Other - Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

I have a sign that says "ex-wife's breathing tube - keep clear" mounted to a pipe sticking up out of my yard. My gf, lovely in every way but still working on her sense of humor says "oh this is awful - if the kids see it they will be scarred for life and so on - they will develop scabies and PTSD and CHF and all this trauma". I think ex wife should appreciate that it's only a joke and that she's not down there looking up thru the pipe hoping a bird doesn't build a nest on it. * laughs * what do YOU folks think? (ps, if you agree with me I probably won't get ... dinner ... this week, but answer honestly anyway ok?

2007-03-20 10:12:05 · 42 answers · asked by All hat 7

All right, I know it's terrible! But Christmas of 05 she didn't get me anything, so I didn't think she would this past Christmas, but she did! I never, ever see her, but tomorrow there's a get together for her birthday. Along with her birthday present, should I give her a Christmas present?

For the Christmas present I'd just get a gift certificate to a 4 star restaurant where they write out the certificate, so I'd have them put the date for when I bought it back in Decemeber.

Ahhh I'm terrible.

2007-03-20 10:09:43 · 17 answers · asked by :-) 3

Okay well i cheated on him in the beginning which was 2years ago and then she was fine with me up until i broke it off with him because I just felt like i was crowding him!! He never wanted to spend time with me and It broke my heart!! Well we got into an argument and I told her that she tries to run a grown man's life and people like her dont deserve children!! I pretty much told her that she was a shitty mom but directly after i appologized!!! My fiance loves me and he says he will disband her from his life if she doesnt stop trying to make him choose me or him and I feel so guilty!! Thats his mom!! What should I do????????????/

2007-03-20 10:09:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-20 10:07:05 · 13 answers · asked by misterious 1

Just wondering, which do you think is better.....

2007-03-20 10:06:24 · 5 answers · asked by RN_and_mommy 5

What do you do with your final hour on this earth?

2007-03-20 09:56:44 · 3 answers · asked by photoguy1967 3

Hi! I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend, who is only Spanish speaking, is 24. I am bilingual, and I love him with all of my heart. We have been best friends for a year now and have been dating for a month and a half. We spend almost every night together, since we both work and I am in school, that is the only time we have together. My family and friends hate that I am dating him, and they told me to just drop him. He has been nothing short of wonderful to me, yet they can't stand the fact that he only speaks Spanish and also has a child from when he was very young. I feel empty without him in my life, and they don't understand this. They make snide comments and told me that they will NEVER approve of him, and they haven't even met him because of this. I am lost as to what to do. I understand that there are many obstacles in our relationship, but he's too important in my life to just give up on it. Any advice? What should I do?!

2007-03-20 09:54:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-20 09:45:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my boyfriend a little over a month. We were very good friends before we hooked up. He knew my old boss had a crush on me (as a matter of fact he pointed it out). Last night the old boss asked me out. He is really fun to hangout with but I don't want him or my boyfriend to get the wrong idea. He doesn't know I'm in a new relationship, but he is with someone too. HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO???????????

2007-03-20 09:39:44 · 4 answers · asked by cluelessly_n_love 1

kill herself and I went to her apartment and she was no there no she wont answer. She has a complicated life with a girlfriend and a husband and I dont want to get over involved but I dont know what to do....I threatened to tell the school if she didnt get help....what should i do?? I dont want to get her fired if she is just having a moment but I know she has tried in the past

2007-03-20 09:31:09 · 8 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2

My husband and I are on our second marriage each. We both have ex's to deal with and kids. During our first two years of marriage we have dealt with court battles, job changes, home sales and purchases. Now as we are finally settling down to a relatively "drama free" time we seem not to know each other. I am extremely insecure that now he has a M-F job and custody of his child he will decide he no longer needs or wants to be with me. I have voiced my need for some emotional reassurance and that I am working on my own feelings of insecurity but how else can we make it through the day to day stuff. We stayed strong and confidently together through more than most marriages EVER go through but it seems now that we have the normal relationship work is almost too much. I love him with all my heart and how do I learn to believe his words when he says he loves me and isn't going to leave?
He is an honest and loving man but why can I not just relax and let him love me as he says he does?

2007-03-20 09:28:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

A lot of women in my family tree(I mean way back, last was my grandmother) have committed suicide due to abusive husbands...I feel I have been brought in the loop. I think I can be abusive although I keep thinking and being honest emotionnally and intellectually.
Does anyone else feel they're in the "chain"?
I don't feel it right to blame myself, as it was pretty much-be abusive or I'll belt you to death....(from my father)

2007-03-20 09:25:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just open your mind a little give them some advice ! They need people to give them feedback ! I don't believe much in counseling ! I mean what do they do just sit there and listen and let you figure out whats wrong with yourself " What a Joke" ! I say give them somthing now somthing they can use ! Tell them about your experience and what will happen if they do what they do ! Come on show them you care !

2007-03-20 09:23:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have 2 friends and both made a bet to have sex with eachother i dont like this at all the guy is doing it cuase his friends are telling him to be a man yet i tell my friend that he doesnt have to prove he is a man by having sex with her. and she is also stupid to want to have sex with him she even gave him her house key so they can have sex how can i make them relize this is not the way? by the way i am 13 and the boy is 13 and the girl is 14

2007-03-20 09:20:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-20 09:17:19 · 16 answers · asked by you are my angel 2

At the moment I feel completely lost. I have been in a relationship for two years that I have given so much of myself to.
I loved the woman deeply. However, there have been many arguments over very simple things. And when we argued she would attack me and leave me cut, kicked, scramed and hurting. I have asked before if she could love me and still do this to me. My question now is how the hell do I move on with my life from here. I cant stop thinking of her. Despite evrything I still have strong feelings for her (whatever form they take) and I miss her desperately. I feel so low and I dont know how to pick myself up. I dont feel like I can function without her. I guess Ive become reliant on having her in my life. I blame myself so much for it all yet I cant think of what I have done to deserve it. All of my confidence has gone. I feel ugly, useless and not like a man at all. I just cant see a way out of all this. Any advice would be so good right now. Thank you.

2007-03-20 09:08:47 · 8 answers · asked by doodle 2

I Finally Got Everything Together To Tell Her I Still Love Her And Want Her But She Tells Me She Basically Had feThis Guy A Couple Of Times He Turned Out To Be A Stalker And She Doesn't Deal With Him Anymore. Even Though We Had Not Been Together How Do I Get Over This? I Really Do Love Her And My Two Kids And This Is Not Just Because I See Her Moving On. I Brought My Love And Feelings To Her Before I Knew About This Other Guy. So What Do I Do? I See Images And Think About What She Did With This Guy Constantly. I Want To Have Our Family Back But She Is Still Hurt By The Past A Bit As I Am and About This New Information. However She Said She Wished I Would Have Showed Her Any Of This Love Or Caring Even A Few Months Ago And This Thing That Is Killing Me Would've Never Happened. She Did Say She Regrets It Now She Knows How I Feel. She said she did like him. However, he wanted more like a relationship and she didn't so she ended it and said he got weird to her please help!!!

2007-03-20 09:04:49 · 7 answers · asked by loongleever73 1

i am pregent ?????????? i not!!!!!!!!! never had boy friend!!!!!!!!!!!! why????????????

2007-03-20 08:57:28 · 2 answers · asked by tinkg07 1

2007-03-20 08:55:30 · 2 answers · asked by big burts bollox 2

i have so much to fix
what i have torn
threw away most of it
when i was born
now i've learned
from what i've done
hope to change
what i have become
this is my last day
i love you all
havin you in my life
i would neva fall
my visits will increase
so will the love
its time to say
good bye
to your one n only thug
before i leave
tears on this page
i love you all
so much i wanted to say
in my heart
memories will always stay
love will neva fade
when i'm far far away
this is my last day
i love you all
havin you in my life
i would neva fall
my visits will increase
so will the love
its time to say
good bye
to your one n only thug
life is 2 short
times always fly
wanna make the most of it
before i die
hope to be set
from the plans i have made
i wont be back
til that day..
this is my last day
i love you all
havin you in my life
i would neva fall
my visits will increase
so will the love
its time to say
good bye
2 your one n only thug

2007-03-20 08:54:37 · 3 answers · asked by THUG LIFE 2

I am a divorced father of three living on my own for three years now and am now used to having my own space, time and agenda.

I have a wonderful girlfriend who is so appreciative of the things i do for her large and small and we only get together once or twice a week. This after her father disowned her at 12 years old and was in a marriage in which her husband mentally and physically abused her. She has just given up residency of her three pre teen children and now has so much time on her hands and that time she wants to spend with me. She tells me that 'I make her feel like her' something she has not been since her marriage 14 years ago. I am flattered by this, as my ex wife was very controlling.
I enjoy her company with the current arrangement as I have a busy schedule with all the other things in my life and would like to keep the status quo ...... how do I approach this as I really don't want to upset her

2007-03-20 08:48:12 · 13 answers · asked by MAGPIE 1

not understand! I do not know one woman with an attachment to the remote and a recliner. If there is any one out there who can give me the facts i would appreciate it.

2007-03-20 08:35:22 · 4 answers · asked by princess poot 2

2007-03-20 08:32:14 · 21 answers · asked by kaybaby200688 2

I am going to be a grandmother and don't like the title. I wanted "little mama" but my daughter doesn't like that. Maybe Mia? What do you think?

2007-03-20 08:30:31 · 20 answers · asked by johnnastevens 1

I think that life is just to short to waist , I think that happines, love
and patience and understanding, is the key , what do you think?? please be honest ,

2007-03-20 08:23:37 · 3 answers · asked by E.M. 4

When I'm trying to go to sleep, I can't just go to sleep quickly, it's hard for me to do that.

So, I just imagine my own dream world and talk to my dream guy until I sleep.

One time, my sister ask me, why I talk to myself when I'm trying to go to sleep.

If friends saw me doing that, they'll think I'm crazy. How do I stop this and just go to sleep?

2007-03-20 08:20:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

1.I've not spoken to my close female friend for 4 months as we got to close.I told her that I wanted no contact so that I could get over my feelings for her. She only wanted to be friends.WE WERE NEVER A COUPLE

2.1 month ago she sent a txt saying the friendship is OVER and for me to get on with my life.

3.A week later we met at a friends reunuion party,we spoke a lot but she looked hurt and uncomfortable.At the end of the night she hugged me tightly and said take care+we'll see each other on the group roadtrip.

4.I emailed her asking if I can add her to facebook.We emailed each other a few times saying how she is/I am.I wrote bck saying I've met many new ppl+having fun wth girls!Also asked her if we're still friends.

She wrote back saying:"Yes emailings great.Yes we are still friends. Yes, I'm very busy. Yes, I'm sure you are too xx"--WHY SO BLUNT/RUDE REPLY?

5.Is she just being "civil"or"friendly"?
p.s. She's got a BF now-I'm happy for her,I fancy 2 other girls now!

2007-03-20 08:15:15 · 12 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2

sleeping on her 360 page? I just did, and I'm a little afraid my husband will be upset when he sees it lol!

2007-03-20 08:10:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 34 year old women, i had written my father an email stating how i feel about him and our relationship. my father left when i was 7 years old and there has been resentment and anger. he is a very controlling man, not very affectionate nor encouraging. i really dont feel comfortable around him. so i finally after all these years told him. i really hurt him with some of the things i said, so i offered to go and talk face to face and try and make it right... but he says hes too hurt and doesnt want to talk.... once again, its his way or no way....
any advice?

2007-03-20 08:05:11 · 5 answers · asked by coco 2

2007-03-20 07:57:58 · 10 answers · asked by DramaMama 1