because he's afraid it might drive me away from him. How do I get him to open up about this?
2007-11-11 12:26:01 · 15 answers · asked by Susan M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Guess I'm going against the grain here. Discuss your fantasies with him. Tell him your idea fantasy, and make sure you involve a different man. Ask him who his fantasy woman is, and after he tell you, tell him that you think that's HOT! (even if you don't) From there, start pointing out guys you find hot, and point out women you think that he might find hot.
2007-11-11 12:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by K M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you be alright with that? swinging or adding anyone else into your sex life complicates it, most of the time. It could drive you away after the fact, you might feel like you can't trust him anymore or vice versa. maybe you should bring it up, and be open about it, sometimes that's the best way to get someone to open about anything... ask him if he has any fantasies and encourage him to be detailed and not be embarassed, maybe swinging will come up?... good luck, but I am warning you.
2007-11-11 20:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by Tano A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometime when you are on the internet together, just type in 'swing' and look at couples who are available.
It will be a tense moment for both of you. Joke about it at first. If you are not into it, take that opportunity to say you think its disgusting and you'd never do anything like that.
If you are into it, then pick out a couple and say, "Hey, we should e-mail them." See how he responds and move on from there.
2007-11-11 22:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by DSL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Swing, as in see other people? I'd run far away from someone like that. I could never share my man, nor could I allow another person to touch me. It's just wrong.
2007-11-11 20:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by Shubunkin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have this feeling about him he must all Redy gave ya a hint! if so talk to him about it .#1 make ground rules that you both agree on .don't agree on something you don't want to do #2 don't use family or Friends.#3use protection.#4get Redy to loose each other to other lovers. swinging opens the ..its OK to cheat door.to most people.you may be diff-good luck
2007-11-11 20:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by Hutton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start out by just talking to him..Then get on a subject close to there,,,And then ask him...if he loves you he wont get affeneded...and if you want to tell the truth if you dont then say how u feel about it...Sometimes were afraid of how we feel.And we dont want our partner to feel a differnet way..so we dont ask...
2007-11-11 20:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by whitney d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If swing do you mena exchanging sexual partners . If so I hope he leaves you cause that is a great way of losing a love .
2007-11-11 20:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you bring it up... if you think you are comfortable enough with each other to swing, then you should be able to talk about anything...
swinging is very bad for a relationship - makes it doomed for failure.
2007-11-11 20:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by banshee1068 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could go to the park and tell him to sit on a swing, then push him....out of your life.
2007-11-11 20:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by oldsalt 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The question is why would you want someone who wants you to have sex with others and why are you okay with it?
God meant for man and woman to enter into a relationship with each other through marriage and to forsake all others. He does not want you allowing your temple to be used like a waste receptacle for various sperm donors. He wants you to respect yourself and your image that he created.
2007-11-11 20:30:35 · answer #10 · answered by James Watkin 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋