The guy who was my 'boyfriend' made me believe he wanted a child with me for months, & purposely me pregnant....When I did get pregnant he changed his mind & said he didn't want the child, would have nothing to do with it, didn't believe it was his, & would hide all his money so he wouldn't have to pay support. All the stress of this & emotions made me miscarry. He is still around, I have tried to hide my anger so far, how do I get him back, serious style, so he will suffer like I did? Ideas, please?
Thanks.
2007-11-11 13:38:31 · 19 answers · asked by Robin 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Whoa Robin.....I think you might be suffering through some trauma. You need to probably go talk to a therapist. Do not get back at him "serious style." I know it is hard to believe but just pray it will come back around to him. It will. You don't need to be there to know that it will. Believe that it will and let it go at that. Go talk to a therapist because you are probably suffering through some emotions due to the aggravation he caused you as well as the emotions of the miscarriage. He sounds like an A**hole and a jerk. But be thankful you have been "released" from having to spend a lifetime connected to him by a kid. You are free sweetie - RUN fast and count your blessings. And NO I am not saying a miscarriage is a blessing. That is sad. I have been through a miscarriage myself. It was such an agonizing physical pain besides the emotions so I do know what you went through. But you are free to marry a GOOD man to have a child with and to raise that child in a good environment. Lots of blessings to you. I am praying for your healing.
2007-11-11 13:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa2000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth it, forget about him.. I can imagine you really do want to make him suffer, to be honest, I would want to too, but realistically, you may aswell just leave it be, get on with your live, and he'll get what he deserves, believe me...
There's no way I can think of getting him back without getting in trouble with the law,or possibly hurting others along the way...
2007-11-11 14:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by elin j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. he doesn't deserve your thoughts! Revenge can just eat away at you. Find peace in side yourself that thank God you found out what an *** he is. Where would you be now if you stayed with that selfish jerk. Move on and forget he ever exist.
2007-11-11 13:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by Charlene K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get back at him is to live a happy successful life. You do that by focusing on bettering yourself, and not worrying about his sorry butt. Good luck to you.
2007-11-11 13:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him and go on with life. Some day he'll appreciate that he missed out on a great woman.
2007-11-11 13:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by hottotrot1_usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gather all the answers on this page and do them one at a time, this guy needs to be taught a lesson and to be put through the pain he has given you, good luck
2007-11-11 13:47:16 · answer #6 · answered by kevin friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth the time it would take to get back at him, just tell him you don't want to see him anymore and move on.
2007-11-11 13:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by scooter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can cut his balls.
Kisses from Russia (one of the four countries that rescued the Jews of the Nazi's evil)
2007-11-11 13:42:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sweetheart he isnt worth the effort! he is a monster and deserves no more of your time energy or effort! move on because the more you think of him the more it will remind you of the miscarriage.
God bless lovey
2007-11-11 20:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by dom c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts that you lost your child, that YOU wanted. recognize that he is nuts, and you deserve better, and move on. the best revenge is no revenge, hatred only hurts you, and revenge lowers you. move on from him, and don't ever let him in your life again.
2007-11-11 13:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by Mary Liz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋