Other - Family & Relationships - 7 November 2007

is virginity for men important before marriage?

2007-11-07 21:47:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Tell me why love is such a mess? Im genuinely asking this serious question..
Tell me why I cannot return the love that some men have for me and the person I love cannot return it back to me?

Love always seems to fall short.. I feel terrible when someone told me they cannot love me, so how can I tell someone I dont love them.. because i feel like they will feel.
Why does it have to be like this all the time?

And who should follow the castes system anyway ! it was abolished in 1948, I believe.
I know tradition is so important for you but the future is developement..
Even tradition changes..

Anyway I know im being silly..
Forgive me to those who I have hurt.
And thank you to those who have listened
happy diwali

2007-11-07 21:18:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

After thinking through the responses to my question -

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtQXbRef09vVXpOSngxAnCvsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071106211740AAEVjZw

I would like to know how to phrase it more positively that won't get me such a negative reaction.

Just because I want to have lots of kids doesn't mean I want to raise them all - I would be happy to put some or all up for adoption. Also, I would be happy for the fathers to have custody, or to perhaps have a group relationship going. I would also be happy if I found one man to stay with - provided he let me bear children to other men (I would allow/encourage him to have children to other women as well - it's only fair)

I'm not doing it for the welfare, I'm doing it because I don't want to be an evolutionary dead-end. I want my genes to have the best chance of surviving. That may be selfish, but the goal of life is to reproduce itself.

2007-11-07 21:05:46 · 14 answers · asked by Philosopher 5

sneaking up on you or in your room and then doing something stupid

2007-11-07 19:43:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is having their baby in a few weeks and he is going out every night and stays out until all hours. Lies to her about where he is b/c she has checked up on him.
I think he is and have told her my opinion but she wants "Proof". I told her that she is NOT going to catch him on top of another girl if that's what she's looking for!!! She is so naive! What more can I do as a mother to PROVE to her that he is cheating on her. Their sexlife has gone down since she found out she was pregnant. BUT it wasn't very active before anyway. Heck I'm surprised she's pregnant! lol
I am thinking of having him 'watched'. Am I wrong to TRY and prove it to her? Should I butt out? She is so hurt by him but doesn't want to leave him 'just yet'.

2007-11-07 18:10:38 · 8 answers · asked by †..Jetta..† 3

2007-11-07 18:06:44 · 7 answers · asked by joyce21119 5

Your kids? Hubby or wife? Parents? :)

2007-11-07 18:05:53 · 8 answers · asked by Kitty 3

do you have any explanation ?

2007-11-07 17:41:11 · 3 answers · asked by vincent 6

ok so i have a bf and hes leaveing to mexico to live there for 2 years i love him and all but i dont think hes going to come back cuz he doesnt have papers so i ask him to marry me abut he said he will when he come back soo really i know he just toying with me..anyways there a guy that i really like he works and everthing my boyfriend to lazy to work but the guy i like works at UPS and money dont matter to me but it does when i have to pay for my boyfriend for when like we go to the moives soo i brought this new guy to my house just to show him where i lived he met my mo and everthing but as soon as he left my mom and i were fight cuz she calling me a whore i didnt even sleep with this guy my mom been with 3 guys and has kids from them im 17 and my mom 32 she had me when she was 15 really i do say she is a whore i have 9 sister me and the 16 year old and the 13 year old are not from the same father and the other ones are so what do you guys think i havent even got a kid..

2007-11-07 17:16:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

try to get over him he calls me unexpectedly telling me he loves me and our 2 baby girls on top of that hekeeps making me promises that he's gonna send me money so i can see him just someone please help me i don't know what to do i think i might be addicted to him.

2007-11-07 16:50:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, she says she is hot-natured... well, I am too. But it's chilly now that it's November. Yet she insists on keeping a window open. I wish it to stay closed - anyone would. How can she not be cold? And she only lives in the room about 3/7 days - only at night. (She's gone all day.) I live in the room as a college student would. Shouldn't I have the say on that window (even though it's near her bed) since I actually LIVE in the room? She's living more as a guest. I think she's wasting her money on the room.

2007-11-07 16:48:00 · 10 answers · asked by Beletje_vos AM + VT 7

My feauncay and i worked great when we first started out ,he loves my son and he was ok with the fact that im pregnant. Now 6 moths later he yell at my 2 year lod for doing things 2 year olds doo, and ignors him alot.Not all the time ,some days, or when we have company hes like mr.mom. I love him so much my son loves him soo much ,and im worried that maby hes board or somrthing ,but when i try to talk to him he won't talk. I tryed sugesting tarepy or any thing to help but hes not intarested. He's a great provider but I worry the new baby will be here soon and I dont want to see him yell at a baby I just want him to talk to me if not me than some one I'm desprate what should I do?

2007-11-07 15:52:20 · 3 answers · asked by Raechel N 1

another female student by way of friendly affection? I hope this wasn't motivated by any religious fundamentalism that thinks that all touching is obscene.

2007-11-07 14:50:24 · 7 answers · asked by americanhero_aa 2

I have a terrible situation at home. I have a very sweet boyfriend and he and his parents have invited me to move in with them. My parents don't even care, if that gives you some idea of what I'm dealing with. My boyfriend and I are sexually active, so his parents have said we might as well share a room. We're using safe sex and all that, so I'm not worried about getting pregnant, but I never expected to be living with someone so soon. I love being with him, and I think it's going to be so great, but lots of people have warned me about all kinds of problems we might have. What can I do to give us the best possible chance at happiness together? I really want this to work!

2007-11-07 14:16:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am I the only one who can't stand for a man to stay in the mirror longer than I do?

2007-11-07 13:43:19 · 7 answers · asked by butterfly 3

Grow out of their desire to watch/look at porn all the time and play video games? It's okay if the answer is no, I'm just looking for some insight. Also, if you could give me reasons why these activities are so invigorating, that would be most helpful.

2007-11-07 12:38:22 · 6 answers · asked by Jody 6

im 17 and want to get a sex change i need to know an estimate about what it costs.
and if anyone know anyone who is having a silicon pumping party email me.
im a guy by the way

2007-11-07 12:08:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

4 D's
1 C
1 A'

is that bad or good or ok

2007-11-07 09:44:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do you think they get so impassioned and take things personally?

2007-11-07 09:23:58 · 16 answers · asked by Sinead 1

I have started an abuse survivor group, how do I go about people joining to make it the best possible? I want this to be a seriously taken group where people could come and safely talk to get help and help others through their own stories. What do I do and how do I do it?
Thanks for responding......lets hope I can at least help 1 other that is in the same situation I was in.

2007-11-07 09:21:55 · 11 answers · asked by C O 1

So, I've been like the 'back up friend' since she turned 12. we're both 13 now and im sick of her. she says i have nothing against her and i could list a million things against her. I'm afraid to stand up to her, one day i just EXPLODED with anger and i called her a b---- and she's like what have i ever done to you, you're being a jerk! do u have PMS or something? and she stomped off. i was so mad at her that i just blocked her on aim and stopped talking to her completely. she is confronting me in front of everyone and saying , why did you say that you hate? what have i ever done to you? you're the one who called me a b----" and other junk like that. i don't want to be her friend anymore and I've told her that so many times, why doesn't she get it and move on?! what do i say to her? and what should i do?!

2007-11-07 09:08:45 · 22 answers · asked by free_to_believe_i_can_fly 2

*these profound feelings deep within my pounding heart. This infatuation that pollutes my twisted veins. The lies, the animosity, the destructiveness, the sarcasm, the sadness…all of it mingles together and forms the poison through my blood rushing veins. It is what strangles my breath and suffocates me from every inch of air. I try so hard to take a deep breath. This is no good for me. It is slowly killing me. I can only take so much before my heart decides to give up, before the poison reaches my forsaken heart. I’m going on a “fast“ to purify the impurities. To get rid of all the toxins. No boys for awhile now. Lets see how long I can last.

like it or hate it?

2007-11-07 08:55:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother in law seems to be a very whiney man and he doesn't understand why!?! My sister is about to lose her mind.She is about to have a baby and he is making hel life miserable!! Any Ideas on some type of I dono anger managment I guess?!

2007-11-07 08:54:27 · 11 answers · asked by ali 3

I have had issues with mastitis in the past, and would really like to try doing this for him. Is this a normal thing for men to want this?

2007-11-07 08:39:44 · 14 answers · asked by claire 1

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2years(in Dec) So our anniversary present and christmas presents are usually the same.... I just don't know what to get him, I want something really meaningful. So I guess I'm asking for an anniversary present.... Thank You So Much!!! (I'm 19 he's 20 if that helps)

2007-11-07 08:16:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I fear my girlferind has BPD, from the years I have known her, well, the relationship started off as a freindship fling that led to another type, but it seemed to had started the first step she put in my house. But now, we have kids, oldest at 6, this relationship is a more consecuence type rather than by choice. Since then its liek, It is a struggle for me to get out of the house to go anywhere, if iwant to get out with my daughters I have to bassically have a good reason for it, its almost as if i have to take my gfreind along all the time. SHe always seem throw munky wrenches into everything I want to do from going to have coffee to hanging out with my ferinds, she's obsessive, possesive, and I dont know what else. We get into arguments where she seems to have a lapse of amnesia, sh sometimes bursts into totally uncontroable rage when i tell her something that hits a nerve be it truth or what not, then trys to coaxe me to like hit her, its almost like she strives to fight with h

2007-11-07 07:52:26 · 6 answers · asked by Beefcake 2

threaten me will or might be there how do i avoid or make sure nothing happens she has no shame either and the guy i like will be there i dont want to made fool of that day how do i also make sure i have a good time etc?

2007-11-07 07:51:10 · 2 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7

I have tried classmates.com he's not there..I really need to find him..Please help..if you know this person or if you are him it is very important you respond. Thanks

2007-11-07 07:49:06 · 2 answers · asked by Ms. Lady 1

ive never really known wheteher to believe if ghosts exist or not but ther was a strange experience today at work, i work in a nursery which used to be an old war hospital along time ago , today i was the last person in the building at about 7pm and i was tidying up when one of the musical instruments (bells) startred shaking and making a sound, i thought this was rather odd but put it down to my imagination then it happened again, then i heard running in the exact same room like scraping on the floor as there was sand allover the floor from wher the kids were playing, it sounded as though some1 was defiently in the room running across the floor with sand on.i felt like something was watching me..am i going mad!? somebody i work with also told me that last week in the baby room, the kids were stareing at 1 corner of the room at the ceiling,laughing and waveing..!is our work place haunted!?

2007-11-07 07:32:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm considering it for health reasons. Thanks!

2007-11-07 06:36:08 · 11 answers · asked by treefrog 4