ok so i have a bf and hes leaveing to mexico to live there for 2 years i love him and all but i dont think hes going to come back cuz he doesnt have papers so i ask him to marry me abut he said he will when he come back soo really i know he just toying with me..anyways there a guy that i really like he works and everthing my boyfriend to lazy to work but the guy i like works at UPS and money dont matter to me but it does when i have to pay for my boyfriend for when like we go to the moives soo i brought this new guy to my house just to show him where i lived he met my mo and everthing but as soon as he left my mom and i were fight cuz she calling me a whore i didnt even sleep with this guy my mom been with 3 guys and has kids from them im 17 and my mom 32 she had me when she was 15 really i do say she is a whore i have 9 sister me and the 16 year old and the 13 year old are not from the same father and the other ones are so what do you guys think i havent even got a kid..
2007-11-07 17:16:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no mother should call their daughter a whore.
i think you need to get out of their as so as possible or she will continue to abuse you in that way and you will start to believe her when she calls you names it really to make her feel better about herself. when she starts calling you names the next time tell her when she can stop being abusive towards you you will talk to her again. then get up and leave the room or the house for awhile. then when you come back ask her if she is ready to talk to you like and adult and not a child. and Evey time she does that leave and come back to talk to her when she is not acting like a kid.
2007-11-07 18:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by silk 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
She only called you that because you were just with the other guy and you bring home this other guy. She doesn't want you to follow in her foots steps that's all. Try getting your life together and stop running up behind guys! Chase an education not dudes. You don't have to have a boyfriend to make your life complete. Hell I feal like I'm talking to one of my daughters. I have 4 one 19, 17, 16, and 13. With there mother included I think I know a little about females.
2007-11-07 17:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by big Sco 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The Apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Like mother, like daughter. So, in order to avoid any type of resemblance or being stereotyped just refrain from sharing your intimate life and your opinions with her or about her. Never point out someone else's track record or shortcomings without looking at yourself. This way, she will not interfere with your livelihood, nor you hers. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. See if you can become a better person than your mom. It's hard given her unusual circumstances which comes from living. Try to live your life in a good manner. Love your Mother, because without that love...you would not have been born!
2007-11-07 17:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by Ms-No-It-All 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all you should never call your mother a whore!!!!! You are disrespectful....You should never put your mother down like that! IF SHE IS SUCH A WHORE, WHY ARE YOU STILL THERE??? SO YOU'RE 17, IF YOU THINK YOU CAN TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND YOU DON'T NEED YOUR MOM TO PAY THE BILLS FOR YOU ANYMORE GET OUT! IF YOU WERE MY DAUGHTER I WOULDN'T CALL YOU A WHOE BUT YOU WOULDN'T BE CALLING ME THAT EITHER! I WOULD BEAT SOME SENSE INTO YOU! WHAT YOUR MOTHER DOES IS NONE OF YOUR CONCERN! WHILE YOU ARE HOME ALL YOU HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT IS FINISHING SCHOOL AND HELP YOUR MOTHER OUT! FREAKEN GROW UP!
2007-11-08 02:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by irishpr 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your mom needs to look at herself and see what she has done with her life and your not a whore trust me a who're sleeps with any man they can get their hands on. If I were u I would get help because that's emotional abuse
2016-03-09 09:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by hannah 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your not a whore yet.!!!your mum sees in you a reflection of herself, she knows what she is you dont know who you are , remember you dont need a boyfriend to have a sense of personal identity unfortunately your mother taught you that you do, listen to your heart follow your own path and do everyhting the opposite of your mum ,then you wont turn out like her because the way your going you will, then twenty years from now you will be calling your children whores , you can change your life but it starts with you and it starts right now
2007-11-07 17:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by fraser_norton 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh, I am sure she is frustrated. Life is hard if you start on the wrong foot. Do not try to judge/blame your mother, at least she carried you in her womb nine months. I am sure she feels bad about her life and luck in guys etc., Perhaps she did not want you to head the very same road she went through. Life is not easy, so please get over when she tells you mean things. The key is to turn bad things into positive ones.
2007-11-07 17:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by Q 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't call you a whore..........probably a few other things but not a whore..............
Your mother's life is a crystal ball to look into......do you want to be her 15 years from now?
Why would you want to marry a lazy illegal???
Don't repeat your mother's life.
Get an education........and get out!!!!!!!!!!!
Then you won't have to worry about the whore or being called one!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-07 17:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by Susan C 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My best advice is that she is jelous that she cant get a man herself. She is probably upset that she is no longer a young attractive woman. SHe doesnt know what is going on in your life so just let it go.
Also, dont marry someone at that young of an age, if you two are truly in love, then you both are worth the wait.
2007-11-07 17:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
The title is to funny, thanks for the laugh! I'm sure your son/daughter will follow in your footsteps.
Here's a hint, find the period button. That has to be the longest run on sentence I have ever seen.
2007-11-07 17:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by Mo 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋