i ask this because after a year of dating, he refers to me as a friend and not his girl when his friends are around. he wouldnt even touch me wen they're around but the minute they leave, he cant get enough of me. i recently heard he's seeing someone but didnt ask him. i indirectly brought up a topic about partners who cheat and he was well into it saying how much he hates people like that. he then said i was the only woman in his life and wont leave for no other but his actions prove otherwise. we are both on one of the friends website like myspace, and i msg his inbox with some saucy message and he wrote back saying how reliefed he was that i didnt write that on his wall cos it would have started a controversy on his page. recently, i wrote a note on his wall in answer to a question he asked, and i found that he deleted the reply off his wall. im beginning to think that the rumours are true and the gal is also on his page and hes trying to avoid trouble. do you think hes cheating?
2007-06-11 13:42:33 · 10 answers · asked by sweet-tweet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I hate to say it, but it does sound like he is. Even if he isnt, it doesnt sound like he is proud to be with you and he seems like he wants to keep you a secret when he should be happy to tell everyone you are together! Tell him you've had enough. If he really loves you he will come crawling back, if you never hear from him again then you know where you stand. You can do better! Good Luck x
2007-06-11 22:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by LuLu22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes he is cheating. His friends should already know that you're going out if you've been with each other for a year so what is he trying to hide. Did he tells his friends that you're only friends because they know he has someone else and don't want them to tattle on him? And why would he delete your comments? Perhaps he is seeing someone else and she doesn't know about you? Just because he says he hates cheaters doesn't mean he is innocent. My husband was buying me gifts and telling me how much he loved me and making plans for our future all the while he was cheating too.
2007-06-11 13:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oprah is stupid and you're no longer far off. Sorry. yet come on now! Why do no longer you in basic terms take a seat with your companion and communicate? you have questions which you extremely prefer spoke back so ask. that's the only thank you to get one hundred% answer. I met my boyfriend on line, you do no longer see me freaking out. for sure you do not have that lots of a relationship in case you're no longer trusting your companion. Why do no longer you in basic terms pass on the web content and seek his call or verify his cellular telephone for numbers you do no longer understand. or in spite of else. his digital mail. however the issue it is not your companion could be cheating. the issue is your loss of believe.
2016-10-09 00:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dear you have a cheater so you need to get your self going forward and forget this man totally he does not care about your feelings he a afraid to let his friends or anyone know about you
come on he is a player i know your heart would be broken but you would be better off with a man that would shower you wit respect and love you go girl fren
2007-06-15 10:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reality is that you feel that you cannot trust him.
You have a choice....either accept that you may be one amongst others and be content with that OR
confront him with it and if he will not be upfront then kick him into touch and find someone that will treat you right.
2007-06-11 20:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweetie. im sorry you are going through this. hes up to no good. he cant be cheating on you because it doesnt sound like you are his gf. he is probably pulling the same stunt with this other girl. sweetie - he erased your message! how lame is that? erase his butt from your life. find someone better.
2007-06-11 13:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out one way or another.
Perhaps, next time you are out with him and friends, make a loud and clear comment that you are his girlfriend.
If you are having unprotected sex. You really need to be asking yourself - What he might be bringing home..... ie sexually transmitted diseases.
2007-06-11 13:50:14 · answer #7 · answered by Chris R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can decide how much you are willing to put up with and then follow thru with whatever it is you decide. don't let yourself be a doormat to anyone.
2007-06-11 14:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another boyfriend
2007-06-11 14:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by ™ ♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know he is.
2007-06-11 13:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋