1.I've not spoken to my close female friend for 4 months as we got to close.I told her that I wanted no contact so that I could get over my feelings for her. She only wanted to be friends.WE WERE NEVER A COUPLE
2.1 month ago she sent a txt saying the friendship is OVER and for me to get on with my life.
3.A week later we met at a friends reunuion party,we spoke a lot but she looked hurt and uncomfortable.At the end of the night she hugged me tightly and said take care+we'll see each other on the group roadtrip.
4.I emailed her asking if I can add her to facebook.We emailed each other a few times saying how she is/I am.I wrote bck saying I've met many new ppl+having fun wth girls!Also asked her if we're still friends.
She wrote back saying:"Yes emailings great.Yes we are still friends. Yes, I'm very busy. Yes, I'm sure you are too xx"--WHY SO BLUNT/RUDE REPLY?
5.Is she just being "civil"or"friendly"?
p.s. She's got a BF now-I'm happy for her,I fancy 2 other girls now!
2007-03-20 08:15:15 · 12 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Her previous emails were normal/nice/polite.
2007-03-20 08:16:25 · update #1
sorry but from the amount of questions you've asked about this girl you quite clearly regard her as alot more than a friend.
your desperation will be painfully obvious to her, especially your comments about "having fun with girls" - a dead giveaway that you're trying to make her jealous or make her think you're not obsessed with her.
She probably sees you as a bit of a weird stalker and is trying to put some distance between the two of you. Get on with your life FOR REAL and forget about her
2007-03-20 08:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by G*I*M*P 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why did you call the reply rude?
It sounds to me like she was busy, and so answering your questions, as quickly as she could.
You're reading too much into things.
It would be a good idea for you to let her know -- don't make a big deal about it, but slip into the next communication -- about your other romantic interests.
If you've moved on, and aren't still "that way" about her, then it's time for the two of you to go back to being friends.
Sounds like that's what she's trying to do.
2007-03-20 16:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she defo feels uncomfortable let it rest for a while and date other girls like the one's you mentioned you dont have to go into a serouis relationship with no one if you think you want to try it on with your close friend but i will defo let it settle down she might be having mixed feelings on what to do and she might only be dating this guy to prove to herself that she doesnt need you but she really does let her text ring or email you first then you will know if the dust have settled yet and if it been about a month then you make the first step tell her yu want to make a fresh start with her forget what happened in the past and just be new mates and she should agree as if she's feeling uncomfortable about what happened if she says yes to the fresh start never ever mention how close you to got
2007-03-24 06:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she only had a few mins to reply to your email. I do that sometimes if I want to reply but just don't have the time. Worry when you don't get a reply at all.
2007-03-20 13:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by Charley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its sound like she had feelings for you and also im sure you did too wioth her but done the right thing to tell her FRIENDS ONLY!! it seems like when you said you wanted that break she felt that she got knocked back by you and it was kinda if i cant be your i dont wanna be your mate!! obvious as times gone by she got over this a little and maybe even hoped you may of changed your mind ...but saying you had girly friends ect maybe hurt her a bit. good luck
and to the other guy who moaned about it being posted 5 times ITS SO EVERONE IN DIFFERENT CATEGRIES GETS TO READ AND ANSWER!!LOL
2007-03-20 08:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by sammydeea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why have you posted this question 5 times? Is this a wind up or are you really waiting for the perfect answer?
2007-03-20 08:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she sounds to me a little jealous that you seem to be getting on without her maybe thats why the bluntness.if she cannot be your friend with contact and only through emails i would say maybe this friendship has died and maybe because of some awarkness.
2007-03-20 08:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by easty90210 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep posting this question perhaps you fancy her like mad and you do want to be with her if so get some balls! talk to her and tell her how you really feel if its not to be then move on ok
2007-03-20 22:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by suzy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she feels uncomfortable with the fact you had feelings for her.She is trying to distance herself from you.Maybe she has feelings for you too.Its a difficult one.Just remain friends.Dont become too obsessed with it.
2007-03-20 08:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you keep asking this question cos you haven't got the answer you want yet? It kinda defeats the object!
2007-03-20 08:26:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋