My boyfriend is roughly 3 years younger than me. i'm 20. I'm worried that when i'm ready for a baby (about 24 i think) he won't be and by the time he is (he says 23, in which case i'll be 27!) i'll be getting on a bit! i don't want to be an older mum! does anyone else have a younger man?have you come across this problem or thought about it?
2007-02-11 03:31:04 · 5 answers · asked by Nikita R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you shouldnt worry about it, you will both know when you are ready and the fact that you have thought about having children with him really shows that you are commited to him and I'm sure he appreciates that! And i think the lad's lucky to have an older girlfriend who knows what she wants and what she is doing (if u know what i mean lol). Hope this helps baby xx
2007-02-11 08:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by William M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and this guy really love each other - the timings will all work out just fine. Things will naturally progress between you both and ages or times won't be some much of an issue.
2007-02-11 11:39:09 · answer #2 · answered by TulaBox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend is 5 years younger then me and we have talked about haveing kids i all ways said i wonted kids at 24 but now im at that age i know im not ready and waiting is cool with me i think when the time is right you will have kids theres no point in puting an age on it
2007-02-11 11:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by claire f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting on a bit!!! Im insulted ( lol) I have just had a healthy beautiful baby girl at 40. its not 1945 anymore you know. you have TONS of time. Enjoy your life , have fun.
2007-02-11 11:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by looby 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am 20 and my girlfriend is 40. There are no set rules, just do whatever you think is right.
2007-02-11 11:35:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋