I hate my roommate..she's so conniving...almost as if she wants me to do bad in everything and just uses me when ever she wants someone to talk/listen to her problems and hang out with her when there's no one. And when she has other people she would have this attitude with me as if I'm not welcomed. I really can't stand her. We used to be good friends but ever since we moved in together..she's so hard to live with. Friends mean a lot to me and I can't even focus properly on school when i have to live with someone i have to pretend to be friends with. We live with another roommate and she's good friends with her so if i try to ignore her she just has fun with our other roommate and that makes me feel left out. we have a contract for the rest of the year so i can't exactly move out. I duno how to handle living with her, it really depresses me. i didn't think college would be so horrible.
2007-11-11 09:54:26 · 5 answers · asked by Ash C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are upset with the roommate and not college life. I would go to the RA and explain the problem. Perhaps there is a solution the RA can find. Just because you are friends with someone, like a marriage, does not mean it will work.
You cannot have it both ways of socializing with her and the other roommate, who sounds like a flexible person to be friends and get along with both of you. Don't be jealous of their time together; think of it as time with our "her."
The next time she turns to you for solice or socialization because no one else is around, take a potty break. Remember an appointment and go to the library or somewhere else. Put on earphones and listen to nothing and study.
But go see the RA who probably has heard similar problems before!!!!
2007-11-11 10:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-11 04:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably right when you say you'd be better off as friends than as roommates. MANY MANY people end up enemies after they room together because they just have very different lifestyles.
I strongly suggest you talk to your Resident Director and Resident Assistant about getting a room switch, if not now than next semester or next year. It's better than suffering. College is about getting an education and attaining memorable life exeriences, not remembering miserable roommates. If talking to her doesn't help, it's time to take the next step.
Good luck!
2007-11-11 10:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by 23chromosomes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends will come and go. Your education and grades (or lack thereof) is forever and may effect the quality of your entire life. You are not high school girls anymore. It's time to stop being so dependent on those "friends." If the room mates bug you, why not just ditch them and go out on your own to the library or somewhere else to study more often? If having friends is so important find some activities or clubs that will allow you to meet other people and expand your horizons.
2007-11-11 10:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by saturdays child 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went thru 2 roommates in 1 semester at college. many roommates do not get along. eventually i just signed up for a single room for myself. sometimes living in confined areas with people u dont know (or people u do) can bring out the worst in others. being roommates in college actually destroys some friendships (as it has for one of mine..though i could care less). try a single room next time. or if you cant, just make sure ur new roomies know u limitations and talk things out with them
2007-11-11 10:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋