Other - Family & Relationships - 11 February 2007

My partner's ex husband has been a bit of an investigator and has managed to contact my previous partners and got them to write about me. He got a collection of mails and letters which he gave to my partner. I am not perfect but it's not fair. I tried to get over this embarrassment but now it is affecting my life. What can I do?

2007-02-11 03:52:57 · 9 answers · asked by Keef 1

My girlfriend still cares what her ex-boyfriend thinks about her, he was a "bad boy" and hurt her terribly. She always fell into that "bad boy " trap of thinking she could change them. I am the first "good guy" she has ever had. She never even got one rose until me. So my question is. Does the fact that she cares what this guy thinks of her mean that she still has feelings for her? Or does it just mean that she doesn't want people to dislike her? Any comments please...!!!...

2007-02-11 03:36:54 · 14 answers · asked by fionnlagh20 1

I am a Filipino and almost always away from home because I worked abroad. She once said that what's wrong with having a boyfriend at her age? She also said that why wait until the age of 18, and she added that what is the difference between 14 and 18?

2007-02-11 03:35:24 · 23 answers · asked by Dadirac 1

My boyfriend is roughly 3 years younger than me. i'm 20. I'm worried that when i'm ready for a baby (about 24 i think) he won't be and by the time he is (he says 23, in which case i'll be 27!) i'll be getting on a bit! i don't want to be an older mum! does anyone else have a younger man?have you come across this problem or thought about it?

2007-02-11 03:31:04 · 5 answers · asked by Nikita R 2

Im a 17 year old guy who a few weeks ago lost his V. During the first time we went on for 1.5 hours, she orgasmed about 10 times while I failed to recieve one, she was dissapointed and angry at herself for not making my first time as reamemberable as she would of liked to, but which guy wouldnt like to hear during his first time "I lost the count on 5..."? In the morning we tryed again and it lasted for 30 minutes, 3 for her 1 for me. At later times we have been in a hurry so i have made it 15 to 20 minutes, only once has she failed to recieve an orgasm, usually she gets 2-3. Last night during 40 minutes she got 4. I seem to be in controll of when i come... my question to you is - is that normal sex?

2007-02-11 03:29:11 · 16 answers · asked by Bungalo 1

what would be a nice note to put inside a thank you that some one sent you for a memorial??

2007-02-11 03:16:21 · 3 answers · asked by mary c 3

2007-02-11 03:00:56 · 4 answers · asked by : 6

I'm having quite the time adjusting from a drama filled relationship to a healthy one....My jerk ex could have done anything to me and I wouldn't have cared. He could have dressed like anything or acted like anything and i would have thought it was cute/funny cause i was trying to prove to him that i was the girl for him and not the other 50 he was seeing....Now with the good guy if he does the same thing i would look at him differently and feel as though i wouldnt be able to accept flaws in him?

Is there a reason for this? I want to be able to love the nice/hot guy!

2007-02-11 02:53:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Drama has never been apart of my life, but since me and my bf have been together is has been a complete roller coster. I constantly question whether or not I am doing the right thing or making the right decision. I don't have a friend/family member that sees anything positive in my relationship, and honestly I know that things will never turn out right myself. However, I keep trying. Today, I have to throw him out of the house, and I am scared to death of confronting him. He always says that I leave him by himself when I'm supposed to stand beside him. I know in my heart that I'm doing the right thing. But how can I be more assertive, How can I stop second guessing, and how can I stop this annoying cycle?

2007-02-11 02:43:12 · 11 answers · asked by prettydebutante 3

She's turning 16 in March and I want to make it the best but I'm limited on funds.... what are some good ideas - please keep them clean people - lol

2007-02-11 02:41:06 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6

I am pregnant and sick, and my husbund never lets me sleep in. Its beginning to bother me a lot, and I dont want to freak out on him, but its getting tiring.

2007-02-11 02:35:11 · 18 answers · asked by brandywine840213 3

what is the best romantic action someone has done for you or the best romatic sentence has said to you?

2007-02-11 02:34:47 · 4 answers · asked by bp9770 2

2007-02-11 02:31:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

By delicious food or great entertainment or amusement rides?

2007-02-11 02:28:52 · 2 answers · asked by Reo 5

i know she was a slag and stuff but now shes dead does anyone feel sorry for her?

2007-02-11 02:10:13 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

anf where have you seen one other, than your own

2007-02-11 02:08:33 · 4 answers · asked by upfromnutin 2

2007-02-11 02:02:28 · 22 answers · asked by nut ty 1

2007-02-11 01:54:41 · 15 answers · asked by S T 1

my husband is 32 and i'm 30. were 3 years married, with no kids yet. He works abroad, and will be arriving this april, and i work at the hospital. we love each other, and i wish to give him this special moment to remember when he arrives. i will value your suggestions. thanks!

2007-02-11 01:54:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Someone (an adult) wrote a note of apology to my 13-year old daughter for offending her.

I need some ideas for ways to teach my child to verbalize her acceptance response to this adult in an email. I have some ideas - but just want to bounce this off YA. Thanks - and earnest replies only - please! ( it wasn't a serious offense, but an offense nonetheless!) and a teachable moment!

2007-02-11 01:46:57 · 20 answers · asked by what's up? 6

Here's what happened...my daughter had her fifth b-day, no call or card at that point from my step mom and dad so I text messaged her (she's deaf) and said 'did you remember today is her b-day? Don't worry no big deal just thought the dates got mixed up or something". She texted me back saying a torrent of abuse such as ' don't tell me what to do, I would never forget, maybe you are just feeling moody or depressed but don't you forget I am older and wiser' etc.... I wrote back stunned saying 'how dare you talk to me like this, you've misunderstood why I wrote, I meant no harm' The end result is they are not speaking to me, they felt they should not have to call, I should have, and that they didn't misunderstand, that I am wrong. I said I am sorry you took it this way but it was not meant that way, I did not deserve your saying hurtful things to me I was simply trying to do a nice thing, in the past b-days have gotten mixed up and thought this was the case. R they right??

2007-02-11 01:43:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

What day (M T W Th F S Su) does your school usually schedule band concerts? What time of the day are they usually scheduled?

My son's new band teacher (just out of college 22 or 23) has scheduled a concert for 2pm on a Sunday. Is this inconsiderate of people's time? It's smack dab in the middle of the day, making it very innconvienent to plan a family outting for the day.

2007-02-11 01:35:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-11 01:31:42 · 23 answers · asked by ikshu g 1

Please should I leave my home or do what she says?

2007-02-11 01:19:57 · 7 answers · asked by King of MC 1

pretty much since i could walk, i was pushed down stairs, shoved at microway cabnits and blocks of wood, the wood caused a minor concussion, and he sprained my arms a couple of dozen times, now he just either yells at me or ignores me. was this abuse?

2007-02-11 01:07:22 · 26 answers · asked by Tiffany 1

well..........................

2007-02-11 00:56:43 · 14 answers · asked by hottiegurlhottie 1

Im so Confused and i need any help that you can offer me. Im worrying about this problem over and over and cant come to any rational answer.
Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and up unitl 2 months ago everything was OUT OF THIS WORLD....Honestly It was fantastic. I could see my future with him stretching into the distance.

One day out of the blue a thought entered my head - what if I dont love him - What if it is all my imagination and I am convincing myself of this.

Since then, which was 2 months ago I cant get the thoughts out of my head, they worry me from the time I get up to the time I go to bed. They worry me when I am at work and even somtimes (rarely) When I am with my boyfriend. When I hug him and kiss him, in the back of my mind a voice is asking me if what im doing is fair on him because what if deep down inside I Dont love him? I still enjoy having sex with him and enjoy making him dinners, spending nights at home alone but the smallest things are driving me crazy!This is my first non dramatic relationship where I actually trust the guy could this be why maybe cause it is so unfamiliar? Althought the smallest things about him are driving me crazy. From the way he yawns to the way he says "I love you" - Cold this be cause my mind is analyzing everything right now?

I have explained this to my bf and he is being very supportive. I still enjoy spending time with him and enjoy goign on weekend getaways with him but prefer to just me him and I and no one else we know.

How can I beat this cycle of worry and try to work it out if I really do love him? I keep telling myself that I wouldnt be so hurt and worries at the thought of losing him if I didnt love him, but that doesnt seem to have an effect on my mental state.

Any suggestions? My GP put me on an anti-anxiety pill and that is helping a bit, but I started taking it 2 months ago so I'm sure I have the full effect...thanks!

2007-02-11 00:48:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-11 00:30:07 · 6 answers · asked by Blonde & Sharp 2

2007-02-11 00:03:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-11 00:01:35 · 9 answers · asked by vivek k 1