforehand lasting about 15-30 minutes. He's embarrassed by what he percieves as him coming quickly whereas I'm not bothered, but is there anything he can do to get back his 'sexual stamina', and what has caused him to suddenly start coming more quickly?

2007-12-16 06:45:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

but what would you do? i'm 19 and shes like 21. Female friend by the way.

2007-12-16 06:09:12 · 25 answers · asked by Emm H 2

so its a nor-easter here in Boston and im going stir crazy in my house...im stuck in the house and my street hasnt been plowed so im stuck here for the day...i need some ideas of things to do before i go totally nuts...i wrapped all my xmass presents, i watched some movies and im watchin the pats game..what else is there to do on a snowy messy day? what are YOU doin during this winter wonderland?

2007-12-16 05:37:05 · 7 answers · asked by jennybean7985 5

how to tell the difference between a guy who is genuinely being nice when talking to you, or feeding you a bunch of sweet lines for ulterior motives?

ive been hooking up with a guy and ive been having no problem staying unattached (we get along GREAT but neither wants anything serious right now). BUT he sweet talks me and makes it HARD for me to not fall for it.

He'll say things like...
I just love talking to you, call me anytime..
I have so much when I'm around you.
Hopefully I get to see you again soon...I would love it.
If we went to the same school, I could definitely see us chillin together...

Whats the deal? It's been kind of clear to me that it's purely a chemistry thing. we'll go out together, dance, drink, and hook up. and then talk on the phone later. haha. we have soo much fun, but that's all.

so why does he feel the need to say sweet things and make me interested in perhaps having something more???

2007-12-16 05:32:19 · 8 answers · asked by autumn 1

my partner and my friend hate each other, they have never got on, i don't know why they just never seemed to take with one another, but its has got progressively worse over time and now they refuse to even be in the same room. at my birthday party my friend refused to come because my partner was there and in the end i had to have two celebrations just so i could spend time with them both. and since i moved in with my other half my friend hasn't been round to mu house she wont even come round when he isn't here, she refuses to come near the place. the thing is tho that she never says a bad thing about him, she doesn't want to split us up or cause trouble she just cant stand him.
its got so bad that i cant carry on this way its ruining both relationships. i know sometime soon i am going to have to chose between them but i have no idea how to do this.

2007-12-16 05:31:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a little offended by my male friend in work. I emailed him and asked if he fancyed meeting up after the works do which he didnt reply to and i texted him in the evening which he didnt reply to. Weve been friends a while but every time in an email i suggest do u want to do anything out side of work he answers everything else part from that. He asked me over his flat which i went and we go to lunch why is he like that. Is he one of those people. Hes very worksworthy and takes his job serious

2007-12-16 05:03:30 · 14 answers · asked by shelley 1

I really dont get it. In England I know people who, at the age of 14, are drinking,smoking and having sex. People who at 15 have wild party's with alchaole and have boyfriends or girlfriends...

I'm 16. I don't get drunk, go out late at night or anything. Dont get me wrong I'm not some freak who stays at home I like going to cinemas, inviting people round and play video games and stuff but I feel Getting drunk, going out late in the night and having wild party's are for 19 year old +. Am I right? What are your views?

2007-12-16 04:48:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does it mean?

2007-12-16 04:41:11 · 9 answers · asked by Jodie 1

Do they grow out of it? Is it just a phase?

2007-12-16 04:36:13 · 38 answers · asked by hannah.lydia 1

2007-12-16 04:02:12 · 1 answers · asked by Phillip K 1

in may this year i had his son and 2 weeks after he was born i discovered my partner had been lying about everything - pretending to go 2 work & spending all day in the bookies & he lost all our savings & rent which lead to us loosing our house & after being found out then got defensive & tried blaming me so i left with the children & set up a new home of my own with the kids. For the last 5 months he has begged for us back & tried to show me he had mended his ways & i softened & took him back but i didnt let him move back in, i realised he was still playing poker (casinos/pubs/online) & lying to me about it & when i told him to give it up or loose us he told me he couldnt stop playing because it is his life!!! This has gutted me that he could choose poker over us after everything but i know it is an addiction & i want to try & help him only i dont know where 2 start, i have 2 try 4 my family, has anyone been through this or know where i should start?

2007-12-16 03:37:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous