how have other people coped?
We still love each other but this is too big..is there any hope?
2007-03-07 20:05:58 · 9 answers · asked by Brij 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and it took him 17 years to realise this! i dont want to sound harsh, but i think there is something hes not telling you :-(
2007-03-07 20:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by ginger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you, I have two kids and left my husband because he abused me terribly however if it werent for my kids I would feel worthless.... If you love ea other you should try to work it out, have you considered adoption or IVF? I am assuming you cannot have children? If you are able to have kids I recommend doing so - yes it changes your life but you get to re-live your own childhood - they give u a sense of youth that cant be immitated. Good luck and god bless, u deserve to be happy.
2007-03-08 04:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by gudsport 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What a huge blow to you, I am so sorry.I am sure you have both talked about your wishes or adoption.I wish I had a magic wand to make things right for you both.But as your both two different people, you both have to either try to work though this or sadly move on.
2007-03-08 04:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by mother hen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no hope. He wants kids, i assume u can't or don't. that will always be a wedge between you. No one can sort this for you, except for you. Talk about it to a relationship councillor, but the decisions and feelings are going to be yours.
2007-03-08 04:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by tickTickTICK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dated a girl that from the start told me that she didnt want kids.... i thought that she would change her mind.... but she wouldnt.... so i saw no future with her .....and we broke up....
I love her... but have to have kids.... as i am an only son of 7 generations... so if i go the whole family name goes....
So i dont have the choice of not having kids....
2007-03-08 04:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
having children is also an important part of our pschological system it can not be simply ignored when one is not pre[pared of it
u both right in your dicision but if cannot co operate will have to choose different ways
sorry
2007-03-08 04:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Bye, Bye, next.
2007-03-08 04:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
adopt! it will help a child and give you fulfillment. theres nothing wrong with being a single parent if you can afford it
2007-03-08 04:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Well he simply wants to leave you.hahahahaha
2007-03-08 04:11:06 · answer #9 · answered by maki" The time begins Now 5 · 1⤊ 5⤋