i've with him for a couple of months, and we are compatible in so many ways, but one day he lie on me... that the girl who is calling him is his sister.... and they talking arabic, so i believe him at that time.but when we come home i saw the mobile and there is a swwet message from the girl.... i compront him and he told me that his sister an dth eother day he told me that she is a friend... what should i do? im planning to leave him the next day and i dont know what to do because i love him....
2007-06-11 23:43:14 · 8 answers · asked by lenny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I belive in one thing: If you were honest all the way, never lied, never hide things, you expect from your partner to do the same, and knowing that he is not treating you the way you treat him is not good and you should take action in this regard. On the other hand, if you lied to him or hid something, you should not get angry when treated the same way. So I guess it is you who knows these facts and can decide accordingly.
Best regards
2007-06-11 23:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could b he thought of her as a sister but slowly love develop between them. Confront him and ask him whom he loves and if the answer is you, then tell him to stay away from her. If answer is d "sister" you leave right away.
2007-06-12 06:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Lenny,,,
It seems that both of us have the same problem.It happened to me last year when my girl firend lied to me about her x-relationship with an italian man.and she kept seeing him for 2 years in my own house and my own bed.
Please Lenny don't be like me...and leave this man right now.
please contact me via e-mail.
Good luck.
2007-06-12 07:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by mun1st77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him so much, you must give him time to tell the truth not accidentally leave him. If he still lie and not tell the truth leave him because someday he will lie again to you.
2007-06-12 06:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by Sylvia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is his sister why don´t he set up a meeting for you both. If he cannot then of course he must be lying. If so do what you consense wants and stick with it.
2007-06-12 06:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by purdeykings99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is lying to you, then he is cheating on you with someone else. Leave the jerk, you deserve better than that!!!
2007-06-12 06:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's totally cheating on you.
2007-06-12 06:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by ndsgrl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's better leave him to me...
2007-06-12 06:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋