2007-02-11 02:02:28 · 22 answers · asked by nut ty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you move on
it happens to ALL of us!
we deal with it and move on
2007-02-11 02:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes 2 to tango don't forget, you can give everything you got to give to try make thing works but if the other person isn't really trying then it won't. If yall both were trying with everything yall have to give and it still didn't work. Then I'm sorry honey it just wasn't meant to happen, not everyone finds their true love or their soul mate on the first few times. With the whole how does a person survive when a relationship ends, listen up, yes it's going to hurt for a very long time maybe even for life speically if you truely loved him, but no matter how bad you think the situration is you can never give up cause if he wasn't the right one for you, then that means there's someone out waiting for you that is the right person, so if you give up then your giving up on your true mate. God works in the most weirdest times, but everything that happens in your life no matter if it's good or bad. It happen for a reason and one day you'll figure out that maybe this was for the best cause now i'm alot happier and so on. Just look at the good times and be happy for each other, except the fact that yall weren't right for each other and move on. You can't stop your life just because one relationship didn't work out. Well good luck
2007-02-11 10:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just went through this. And the one thing I disliked the most, was hearing "move-on". As if I didnt want to and the thought never occurred to me. The best thing that I found was to cut all ties and memories. Remove old pictures, get rid or old gifts, etc. Also dont stop living your life. Embrace your friends. Find a new hobby. Keep a journal of your emotions. Write a letter to him explaining how hurt you are (you dont have to give it to him). The point is to voice your feelings. The hardest part about heart break is when you have to so much more to say and you dont say it. And last but not leat, embrace you hurt. If you have the feeling to cry then do it, but let it go when it's over and keeping trudging. There is no quick cure to a brokenheart. It takes time and only your heart will know when it's done grieving. Be patient with yourself.
2007-02-11 10:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Survival is a choice. Some people never get over it, others have gone into clinical depression, and most learn from their mistakes and move on. No one person gets a relationship "right" two people make a relationship work through compromise, commitment, love, and acceptance. A lion and a deer cannot usually have a relationship regardless of how much the deer tries to get it "right".
2007-02-11 10:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best medicine for a ended relationship is to move on, keep busy and involve yourself with activities that will keep you busy so that you don't have time to think about the break-up. Sometimes you can do everything in your power to make something work, but sometimes it's more on the other person part that it didn't work out. It takes two so that a relationship can work. So don't beat yourself up over it, move on because maybe there's someone out there waiting to meet you. Good luck.
2007-02-11 10:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does happen - even when you try your best. Stop kicking yourself. Get to know yourself again. When we're in a relationship we become part of a couple. Now that you're not part of a couple you'll have a different perspective on things - get to relearn or discover what that perspective is now that you're on your own.
Being on your own isn't bad. It gives you time to reflect and to discover new things. In time, your pain will lessen and you will be able to move on.
If the same dialog is spinning around in your head about what you could or should have done, get a journal and just write it down. Sometimes getting it on paper makes it easier to let go. It also allows you to get passed the spinning dialog and find answers or resolutions.
Good luck.
2007-02-11 10:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jasper213 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its take a long time to survive when relationship ends. dont worry i know u can survive with that coz i was survived when my last relationship ends. its not easy but we need to move on. this is not the end my friend... but to start a new beginning. that is life and just hang out with ur friends and enjoy ur life to someone so that u can recover easily.... and this time u need a support with ur family and friends..
2007-02-11 10:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by ladyjoyax 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then it wasn't meant to be,the hurt will pass,It seems to take forever but you"ll meet someone that is all he was and more.Hang in there and don't put a wall up around your heart,I met Ms.Right on the street when her car broke down,we're getting married in June 07,it could happen to you too keep your options open,he'll dread the day he let you get away.
2007-02-11 10:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by ANDREW C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional survival is tough but you will survive. Stay busy. Do whatever you like doing. And, stay in touch with friends. Develop new interests. And, BUY A PUPPY! Great way to meet people.
2007-02-11 10:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen babes lifes like a bus which never stops on one station as Mr amir khan said bus train aur pyar ek gaya to dosra . u know what the person who left u was not worth your tears coz the person who locved u would never let u go in tears
2007-02-11 12:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by mehta.amit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see,life is quite euphermel we are here for some moments so we should enjoy our life if u r not satisfied with this then go and try again and again to win ur love afterall life is all about love if other one doesnot understand you then think that someone better than her must be looking for u by leaving u in the mid she has given the nexdt chance to enjoy the life
go and enjoy dear friend
2007-02-11 10:17:14 · answer #11 · answered by ajay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋