Im a 17 year old guy who a few weeks ago lost his V. During the first time we went on for 1.5 hours, she orgasmed about 10 times while I failed to recieve one, she was dissapointed and angry at herself for not making my first time as reamemberable as she would of liked to, but which guy wouldnt like to hear during his first time "I lost the count on 5..."? In the morning we tryed again and it lasted for 30 minutes, 3 for her 1 for me. At later times we have been in a hurry so i have made it 15 to 20 minutes, only once has she failed to recieve an orgasm, usually she gets 2-3. Last night during 40 minutes she got 4. I seem to be in controll of when i come... my question to you is - is that normal sex?
2007-02-11 03:29:11 · 16 answers · asked by Bungalo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Jed - Not bragging or keeping score... i just notice this, she also thought it was freaky and told me to stop... so now i dont watch the time anymore... still hard not to count her orgasms.
1christheroofer - not faking, no flattering, I can feel the vaginal muscels contacting every time she has one and she really cant breath during it so i have to stop for a while. (same to alexis) BtW the foreplay lasts for about an hour or so... so i quess that helps alot?
Cassiopeia - im real sorry for you for missing out on the fun. Nothing more to say. (BtW - 17 is irregularly old for a guy to loose his V in my country it's usually 13-16)
Michael b - Thanks mate! That's what she told me when she failed to recieve one, she said that it doesnt matter, still felt good, but i was still ashamed. And yes, I do masturbate, im thinking that might be the reason why i can controll when i come.
married with baby - same to you as to alexis and 1christheroofer
2007-02-11 03:53:39 · update #1
married with baby - and I also suspected at the beginning that she might be faking and talked to her about it, told her that faking it would not be proper and if she was shure she was really having that many orgasms - she said she wouldnt ever like me to think that i was doing smthng i actually wasn't and she didnt have to fake. She still doesnt believe that she's my first :( which is actually quite frustrating...
2007-02-11 03:56:05 · update #2
That question should not be asked to us, it should be asked to yourself. If the answer is yes, then it is.
Every relationship is different and whatever goes on in the bedroom is at the discretion of the parties. There is no such thing as normal or not. As a man, you should be happy that you are able to please that woman in that way. But sex is not always about the orgasm. It is about pleasing the partner that you are with. Women are notorious multi-orgasmic creature, so that is to be expected.
Instead of questioning this behavior, embrace it and utilize it. Find out different ways to please her. Teach her how to hold back, so when she do release, it would be stronger. If she gets off that easy, then find her G spot and really send her into orbit. As a man, you will get yours.
Serious question: Do you masturbate. If not, then you need to. Why? How can you tell someone how to please you if you don't know yourself? If you know your body, then you are able to tell her what to do so she can get you off also. Not every session is going to end in orgasm. Enjoy her and everything will come in time.
Good luck and have fun
2007-02-11 03:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by Michael b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a woman myself,
I find it very hard to imagine ANY woman every having any more than 1-3 orgasms per session... (If so, I'm very, very jealous) She is probably trying to boost your ego because she cares about you... Don't be discouraged about your lack of orgasms.. They will come with time and experience.... The more you try and find out exactly what you like, the more great orgasms you will have.
Just have fun, learn and enjoy the ride!!
2007-02-11 11:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think girly is really having that many orgasms. If she had just one real one she'd want you off. She probaly just trying to flatter you. As for you - your still young, unexperienced and nervous. Just relax and enjoy the ride.
2007-02-11 11:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. perfectly normal. When my husband and I have sex, He has about 3-4. and me none. many of times. It takes me a long long time. sometimes I cant orgasm for days! It is frustating, but pretty normal. shes going THAT many times?? Lucky girl!!! Happy Humping!
2007-02-11 11:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by Christina W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing quite like being with a women who is multi-orgasmic. You are not having "normal" sex. You are having hot sex which is even better.
2007-02-11 11:38:23 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...normally unless their is a toy involved, I don't orgasm that much. I am quite jealous.
It isn't normal, but in a really good way. Count your blessings.
2007-02-11 11:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about anything. Just dont get her pregnant.
Dont worry about orgasms. That should be the least on your mind. Youre 17yrs old - have FUN!
2007-02-11 11:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by Mammamia3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that you are preoccupied with this matter, and that somehow you are either bragging, or keeping some sort of score of things. THAT is what is not normal.
2007-02-11 11:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal. Just keeep trying. Stay away from chocolates and dew.
2007-02-11 11:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats HOT sex dont worry about it! Get it on buddy!
2007-02-11 11:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋