HER: We are here because my boyfriend and I are having a discussion about what I deem unacceptable behavior. When fighting my boyfriend has done the following: held me down, gotten on top of me, held my wrists, blocked the door and told me I am not allowed to leave until I listen to him, look at him,etc. All if he feels I am not listening.This is a great concern to me. I am trying to explain that this is intimidating and aggressive behavior. I am 5'4" and he is a 6'. HIM:I was taught growing up that you should NEVER leave a situation angry. Being that we were having a fight that was unresolved, I thought to myself, "I want to fix this-I don't want her to leave the house angry. What if something happened? How would I feel if she were in an accident?" My reaction was to try and keep her there until things were resolved-so when she was trying to abandon the situation,I tried to hold her down so we could get this resolved. I know this sounds bad but I would NEVER hurt her! I love her
2007-06-11
17:58:01
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dahlia
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