I Finally Got Everything Together To Tell Her I Still Love Her And Want Her But She Tells Me She Basically Had feThis Guy A Couple Of Times He Turned Out To Be A Stalker And She Doesn't Deal With Him Anymore. Even Though We Had Not Been Together How Do I Get Over This? I Really Do Love Her And My Two Kids And This Is Not Just Because I See Her Moving On. I Brought My Love And Feelings To Her Before I Knew About This Other Guy. So What Do I Do? I See Images And Think About What She Did With This Guy Constantly. I Want To Have Our Family Back But She Is Still Hurt By The Past A Bit As I Am and About This New Information. However She Said She Wished I Would Have Showed Her Any Of This Love Or Caring Even A Few Months Ago And This Thing That Is Killing Me Would've Never Happened. She Did Say She Regrets It Now She Knows How I Feel. She said she did like him. However, he wanted more like a relationship and she didn't so she ended it and said he got weird to her please help!!!
2007-03-20 09:04:49 · 7 answers · asked by loongleever73 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Forget about it and move on
2007-03-20 09:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are a special breed you guys always want , "get back" you cut it close or wait until its too late. I am going to give you the best advise I can . Keep everything casual & easy when speaking to her almost as if your only interest is because your friends with her . After a couple of weeks of easy going atmosphere try asking her out on a date I can not stress how you should keep it laid back by saying, you know its just a date nothing too extravagent. keep conversation lite & fun Talk about something that will get her excited (the topic) . This will establish good conversation therefore a good memory. If the date feels like it went well ask her out again if you feel un-ez about how she is feeling towards you then let her come to you next because you have just laid the ground work . Important rule DO NOT BRING UP OLD NEGATIVE MEMORIES. Let by gones be. AND PRAY GOOD LUCK & OLD FASHION COURTSHIP IS always best.
2007-03-20 09:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like you both want to be together, but you just have to forgive each other. you will not forget what happened, but you can get past it. it may take a while before you can be together again, because you will have to gain each other's trust. you might look into a counselor or look on the internet for exercises for your marraige. You might have to talk intensly about the feelings you had, and that will hurt more than anything, but it will help. good luck!!
2007-03-20 09:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by destiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a really bad country song...
seriously....
So are you and she back together or...? Dude, just take care of your kids, she sounds like she needs to get her head examined (or something else--std's!)....Show that YOU are the REAL MAN by stepping up and being Daddy.
If she loves you, then she'll be back. If she doesnt and wants to throw it all way, then it's her loss. She might not be The One for you...
2007-03-20 09:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what I do Join the Marines and drink plenty of alcohol your eventually erase it from your memory literally and a lot more things but I'm sure they are important if you lose them lfmao but yeah lots of alcohol or pot hey don't hurt lmfao hope this helps l8er
2007-03-20 09:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by Junior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant even read your message, the capital letters are extremely annoying
2007-03-20 09:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the heck? This makes zero sense.
2007-03-20 09:08:31 · answer #7 · answered by leaptad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋