What do I do?

Question

My boyfriend is always writing questions on here with half truth and I read all the remarks which really hurt my feelings. Anyways we've only been together about 8 months. About 2 months ago I found out I was pregnant. He tripped out denying it was his and I spent everyday and night with him. I ended up loosing the baby needless to say and I'm very upset about it. I tell him he cant hang out with his friends cause when he does he never comes home or he comes back blitzed out of his mind.If he had decent friends it would be no problem. For instance I went and picked him up one day he had taken 29 pills attempting to kill himself. I had to give him cpr and not to forget my 2 year old son was there scared to death. I ask him for his passwords online he wont give them to me. What reason would he have for not giving them to me other than he's talking to someone else? Am I too controlling or do I need to get away from the situation?

Answer 1

i suggest you follow your heart buttacup.......i love you.......you say you love me........where can we possibly go wrong.....i know things arent always blue skies and butterflies (youve told me that more than once) but when im with you i never want to let you go and when youre gone youre the only thing i think about....if you need time to find yourself then just tell me cause in the end if its truly meant to be it will come back together......now dont get me wrong i dont want you to go.......id rather work together through any problems we encounter......ive given you the passwords.....for the 24423th time and you see again ive nothing to hide.....you know deep inside im broken ....but i need you .........you take the pain away.......as far as the drugs and stuff.....im done honey .....youve got to believe that.......i dont even call up my so called friends.......i want nothing to do with the scene........why dont you let me straighten **** out and you and little man come stay with me and we will see how it works out .......im always there for you....even when i dislike you the most ..........you know that

Answer 2

Just get away from the situation. No adult is worth a child!
Trust me I know.
If the guy respected you at all he would be able to get better friends, actually come home, and he would trust you .
My wife has ALL my passwords to everything I use on the net,emails, games,bank, and computer profiles.
So ye I think you know already.

Answer 3

Youre not too controlling its normal to feel like that. Dont get away from the situation just keep trying to talk to him and make him understand how you feel

Answer 4

your not to controlling. most likely he might be hiding something. but also he might just want to keep that to himself, just because it's his private little world. everybody needs their own space and privacy. it does sound like he could use some help with his suicide attempts. ever figure out why he tried to kill himself? if he keeps doing w/the attempts you might want to reconsider the relationship. not only could he hurt himself but he wuld also hurt you or your son. or even both. becareful

Answer 5

Why in the world would you want a bf like that? Get out of there. There are lots of other guys that would love to have someone like you.

Answer 6

can't really say much about this problem because its not easy to answer, but I can suggest not theraphy but meditating a lotttttttttttt before making a decision if you still believe his guilty you won't be able to love him anymore, but if you have overcome that though then you may still have a chance to fight if you think its worth it*****pls meditate a lot so you make the right decision trust me it won't be easy

Answer 7

I would get out of that!