Other - Family & Relationships - 11 November 2007

I hate my roommate..she's so conniving...almost as if she wants me to do bad in everything and just uses me when ever she wants someone to talk/listen to her problems and hang out with her when there's no one. And when she has other people she would have this attitude with me as if I'm not welcomed. I really can't stand her. We used to be good friends but ever since we moved in together..she's so hard to live with. Friends mean a lot to me and I can't even focus properly on school when i have to live with someone i have to pretend to be friends with. We live with another roommate and she's good friends with her so if i try to ignore her she just has fun with our other roommate and that makes me feel left out. we have a contract for the rest of the year so i can't exactly move out. I duno how to handle living with her, it really depresses me. i didn't think college would be so horrible.

2007-11-11 09:54:26 · 5 answers · asked by Ash C 2

2007-11-11 09:02:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's the type that as soon as she gets home the bags go on the floor in the living room and sit there for a week. Shoes go under the coffee table and stay until I move them. Plates sit in the sink. Clothes lay about everywhere. I do the best I can to clean stuff. I'm not a neat freak but, to me, if you spill something, common sense tells you to clean it up. Has anyone had success in getting someone to become a less messier person? and one that cleans up after themselves?

2007-11-11 08:39:49 · 6 answers · asked by Splitters 7

In March I lost a long term temp job that lasted a year. I thought they would hire me permanently but didn't. Right now I'm undergoing a background check to a new job and hoping I like it. It can take any time to 3 to six months or maybe a year. In the meantime, everyone I know has been hired to full-time jobs, and are in happy relationships. Some of these people aren't really good people at all. I've witness so many good things happen to these people. I used to think in order to have a good and/or successful life you have to do the right thing and be a good person, but what I'm realizing is: THAT MAY NOT BE TRUE! I have very fundamental beliefs of how people should be treated and about life in general but now I feel like those beliefs have been tested in a negative way and I feel I should give up and stop trying to find goodness in people and life in general. I am so Jealous of bad people getting the great things in life, while I have to continuously struggle. How do I overcome this?

2007-11-11 07:58:00 · 3 answers · asked by ramos3000 2

2007-11-11 06:26:02 · 16 answers · asked by drewpop 1

once there lived animals in the pride lands two lions called simba and nala but the father was killed by his brother scar in the end simba fund out and simba and nala had a baby. the end. who liked my story?

2007-11-11 06:22:45 · 1 answers · asked by Phillip K 1

2007-11-11 05:04:25 · 4 answers · asked by zurc137 2

I have a boyfriend, and he is AMAZING. And I don't plan on us breaking up anytime soon. Before we started dating, I confessed I had a thing for this other guy. He said the feeling was mutual but he was engaged so there was nothing we could do. It was obivous something was there, he always made time to see me. We talk almost every day. His sister even tells me we should be together (he and his gf dont have a very good relationship) Recently he confessed his feelings were stronger. I feel the same, but we both know nothing can happen, and we dont plan on anything happening. This past time he came into town, he told me he couldnt come see me cause he didnt trust himself around me.

Now, Im stuck. Yes, I'm practially in love with this guy. I know its wrong on both mine and his part. But it feels right.. But now, Im starting to think we should stop while we're ahead. Maybe I should just tell him I can't do this anymore. And that Im done..

Help me. What do I do? What should I say to

2007-11-11 04:05:12 · 2 answers · asked by Elle 1

I've been in an otherwise happy relationship for around four years and recently I moved to be with her. We live together now and have been doing so for about eight months. When we first got together, the feelings regarding affection were mutual. Now it's as though she doesn't want my attention half the time and complains whenever I want to cuddle or spend the morning with her. Sex is awkward and while fulfilling for her, it leaves me unfulfilled. I've tried to talk to her about this but she doesn't seem to understand.

Something that may be included in this problem is that her mother and sister live with us. We have seperate rooms, and I thought this would be a positive change from the way we had been sleeping in the living room. We live in a two-room apartment and the second bedroom used to be a computer room. However, after the change, there hasn't been much change in our relationship. I'm not sure what to do and I'm very frustrated with the situation. What should I do?

2007-11-11 04:02:39 · 4 answers · asked by MisterJ 2

My dad was out one night and I was in the shower and she walked in on me she smiled at me and stood asked her to leave and ever since she has been making suggestive comments to me. what should I do?

2007-11-11 04:01:57 · 14 answers · asked by Axel C 2

Hey everyone i'm 16 from n.ireland :]
Umm well i'm basically just a very shy person and it's getting me down more and more everyday.
I started college 2 months ago and well I have friends in it it's just i'm not as "talkative" as they are and I have the feeling that they are kind of awkward when talking to me.. and I don't mean to make them feel that way :[
I'm just scared to be myself in case what they will think of me and I mean i'm a nice person, but I'm just worried they will think I'm boring because i'm quiet. :[ So I just hope they like me for me. And I like each one of them for who they are.
This is one of the reasons i've never had a boyfriend but I don't need one to be happy anyways lol... it would just be nice x]
This is one of the reasons I dread going everyday.
I'm also starting my first job tomorrow and I'm scared and nervous. I might be the quiet one.
Well I would just like some bits of advice on confidence or something and well yeah i'm upset about this now.
Thnx

2007-11-11 03:57:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

we are 20 and 21 and all we do is work ,come home and sleep once in a while (every month and .5) we go out movies or to eat together. how did we get like this its horrible?

2007-11-11 03:41:44 · 2 answers · asked by drea06star 2

So it was computer time, and I was really bored.
So I started typing in notepad and writing really bad stuff about my teacher.
I really didn't mean it, I swear.
But then, she found out about it since she can see everything we do in her own computer.
Now she's really really mad at me and she might badmouth me to other people.
I said sorry and she said she forgives me already.
But still, I feel really bad about it. I don't know why I did it.
Now, other teachers might have a bad impression on me too.
I feel really really bad.
What do I do?
I want everything to go back to normal again.

2007-11-11 02:20:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so i've been with my girlfriend for about 5 months.about a week ago every thing was fine...then she told me she was going to move after christmas...we hadn't talked much and she seemed to be avoiding me and last night she told me she has too much stuff going on to have a boyfriend and we should just be friends

2007-11-11 02:07:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-11 01:46:49 · 5 answers · asked by BQ 6