what do you think?

Question

okay i ride the bus to school school and i was talking to some people and made 2 friends. 1 is a guy and the other is a girl. that guy i gave a nick name "blondie" and we were just bus friends until he said he was going to my house later that day. and it creeped me out. so i told him to get the hell away from me. and he did. 4 months later i miss the way he makes me laugh and the jokes he tells. and i really want to talk to him again. and i know he want to talk to me to. but i am afraid he wil get the wrong idea and get closer to me like last time. and start thinking he can come over because he is like 6 apt. down. he is a 7th grader and i am a 8th grader. in the begining i didnt want to be firend with him but the girl he talked to. so i made friends with the girl and he tagged along. so i didnt care if he was there or not. but i just really want to say hi once in a while. but the last time i did he was doing the last time. what should i do. he is nice and not a bad person eirther.

Answer 1

If you only want his friendship be honest up front. Tell him that you think he is a really nice person but you aren't interested in anything but being a friend. If he still takes it the wrong way then my only advice is to just let things be. Sometimes guys get the wrong signals from us females. In my own experiences I have always been honest and it usually worked. The question is are just afraid of his age. If he is not a bad person and is nice then why not just go with the flow. If you are totally not interested then don't lead him on in anyway. Most the time just being honest works try and see.

Answer 2

I think you should email him or call him and tell him that you want to be good friends but nothing more than that. hopefully you guys can go back to being friends and he won't do what he did again. If he does then I wouldn't be friends with him ever again, no matter how much I miss him.