A lot of women in my family tree(I mean way back, last was my grandmother) have committed suicide due to abusive husbands...I feel I have been brought in the loop. I think I can be abusive although I keep thinking and being honest emotionnally and intellectually.
Does anyone else feel they're in the "chain"?
I don't feel it right to blame myself, as it was pretty much-be abusive or I'll belt you to death....(from my father)
2007-03-20 09:25:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm so sorry you have been abused
but you need to realise
that just because your dad was horrible to you
that you think you can't control yourself!!
because you can, you plain just walk away when you are cranky &
have a house rule no one follows any one when they leave the room in anger
because the person needs space
get out of your house if you are still living at home if you are old enough to look after yourself
get some counselling because you deserve to have a life that will be happy
2007-03-20 10:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by ausblue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was abused and as such i do not act on my initial knee jerk reactions because they are the ones i was programmed with...i have to process out difficult emotions, away from the situation, so i can get clear and into my heart...knee jerk I can be very sarcastic, condesending and somtimes curt
2007-03-20 13:44:35 · answer #2 · answered by cherry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was abused is there a chance I can be abuse someone yes. the best thing to get rib of being abusive and being suicide thoughts and commiting suicide the best thing you can do for yourself is get into therpy and starting praying. get into a bible believing church and trust God to give you peace with unforgiveness and to change you and he will.
2007-03-21 06:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋