Other - Family & Relationships - 11 November 2007

The person you grew up with turns out to be GAY...What would you do?

2007-11-11 22:23:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend has told me that she has smoked a liked it and that she's soon to lose her viginity to a 19 year old.

I don't know help?

2007-11-11 21:36:28 · 12 answers · asked by Sophia 1

2007-11-11 21:29:55 · 14 answers · asked by juicy 1

Im gonna make this as short as possible.
I am having a decorator around to paint today and my fella knows him so he is picking him up to bring him to and forth.
I got a text this morning from the girl that gives me a lift in the mornings to work to say she couldnt pick me up. I didnt read the txt until it was too late so I asked my fella what time he was going to pick up his mate for my decorating as it passes my work. he asked why so I told him I would be late for work if I had to get the bus. He didnt answer me so I asked him if he could take me and asked him again what time he was picking up the decorator and his reply was 'well it looks like I have to go now doesnt it'! I didnt like his answer so I told him to sod off and it didnt matter and i would just go for the bus. We ended up arguing and he was shouting that he takes me everywhere . He then called me a selfish b*tch. I was so stunned and im so upset. I would do anything for him too! How should I deal with this?

2007-11-11 21:08:12 · 12 answers · asked by vintage-topper 3

assuming the "i'm going to the restroom" trick doesn't work.

2007-11-11 21:02:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. Never go to bed angry.
2. Never name call.
3. Never bring up old conflicts.
4. Never blame.
5. Never try to be right, always try to be happy.
6. Always listen to your partner, never assume they are attacking you, they are just expressing their feelings.
7. Always accept responsibility for your wrongs.
8. Never turn nasty when you don’t know what else to do.
9. Always let go of your insecurities or you will never really be able to love or be loved.
10. Always talk to each other about everything or you will turn away from each other.
11. Never keep secrets form your partner or you will learn to lie easily.
12. Never bring up your past relationships or your partners. We all have old flames and its all about experience. Experience makes better relationships.
13. Never discuss what your partner did in a previous relationship as it’s not your relationship.
14. In 50 years time the last thing you will remember about your partner is all the bad things. All we will focus on is the moments we had together so again always aim for positive happiness.
15. If you don’t feel heard by your partner, use words like “I don’t feel heard”, “I need you to try and hear me and understand me”. Never just give up and start screaming.
16. Sometimes if your discussion isn’t going anywhere we need to agree to disagree, this may be the hardest thing you will ever have to do but we are all different and that’s a good thing.
17. Never let your family or friends influence your relationship.
18. If your partner has a problem with your family its up to you to fix it.
19. Always stand up for your partner over anyone, they will be there forever.
20. If you feel your partner is wrong with something they are blaming you for, never start yelling, listen first then calmly discuss how you feel about it.
21. Always make time for your partner without anyone, as these moments are what build a happy relationship.
22. Always explore different ways of making your sex life better.
23. Never bring someone else into your bedroom. Your sex life is a huge ground of your relationship and to bring someone else in can and most likely will, create insecure thoughts and feelings. These are your special times together and no one else deserves to share them.
24. Always show affection towards your partner in front of your children (not sexually), what they see will build their own relationships.
25. Never feel you cannot talk to your partner, if your partner cannot listen then seek help.
26. Always look towards your partner first.
27. Always rely on your partner.
28. If you have something to say, say it. Never let anyone even your partner, walk all over you. This will cause disrespect.
29. Always respect and trust your partner.
30. Never, Never, Never give up on your relationship.

2007-11-11 19:24:42 · 14 answers · asked by emesumau 4

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Don’t forget to star if you like this question ... Hey this is only a reminder, not a request.

2007-11-11 19:01:20 · 14 answers · asked by ? 4

She dont combs her hair and she is eight years yet !

2007-11-11 18:27:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-11 18:22:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

She started talking to this man on myspace and then mom and I found out. We talked to the man, don't get me wrong he is very nice. Then my sister told us about them dating and mom grounded her off of the internet. Escpecially after we found notes saying how shes going to be 18 and legally allowed to leave in 5 months! HELP WE DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!! My sister has never had a relationship of any kind and thinks that she is in love with this man. We have tried talking to her but it won't do any good. She just thinks we are the mean family who won't give a man who's 5 years younger than our mom a chance!!

There is no evidence that I've seen of him talking about having sex or anything with her.

I also don't know anyone to date her, plus there's no one in school she is interested in.

She also knows his phone number, address (he only lives a state away), everything!! He knows ours too!

2007-11-11 16:27:08 · 7 answers · asked by Lynn 3

my fiance is graduating form collage this december.. I want to get him some thing special.. but I'm not sure what. (don't say myself) Any ideas? I was thinking a lap top computer but I'm not sure I could afford it. So any thing that's cheep.. prefurably under $200. Any good ideas?

2007-11-11 16:14:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-11 16:13:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-11 14:50:45 · 14 answers · asked by Bobbi 2

he thinks he better then me and that ill never get a guy to like me and at first i thoughht he was joking but he kept going and gonig and i dont want to tell him off about how all the girls tell me that his gurlfriend is desprate and she just wants to rebound on him for her ex and its getting annoying when he thinks she so likes him and im ugly ...............................

basically how do i tell him that he needs to get over hiself

2007-11-11 14:31:45 · 3 answers · asked by Dae`ja 3

Want to know your preferrence in women and why? Ex. Ethnicity, hair color, tall, short, shy, outgoing?
Just curious :)

2007-11-11 13:46:42 · 2 answers · asked by Sweet.Milf3 2

The guy who was my 'boyfriend' made me believe he wanted a child with me for months, & purposely me pregnant....When I did get pregnant he changed his mind & said he didn't want the child, would have nothing to do with it, didn't believe it was his, & would hide all his money so he wouldn't have to pay support. All the stress of this & emotions made me miscarry. He is still around, I have tried to hide my anger so far, how do I get him back, serious style, so he will suffer like I did? Ideas, please?
Thanks.

2007-11-11 13:38:31 · 19 answers · asked by Robin 4

I went out with this really nice guy,the best.But i kissed him just like 3 times but i stoped after and started ignoring him and trying to hide from him....not because i hated him or didn't like him.I SO loved him.I was just shocked on what a guy he is and i blushed when i saw him even though i knew him really well and i'd run,hide or act mean because i was scared,and shy to love him back.He was too good to be true.I just didn't know how to love him?or how to?I thought mabey he wanted to be loved the opposite..or something and i'm still trying to figure myself out with the weird attitude twards him.

Me and him later broke up,he decided to..because he said i didnt love him and he didnt want to suffer and not be loved back..i relized i could have tried too..and "two takes to tango"but i wanted "one to guide me along"I love him and miss him so much i regret ignoring him and ever making him feel so unloved!!]=

HELP!!

2007-11-11 13:24:09 · 1 answers · asked by NeeChi 1

Later on you found out who this person was after they had been jailed?

2007-11-11 12:54:07 · 19 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2

girls of the world,
is it just me or hav dances got to be just plain gross. i really want to have a sock hop at my school, where everyone dresses up in 50s stuff and do swing dancing to a live band in their socks on the wood gym floor. would you do it?

2007-11-11 12:51:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-11 12:30:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

because he's afraid it might drive me away from him. How do I get him to open up about this?

2007-11-11 12:26:01 · 15 answers · asked by Susan M 1

2007-11-11 12:20:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi,

My GF has told me that she often cries because of me.
It was terrible to discover that. I am sad that she havn't told me when there was a problem.

I don't know what to thing about this. I don't yet know what is the reason of his sadness, but how can it be possible that we are a couple and she keeps that for herself ??

2007-11-11 11:55:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-11 11:45:19 · 4 answers · asked by Christopher B 2

me and my boyfriend broke up 2 yrs ago, this past summer we decied to be friends again. I am confused, there are moments when he picks around and filrts with me and then there are days that he doesn't want anything to do with me at all, i of course think it is something i have said or done and he tells me it's not. We stopped talking for about a month and now were talking again, he of course is firlting with me more than ever, does that mean he still wants to somehow be involved with me, please help me!

2007-11-11 11:33:44 · 9 answers · asked by Missy L 1

Well Im 31 and I live with my parents right now...my financial situation is not the best because I recently went back to school...and Im working odd jobs to make ends meet.
(this is a guy)

2007-11-11 11:26:07 · 5 answers · asked by Asker_765 3

2007-11-11 11:18:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is always writing questions on here with half truth and I read all the remarks which really hurt my feelings. Anyways we've only been together about 8 months. About 2 months ago I found out I was pregnant. He tripped out denying it was his and I spent everyday and night with him. I ended up loosing the baby needless to say and I'm very upset about it. I tell him he cant hang out with his friends cause when he does he never comes home or he comes back blitzed out of his mind.If he had decent friends it would be no problem. For instance I went and picked him up one day he had taken 29 pills attempting to kill himself. I had to give him cpr and not to forget my 2 year old son was there scared to death. I ask him for his passwords online he wont give them to me. What reason would he have for not giving them to me other than he's talking to someone else? Am I too controlling or do I need to get away from the situation?

2007-11-11 11:13:59 · 7 answers · asked by butta_423 1

Is this a problem? My teenage daughter, she's 16, always walks around the house in just a t-shirt or tank top and a thong. I know that alot of girls sometimes just wear a shirt and underwear around but it's usually a long shirt. But my daughter's are regular short shirts that don't even come close to covering her butt. Sometimes she wears regular panties that cover her behind, but most the time it's a thong.. Is this normal? My wife said it's normal, and all girls do that, and also it's just around us anyway. I don't know. Am I too paranoid? Is this fine?

2007-11-11 10:53:05 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Someone else asked this question a few weeks ago and I thought it was a great idea for a question. The answers were very interesting too. So I thought I would recycle it. (My answer was my family goes back to Benjamin Franklin but by marriage only, I'm not a direct blood relative. )

2007-11-11 10:00:16 · 14 answers · asked by saturdays child 4