Other - Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

how have other people coped?
We still love each other but this is too big..is there any hope?

2007-03-07 20:05:58 · 9 answers · asked by Brij 1

2007-03-07 19:58:56 · 19 answers · asked by stano 1

My little sister is 13 years old and has come to me asking what she should do. Her boyfriend has been trying to talk her into having sex. I know she likes him (she says she loves him) but I also know what having sex too soon can do to you mentally. She's using what I did in the past as an example to follow and she doesn't understand it was a mistake. She can't talk to my mom about it, and I know that whatever I say to her, she'll do what she wants. She's a beautiful, headstrong, brilliant young woman and I don't want to see her hurt or diminished the way I was. How do I get her to at least THINK about what I'll say to her? I'm going to talk with her tomorrow night and I want to get this right. I know that if she's old enough to think about it, she needs to hear all the facts about condoms, STD's, pregnancy and how she changes in her own mind, but how do I teach her to tell the difference between sincere compliments and flattery used to get into her pants? How do I help her?

2007-03-07 19:55:39 · 12 answers · asked by garcia_lives86 2

2007-03-07 19:54:33 · 5 answers · asked by met_expectaions 1

A few years back my brother said he was going to join the army, and my mom cried every night for two weeks straight. He then ended up changing his mind. I don't want to see how upset she would be if I actually joined. I've been wanting this for a long time now though. It's the one thing in my life that I am really passionate about. Any thoughts?

2007-03-07 19:47:44 · 14 answers · asked by scammaj12 3

be open to everything?

2007-03-07 19:40:48 · 10 answers · asked by sunnycali2006 1

that is comfortable in there own skin ?? and is not embarrased to be open about anything , and is real and when she knows what she wants she has her way of getting it,,
well I like to say hello and admit that it is me , yes I am not affraid to be myself,, who is next????

2007-03-07 19:37:38 · 10 answers · asked by E.M. 4

2007-03-07 19:21:25 · 10 answers · asked by stano 1

Have you ever had an intimate encounter with your same sex therapist?

2007-03-07 19:10:08 · 2 answers · asked by BONNIE 2

she has been taken to hospital and the family are really worried about her. Please pray for this little girl that she will recover soon.

2007-03-07 18:53:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

That my mom forces me to go to church while she lazes around in the house on Sunday morning??

2007-03-07 18:44:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Many Americans are against immigrants because immigrants usually take away their jobs... I’m from India, a trained computer specialist who currently works for Dell’s organization.

I’m certainly not opposing Americans offensively here, but I must say I am astonished that America is a rich country, especially since most Americans aren’t so enlightened.

Approximately 80% of Americans fail to grasp the meaning of these 1st grade words ( Then, than, their, there, to, too, two, your, you’re).

What really puzzles me, though, is how America is a rich country. We can leisurely find smarter people from Africa compared to those in America, and yet America is one of the richest countries in the world, while Africa is one of the poorest countries in the world. I am not saying Americans are dumb at all, but they’re not smart people; at least not one of the top 10.

2007-03-07 18:34:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

And if so, how often and for what reasons?

2007-03-07 18:33:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Happy International Women's Day! (- -,)

2007-03-07 18:11:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been seeing this guy for a little while now. He took me out to dinner and i've hung out with him a few times at our friends house but i've known him for a while. During this he never pulled a move. Not even a kiss. I think he's shy. I don't normally date but i don't want to be sleeping around occasionally with different guys for no actual romantic reason and besides theres something about this guy that I really like. By I don't normally date I mean this would be my first actual relationship besides a guy a date for a month that i dated after I had sex with at a party. I didn't make a move because I don't want things to go to fast because I don't want to be like I used to be but I feel like i want to with him and for more meaningful reasons. What should I do and how long do people normally wait to have sex with a guy there going to be getting into a relationship with.

2007-03-07 18:07:07 · 11 answers · asked by jessica h 1

2007-03-07 17:57:12 · 7 answers · asked by jedi 1

I had this weird dream last night that my sister in law tried to kill me! She has never liked me & last year when she was hear she was so mean to me! Plus she is a drug additic & I do not trust her. In the dream she and two losers showed up with guns. I locked myself in my den & got out a window but I can't get to sleep tonight 'cause it is still on my mind! Is this just weird? When I woke up it felt like it was going to happen! And when my hubby told me she might visit at easter I got worried!
He says I'm nuts by the way!
When she was here last year she changed my living room around & when I told her to stop she said it was her brothers house & we got into a big fight & me & my son left to a hotel until she left!

2007-03-07 17:54:04 · 4 answers · asked by Barbara 4

Why do Americans always seem to misspell words? Why do they always use " THEN" when it should be "THAN" and "YOU'RE" instead of " YOUR?"

Why do Americans use erroneous sentences? I thought the English language was their default language.

The cat is over THERE, not the cat is over THEIR.

Stop using Their and There incorrectly; those two words are baby words.

My God.

2007-03-07 17:49:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

feel lost now. We were together 6 yrs 2 kids and all he done was drag me down and introduce me to drugs. I want happiness and cant seem to get it. Why? Why cant I just find someone to apprectiate me? Why cant I get my life to what it was? A car,home etc. It has been so long since I laughed

2007-03-07 17:49:27 · 11 answers · asked by hardcore 1

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 yrs now and the topic of us getting married has been brought up several times by him. Recently he has told me that he has been talking to one of his old buddies who has just moved back stateside. I was comfortable with him talking to her, they talk about once a month. Just recently I asked him what their last conversation was about(I was curious) and he said that he asked her "Were just friends right?" I asked why would you need to ask her that if she already knew? He really did not have a straight answer. I felt that there was more being discussed then what he was telling me. (He also had told me that he had once thought of her as attractive, I don't feel those feelings ever really change) he said not to worry, its no big deal. Is he trying to make me feel insecure, so that I will committ to him with an engagement ring, which he is alwasy wanting me to wear?

2007-03-07 17:47:40 · 4 answers · asked by Advice25 1

2007-03-07 17:43:39 · 18 answers · asked by gregdean 1

okay i ride the bus to school school and i was talking to some people and made 2 friends. 1 is a guy and the other is a girl. that guy i gave a nick name "blondie" and we were just bus friends until he said he was going to my house later that day. and it creeped me out. so i told him to get the hell away from me. and he did. 4 months later i miss the way he makes me laugh and the jokes he tells. and i really want to talk to him again. and i know he want to talk to me to. but i am afraid he wil get the wrong idea and get closer to me like last time. and start thinking he can come over because he is like 6 apt. down. he is a 7th grader and i am a 8th grader. in the begining i didnt want to be firend with him but the girl he talked to. so i made friends with the girl and he tagged along. so i didnt care if he was there or not. but i just really want to say hi once in a while. but the last time i did he was doing the last time. what should i do. he is nice and not a bad person eirther.

2007-03-07 17:34:41 · 2 answers · asked by LIlSis K 1

he was really brokenhearted 4 months ago,but now seeing another girl again

2007-03-07 17:25:22 · 3 answers · asked by nova 2

ok im beautiful and loving and caring and accomoddting and on and on....but when its d time to understand me, where's he? we're still very much in love. he used to understand me, care for me, help me bring up the kids effectively but since a couple of months he has started furying up at every lil thing. getting cranky and loud at the drop of the hat. i know something is bothering him but he doesn't speak it out. how do i help him? how do i help myself.....i wanna bring the spark back in my life....

2007-03-07 17:14:51 · 4 answers · asked by Muvi 1

i live with my bf (by necessity, i have nowhere else to go. but i'm not WITH him by necessity, i'm with him cuz we love each other). recently, he got a job he finally likes and its starting to seem permanent.

the problem: 12-hour workdays (or more) practically everyday and sometimes saturdays. give 2 hours for commute, 8 hours for sleep, that leaves 2 hours a day of free time (not even including eating, showering, etc.) we hardly ever have time together anymore. i've tried talking to him, but he just gives me a guilt trip like "i'm doing it for you!" or "i finally have a job i love, why cant you be happy for me?"

i feel like i've taken second place next to his job. should i leave him be? what about my happiness? am i being too needy? should i just play the role of housewife with no expectations? this much work isn't necessary to pay the bills, they're MORE than paid for. i'm beginning to feel like i have a roommate rather than a bf. i miss the man and we freaking live together!

2007-03-07 17:02:17 · 15 answers · asked by fear of the dark 5

well we hung out like three times and then everyone knew i liked him and someone asked him and he said he didnt know he is not good at asking girls out because he used to like this girl and he didnt want to ask her out but he said he is over her and he hugs her and her friends and talks to her he comes behind me and talks to his friends and smiles at me it looks like at least then he looked pissed and i wanted t ry the friend thing first so my friend told him that i didnt like him like that anymore and just wanted to be friends when he was already sad or mad or whatever his emotion was and my friend told me he said that he didnt care and wasnt the one that liked me in the first place yet he flirted with me and i was wondering if he liked me or not be
cause i still do like him and i really feel bad

2007-03-07 16:55:40 · 1 answers · asked by M.C.C. 2

Our 5-year-annivesery is coming up, and as a present, I thought of compiling a book of our relationship using blurb.com. I'm going to incoporate over 11 years worth of photographs in it, as well as letters and emails that have been written. It's going to be seperated into two parts - 'the story of us', and the 'scrapbook' area (the latter taking up most of the book). I'm going to write out how we met, became friends, dated, got engaged and so forth...the only problem is, I have NO IDEA how to begin it! We met in Sunday School when we were 8 years old, if that helps. Please, anything you can come up with will be GREATLY appreciated - something besides 'once upon a time there was a boy and girl'. Also, what point of veiw should it be in? I want our kids to be able to read it, so I'm not sure if I want it from my POV, because that leaves his thoughts out- but will it seem too impersonal if I do it from 3rd person? Please, give me ideas!

2007-03-07 16:53:11 · 2 answers · asked by Ames 1

The one who you can go to talk to about absolutely anything?
The one who you could trust with your life?
Person with answer closest to mine = best answer =]

2007-03-07 16:41:34 · 9 answers · asked by Rar 2

i had a friend in kindergarden we were very close...he also lived across the street from me..he moved away in elementary school...i was really sad about it then,..when i started high school i found out he went to the same school i was so happy..we talked on msn and he talked to me at the school dance and during one of his classes when i went to his class..he asked me many times who it was that i liked...i never told him but it was him...i am very sure he knows though...he seemed interested in me ..he flirted..i don't think i flirted much though...only onb msn not in person.,,,now he doesn't talk to me much only a little in one of our classes....i think he thought i wasn't interested in him...i have had feelings for him for a long time(7 months)he is very sweet and i fell in love with his personality...he is currently single and i really need help...i need advice..but its not as simple as just asking him out...i am thirteen but it wont distract my studies because i get a's...HELP??!!!!?

2007-03-07 16:39:50 · 6 answers · asked by Shaken, Not Stirred. 2

2007-03-07 16:37:46 · 27 answers · asked by friend 1