kill herself and I went to her apartment and she was no there no she wont answer. She has a complicated life with a girlfriend and a husband and I dont want to get over involved but I dont know what to do....I threatened to tell the school if she didnt get help....what should i do?? I dont want to get her fired if she is just having a moment but I know she has tried in the past
2007-03-20 09:31:09 · 8 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tough one. Just be there for her and pray for the best. You could tell someone but it might make things harder on her.
2007-03-20 09:36:20 · answer #1 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is a hell of a drama huh? A girlfriend AND a husband? Yes, I would imagine her life is quite complicated balancing all of that...it is sometimes difficult to know when someone is crying out for help and when someone will actually try to kill themself. Usually when someone has made a decision to actually kill themself they are so relieved that they are finally off the roller coaster, so to speak, that a "calm" ensues and they seem actually very normal prior to killing themselves. However you can not know for sure...yes, you violated a rule, but it would be better if you put yourself out there and go to the appropriate individual(s) and get her some sort of intervention. It is a very bad position you have been placed in, but this may be life or death. Hopefully the powers that be will be lenient with you...good luck!
2007-03-20 09:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone has tried to commit suicide in the past then they may very well try it again. You don't have to put her job in jeopardy but you do need to act. The police can be anonymously alerted and they can then attempt to locate her. You need to take this seriously but once you have turned it over to the authorities you need to back away from this person as it is obviously not a healthy relationship. My grandmother always said "If you have to hide it, lie about it or pretend you didn't do it then you probably should not be doing it at all!"
2007-03-20 09:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 11:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by gregersen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just back away, for your own good. And tell the Dean everything you said here and let her handle it. Threatening suicide is a way to control other people, probably the oldest way in the book. If she's gonna do it, she'll find a way to do it, no matter what!
2007-03-20 09:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one thing for you to do and that is to share your information with the school a life is worth more than a secret once someone says they are playing with the idea of suicide you must get them help bottom line........good luck.....
2007-03-20 09:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by getatjayr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can call the police and tell them the situation and they will try to find her.
2007-03-20 09:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reccomend a good therapist. or prozac. (i'd try option two first)
2007-03-20 09:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋