i have 2 friends and both made a bet to have sex with eachother i dont like this at all the guy is doing it cuase his friends are telling him to be a man yet i tell my friend that he doesnt have to prove he is a man by having sex with her. and she is also stupid to want to have sex with him she even gave him her house key so they can have sex how can i make them relize this is not the way? by the way i am 13 and the boy is 13 and the girl is 14
2007-03-20 09:20:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell her parents what is going on. Tell a cousler at school. Tell an adult that can talk to them. You are right for wanting to stop them. It is a bad choice and they are lucky to have a good friend to look out for them.
2007-03-20 09:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by The Voice Of Reason 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the boy and girl. Tell them how you feel about the whole thing. If they refuse to listen to you, there's nothing else you can really do. Just say "Well don't come crying to me when you realize that you've made a big mistake."
If they do have sex anyway, don't feel bad. You tried you best.
2007-03-20 16:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU can't. However, and this will make you a snitch, I'd tell the kids parents, or tell your parents and let THEM be the snitches here. You're smart to realize you're all WAY too young to be sexually active. Good for you! But you can't make that decision for everyone else, only for yourself.
2007-03-20 16:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inform the parents. Immediately.
2007-03-20 16:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Try telling them that they witll enjoy sex more when they're older and with someone that they are in love with. They're too young and not a couple.
Or tell their parents but don't give any hints that it was you who told.
2007-03-20 16:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep telling him not to. and talk about all that health crap and ask him if he wants to be a dad. tell him hes an idiot to. and a that isnt what makes you a man. tell him if he wants to be a man thats not how you become a man. or if it comes to it you may have to be a snitch
2007-03-20 16:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by devin s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not stop it. It is human nature to want to mate with another. Just let it happen and THEY will see for themselves if it was right or wrong. Let THEM be in control of their own lives. Worry about what YOU DO or Do Not DO in your own.
2007-03-20 16:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by Lon D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is insane. a kid on my bus told be about how he dumped his girlfriend because she tried to handcuff him to her bed and pull his pants off. tell them that they can be intimate without sex. tell them about getting her pregnant and how much trouble it will cause. as a last resort tell them just to have oral sex, and at a super last resort, make sure she's on the pill and he has a condom.
2007-03-20 16:25:42 · answer #8 · answered by Konrad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them u dont want to be friends if there going to act like this
2007-03-20 16:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by Kelley T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show them the video "miracle of life"
its a video of a girl having a baby.
2007-03-20 16:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by dysastamami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋