2007-03-07 19:58:56 · 19 answers · asked by stano 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would just let it be.
It can only cause a lot of heart break
2007-03-07 20:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the married lady is your wife then wine her dine her and tell her how you feel.
If she is someone elses wife then think carefully.You can be swept away thinking this is love because it is exciting ,secretive and all the things your wife was when you met her but the truth is it wont be that way 4 ever just as you have found with your relationship with your wife.But you should think carefully,why did you marry your wife?If you search inside you may find that you have something much deeper with your wife and you should not risk letting her go.If however you no longer love your wife,cannot imagine a future with her at all then sit down and tell her.She needs the truth so that she can pick herself up and find someone that truly loves her and is devoted to only her.If this married woman has just made your heart flutter a bit and you still care for your wife then you need to stop this before it goes further and again sit down and tell your wife what is going on!We are all only human and you should not beat yourself up too much over this,just concentrate on the woman you vowed to be with and remember how you felt that day.
2007-03-07 20:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lorraine D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it a pity that neither of you love or respect your own spouses enough? I suppose you won't think of leaving your wife - as you obviously don't love HER - until you get the response you're looking for from this other man's wife? If you really love this other woman, do the decent thing and leave the woman you're pretending to love. If it doesn't work out for you, at least your wife has a chance to find a decent man for herself.
2007-03-07 20:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by f0xymoron 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right she's probably happy with her partner. Leave her be. You shouldn't be chasing her anyway. What about your partner, How much will you hurt them. My parents had this dilemma and it tore our whole family into two. Now I am not allowed to talk to my cousin who i view almost as my brother. Or see. So think about the consequences first. There will be repercussion's in the end result. Most others will tell you the same thing. Go back to your partner and if you don't feel right with them. Talk to your partner and let your relationship go with dignity for your partner's sake.
2007-03-08 00:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by Genesis1753 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u mad? i gather u both have kids too and despite that u r going out of ur marriage? if u love this married lady then who is she who sleeps with u? who cares for u? who is upset when u r upset?
try to grow up and think straight. ur life is entirely diff from the other one. dont spoil lives of so many people just because of your one blunder. May god help u to overcome from this situation.
2007-03-07 20:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by nice_lady559 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u leave well alone.
or get divorced & then tell her.
u r not in a position 2 fool around!
she's married & ur married.
ur poor wife, what did she do 2 deserve a two-timing creep like u?
& u didn't take ur Vows seriously, did u?
remember
FORSAKING ALL OTHERS?
grow up & remember those Vows.
2007-03-07 20:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You and JASON S should get along just fine in your little club of player's then! NUTSTER'S got it right--you made vow's to your wife, she in turn made vow's to you-(pity you are about to forget them, IF this 'other woman' fall's for your charm's!)-so until you get divorced, you should keep to those vow's--THEN you can do as you please, with whom ever you please. Its player's like you who give the rest of us decent guy's a bad name...we are all tarred with the same brush by women because of the like's you and your kind. You shouldn't have got married in the first place if you knew you couldn't keep yer pecker in yer pants!
2007-03-07 20:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat. We were txting one night last week and I just put it at the end of the txt, hoping it would be OK. She was unsure at first as to what I had said, so she asked me to confirm it. Then she said she loved me back, I was sooo relieved and soooo happy.
You just have to go for it and tell her how you feel.
2007-03-07 20:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by Robin 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You shouldn't. It's for the sake of everyone other than yourself. Some feelings are best kept secret.
2007-03-07 20:03:11 · answer #9 · answered by sk|TTLes™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't let her know. Grow up and be a man to your poor wife!
2007-03-07 20:05:34 · answer #10 · answered by Angel D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋