okay so i've been with my girlfriend for about 5 months.about a week ago every thing was fine...then she told me she was going to move after christmas...we hadn't talked much and she seemed to be avoiding me and last night she told me she has too much stuff going on to have a boyfriend and we should just be friends
2007-11-11 02:07:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She's cheating on you
2007-11-11 02:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by Zenkai 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just be friends.
If it's meant to be, and you sincerely remain her friend, she may end up coming back to you one day.
Love begins with friendship. If you can't be satisfied just to be her friend, even if it means accepting that she finds happiness in the arms of someone else, they you never really loved her, you just wanted to own her.
Be a real friend. Ask if you can help her with all the stuff she has going on and to make her move easier. Let her know that you really love her and hope she really wants to remain friends, and be understanding and considerate.
But also be prepared for the reality that, maybe she really does just want to move on. It could be that she has struggled with the reality that moving away will be so difficult and painful for her that she would rather just break off the relationship. A long distance love is extremely difficult to maintain, and she just might not have the strength for it.
In either case, the only decent thing you can do is accept her wishes. Be sad and even cry over it if you must. That's your right. But a decent guy would be a true friend to her.
And if it turns out this is the end of your relationship, just realize that life goes on. That sounds cliche, but it's true.
Be a decent guy about this, and karma will reward you sooner than you expect. Be an SOB about it, and you'll have a lot more misery where that came from.
2007-11-11 02:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....you have to respect her feelings on that. That's her nice way of breaking up with you, and if I were you, I'd move on and let her contact you. Just be prepared if she doesn't call... In the mean time, you should get back to doin' the things you love and hang out with friends to get over your heartache. You two seem young, and sometimes young couples don't know how to communicate. Maybe she's been unhappy for a while but didn't know what to do about it. It's not your fault, some people just aren't meant to be together. Keep trying though, each relationship is different and has something new to offer. You never know, the next one might be the right one....or at least last a little longer than 5 months.
2007-11-11 02:15:43 · answer #3 · answered by L.A. Angel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Swank dinner, dancing i assume. There are continuously boat journeys and what-no longer the factor is, too many self-consciously romantic evenings start to get boring and repetitive in any different case develop into, ahem, exotica. i could want a exciting evening--that could contain dancing to make particular, yet would additionally contain going to be sure an previous action picture and grabbing pizza after, or a activity of raquetball accompanied by employing a steam tub and jacuzzi with wine, or an afternoon of trekking in a clean place and a cabin with a fireplace for the evening. For me, having exciting together IS romantic.
2016-10-16 03:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just work with it! You see sometimes being friends with someone is better not only that but the theory is that "friends have a stronger foundation" so maybe being friends will be good for you and when she moves then it will give both of you more dating options and being friends from a distance usually is more compatible then long distance boyfriend and girlfriend
2007-11-11 02:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sakura Y 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find another GF, and get used to breakups, because much more will come. The next time you meet someone, don't get too attached unless you are in your 30s and ready for marriage.
2007-11-11 05:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by frank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just dun wanna be a burden to U
since a a long term relatioship is hard to maintain and almost all the people prooved that long term relatioship is HARD
but if U really think SHE is the one
tell her
you will be waiting for her desprately until like...evEr~
I'm having a long term also
hard
fight everyday
but we both know
we can't live without each other
so we still hangin on
yea
no touch
no kiss
no hug
is hard
but if she is the one and she cherished it
go for it
2007-11-11 02:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by Val 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be friends....my guess is she met somebody else. Move on....it's only been 5 months and if you really want her in your life, keep her as a friend.
2007-11-11 02:10:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2007-11-11 02:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by Clueless 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its time to move on...if she doesn't want to be more than just a friend can't force her...let nature take its course and if it was meant to be it will happen no matter what...good luck...
2007-11-11 02:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by Vic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Being friends" is just something people say to protect themselves and give them a better conscience i.e. they know they are hurting you and want to feel better about it. She doesn't want to be with you anymore, I suggest you move on before you get too involved
2007-11-11 02:10:07 · answer #11 · answered by jennifer484 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋