Other - Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

2007-03-20 18:54:58 · 11 answers · asked by shelli 1

2007-03-20 18:54:10 · 9 answers · asked by september 2

what do you do when your boyfriend of 2 years tells you that he's not attracted to you anymore b/c you gained a little weight? I've been dating my BF for 2 years now and things were going good and even talking about marriage and he mentions that he's not attracted to me anymore. I did gain about 15lbs...not that serious and I'm trying to work on it. Anyhow, he says he loves me and is attracted to me in other ways, but I think that just sounds like he's content and scared to break up with me or go through the hassle. (he's passive) I feel that it's more of sisterly love b/c attraction does matter, but I know isn't everything. I'm confused. We're so close to going to the next step and now I don't think we stand a chance. I said we should break up, but of course he says that's not what he wants. What should I do?

2007-03-20 18:49:50 · 18 answers · asked by confusedfatgirl 2

Hi all.
I am living with a controller.He moved in with me,and now I realize what is going on.He`s very manipulative,controlling,etc.
I only know of one friend he has in town ,and I want him out.
He`s a trucker so he always on the road,and I recently found out he has been making numerous phonecalls to other women telling them about how bad our relationship is.(this is his defense)
What are the ways to get his stuff out of the house,as he won`t leave on his own,as I have asked him many times.The controlling,and verbal abuse is getting worse.Another thing,he is constantly phoning his parents everyday who live in another country.I am getting sick of it all.I want him out,any advice from others?
Thank you in advance for your advice.
Sunflower

2007-03-20 18:43:15 · 7 answers · asked by sunflower2052002 2

I met my boyfriend when i was in italy for the first time. It was love at first sight. We kissed before we even talked and two days later I moved into his apt for the remaining month there. In the next 11 months we spent 3 months together (me there twice and he came to the us once). Then I moved there and we spent the next six months together. In that time we had communication problems, becuase he knew some english and i knew no italian, we were always learning. Other than that things were okay but he didnt encourage me to speak italian and didnt help me with independant life outside of the relationship and apt. I met friends and things were great until one day we were fighting and he slapped me across the face. I slapped him back and went back to the US. Its been 1 month, hes been writing messages saying he wants to get me a job and buy me a ticket back. he admits his mistakes completely saying he never did that before or will again. I love him very much. should i go back?

2007-03-20 18:29:18 · 5 answers · asked by fabulous13 3

I'd rather predict I'll die at age 74 than listen to mom to rush myself to lose weight.

2007-03-20 18:25:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-20 18:24:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

We had been together for 5 years and things just went downhill the last 2 years or so. We had our own place and were suddenly unlawfully evicted, and forced to immediately move in with a family member of mine. We stayed here for over a year, then we broke up. She has no where to go, and no friends who are in a position to help her out. I made her leave and stay with her mother, who has a studio apartment with her husband. She calls me after 3 days and tells me her mother said she cannot stay there, theres no space. She cries and begs me to let her stay here. We reluctantly allow her back, ONLY so she can get a job and move out. Now she's having guys from MYSPACE call here. Should a girl in this position suddenly be having guys calling her at MY families house? Do I not have all the right in the world to feel completely disrespected? I am 150% over her, there's honestly not a bit of jealousy in my frustration. She thinks its completely acceptable. Should I not feel upset???

2007-03-20 18:14:59 · 18 answers · asked by Headcase #5150 2

every so offen me and my boyfiend would have an off day and start saying things we dont remember what even even said to the other person (like 5 mins later). The other person would would get mad and not give it up (mostly him) being mad. (it was all most over for us tonight)

since we started dating about a year ago (going on 11 months) since day one of us dating my mother has said i could only see him one a week either on a friday after he is off of work or on saturday. (im 21 and he is 29)

I resently just got a job (a week ago after about a year of not having one). I can tell that my parents are now some what more lean with me.


So my question(s) is 1. how can i not make my boyfriend mad (so it not over between us). 2. how can i see more offen then about once a week.

2007-03-20 18:07:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

That little girl has a big head, she was running to hug me and hit me right in the nuts.

2007-03-20 18:02:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-20 17:51:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am losing it. I am a mother of 4. Three are grown and then I have a two year old. I have a husband that comes home, takes a shower and goes to bed..or engulfs himself in his tv or computer. I can't say that I blame him, life with kids can be pretty crazy...but I am feeling alone here. When my husband goes to bed the loud snoaring begins. I have no spare bedroom. My 23 year old son moved in with us 6 months ago. He sleeps on the couch. He wrecked his truck yesterday and has no money. He is totally irresponsible with his money. He does have a job and needs me to take him to work now. It is quite a drive. My 18 year old sons girlfriend broke up with him and he is heartbroken. I am worried about him. My 25 year old daughter is off doing her own thing with her two year old daughter in Foster Care. I am trying to be a good mother...but I am losing it. I cannot get any sleep because of the snoaring, which makes me an awfully grumpy parent in the morning. I just feel overwhelmed. HELP!

2007-03-20 17:50:38 · 12 answers · asked by rcpaden 5

Im 19, college student, recently had surgery on ankle, unable to work, my mom agreed for me to pawn jewelry she doesnt like along with mine, ive never done this before, what are the steps? what if a piece of jewelry is damaged?? Please help, thanks. (Also, do you need paperwork along with jewelry? They are very old, we wouldnt have that available)

2007-03-20 17:44:55 · 2 answers · asked by i cant think of a nickname 1

I am married and 4 1/2 months pregnant and i been wanting to have sum fun with my friend that is a girl she wants it to but im in a relationship and having a baby..but yet i really wanna do it because i never did anything like that in my life. should i just do it and forget about it or what?

2007-03-20 17:42:45 · 4 answers · asked by tasha o 1

not like stalking them, but if it's the person of your dreams then isn't it harder to start a relationship?

2007-03-20 17:40:27 · 7 answers · asked by psst..its me 2

Need the contact person of the Counsellor / A Psyciatrist.

2007-03-20 17:38:56 · 2 answers · asked by shankar_hv 1

i want to live a single free life sometimes but....then agian i love them dearly im confused

2007-03-20 17:26:47 · 15 answers · asked by tiffanie C 1

2007-03-20 17:20:36 · 13 answers · asked by genuine♥ 3

i mean which relationship is more strong......

brother-brother
sister-sister
brother-sister

2007-03-20 17:13:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-20 17:01:35 · 3 answers · asked by da da 1

2007-03-20 16:42:59 · 12 answers · asked by R 1

2007-03-20 16:38:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was wondering who has started christmas shopping yet?

2007-03-20 16:32:22 · 4 answers · asked by wishstar28 4

Send my old ex Boyfriend whom Im still in love with an email,? Its been yrs since we have spoken he is married now and has a family ,but from what I heard hes having alot of problems and his significant other has cheated on him

plus Im live in Canada and my ex lives in Michigan, but I dont care I will still go out there to see him, Im still very much in love with him, O and another thing do u think he still might love me or think of me ? we had been together all through our high school years and couple of years of our adult life

2007-03-20 16:26:58 · 11 answers · asked by jewles99 1

Goodness, is it so hard all the time when their deployed? Arg, wondering if their okay is hard.
Writing letters gets hard too after youve written 3 million.
Care packages get pricey (but i have no complaints).
but its hard to be all happy, but then a lot of deployed boyfriend dump their galfriends right before their due home.

Why?

2007-03-20 16:25:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months now and he's been my bestfriend for 2 years prior. I really really do love him with all my heart. He's been there for me when no one else was. My parents use to be thankful for that but a bit had happened at my work and I told my parents that I was working when I actually wasnt. I was hanging out with my BF. They found out about it and have been punishing me for it by not letting me see him. But I really do love him and I want to continue seeing him and hopfully next spring get married. I'm 18 I have a steady job as does my BF but my parents dont want me to see him anymore and I live with them so being with him creats a lot of problems.

I dont know what to do. I cant decide to if I should tell my parents that I'm not seeing him but continue to sneak around with him or should I tell them that I love him and that I will not cut him out of my life.

Does anyone have a suggestion as to what I can tell them. How would you word it?

2007-03-20 16:00:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

in other words, should teenagers be able to have sex and find themselves in this aspect of their intimate life, or should they have to wait till marriage to explore their sexuality

2007-03-20 15:57:57 · 5 answers · asked by nickname 4

I'm depressed at school because I am constantly harassed and have no friends. I am stuck with the reputation that I am annoying, and even though I have worked on that forever and I have defiantly improved it I am stuck with it. I have no friends and no one wants to talk to me. I skateboard and I come to school being called a poser. I've tried everything, therapy, threats, everything. Along with that my home life sucks because everyone is out to get me and my church life is,amazing, bad too.

Bullies will harass me and every day they not only find my weak points but push me farther. Someone gave them my cell number and now I'm getting prank calls. They won't let up even when I fire the best of comebacks from the internet.

I'm also interested in a girl but she wants nothing to do with me and knows that I'm a creep. I see her every day but she ignores me like I'm not there. That has always been a problem and always will be.

I have no clue what to do! Could someone give me some advice?

2007-03-20 15:57:12 · 8 answers · asked by Luke K (www.lukeishere.com) 2

2007-03-20 15:55:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

how many girls shouted on a road to a random guy to say hi and waived at him. why did u do it...? did the guy stop and talked to u...?

2007-03-20 15:48:16 · 4 answers · asked by Sagar 6