Other - Family & Relationships - 22 December 2006

My partner ( who is Black jamaican born here ) Went to a pub a while ago with his mixed race friend . He bought a drink from the white bar maid . Who proceeded to wash her hands after touching my partner . Then the white bloke who was sitting next to him on the stool moved . This was nearly an all white pub in a mixed area however . How rude is that . I told he should have shoved the drink right up her BBEEEEEPPPPP>

2006-12-22 11:38:54 · 10 answers · asked by C 3

would it matter to you if your partner had a child prior to your relationship together? please explain.

2006-12-22 11:02:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-22 11:01:15 · 6 answers · asked by Totito 1

2006-12-22 10:54:46 · 7 answers · asked by Totito 1

2006-12-22 10:52:14 · 1 answers · asked by robert l 1

Ok, I really want to get this gift, but it is too late to order it before christmas. Does anyone know a store I could go to that would carry it?

http://www.gifts.com/search/product?ideaID=5707&prodID=51551&sid=vsm:%22complimentary+cereal+bowl%22:P&rid=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.shopzilla.com%2F8N--Complimentary_Bowl_and_Pen_DIY__-_cat_id--20000001__nwylf--__oid--527728443

2006-12-22 10:50:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been divorced for 3 years. I have not dated while my child has lived with me. I have no personal life except for at work. I even think of not moving for other job oppurtunities because she is in high school and I feel that she has moved enough in her life.

2006-12-22 10:43:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found out my cousin/was my best friend has a REALLY big thing for my husband. She knows I know and avoids me. She had a baby but wouldnt tell anyone who the dad is. Now shes trying to find her baby a good dad who she apparently decided should be my husband. Weve been married 1 yr and 2 months and are still doing great so i have nothing to worry about with him. I did the best I could to help her in a lot of ways and feel totally backstabbed. Do I leave it alone or... need advice.

2006-12-22 10:36:30 · 7 answers · asked by southerngirl 3

I am in a relationship and wish to consider a celibate relationship with my boyfriend ( I am considering becoming an Ecist - a form of Buddhism/Taoism). Is is fair to ask my bf to also become celibate. The calling of an Ecist calls for celibacy for 1 year at a time - surely this is possible in a relationship?

2006-12-22 10:23:38 · 20 answers · asked by Kitty 2

Is there anyone out there that feels my pain? Why does life have to be so damn lonely!

2006-12-22 10:07:47 · 8 answers · asked by DontTell 2

I am considering becoming celibate for 2007 (hell, if Sir Cliff Richards can do it so can I!!)
Has anyone else done this? What are the benefits?
I've heard that you are more focused, achieve more and are generally happier.

2006-12-22 10:06:55 · 18 answers · asked by Kitty 2

I've dated/lived with their son for 2 years. They don't act like they dislike me, but they show no interest in me. His father tells him he is supporting me, which in reality it's the other way around. We're both college students and I have to make sure the bills are paid in time. My bf has told me things his dad has said about me and I've overhead him saying that I'm-destitute, impoverished and so on. I also overheard my bf tell his dad what my parents do for a living-and he said "you sure picked a winner".

I'm attractive, out-going and can have anyone I want. Why do I have to go through this? What would you do?

2006-12-22 10:03:31 · 21 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2

There is some bloke on here with the nick name redcoat , Am I the only one who would miss him if he dissapeared . My gosh all he does is answer in a rude manner every Q . Isnt it time some folk on here ate a dictionary so they can use some new words other that who cares

2006-12-22 10:02:47 · 6 answers · asked by C 3

2006-12-22 10:02:38 · 4 answers · asked by billy h 1

checked it. He lied about having your password. You only chatted one time and that was the day he started spying on you. I was IM my ex husband because i saw he was online i asked how was he and that was that. Then later I was having problems with my computer and i asked for his help. Well i buzzed him and my mike was on. he said that his mike wasn't there. So i was unaware that he could hear me. So my phone rung and it was my fiance and my ex heard the whole convo. He got very upset and started to right some mean stuff. So later my fiance came home and checked everything and got upset. come to find out he had been checking my emails and everything. He found some incriminating stuff. I do everything for him,I never am around other men nor do I normally talk to them. I feel very betrayed because he quoted some things that I said to someone while chatting that wasn't the complete truth.What should i do.

2006-12-22 09:53:33 · 10 answers · asked by LA LA 1

i get on well with all my children they are 13 16 and 18 she wont let me see them to be spiteful i used to have them evryweekend i still see the oldest to0 but she doesnt kno tht she is now remarried i havent seen my youngest for 3 yrs and i have done nothing wrong please help

2006-12-22 09:46:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-22 09:45:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-22 09:40:07 · 11 answers · asked by Blessed 1

I am getting ready to get married, but my boyfriend is super jealous of my ex-husband for no reason. In the beginning of the relationship we had issues with him and his ex-wife. He continued to contact her anc vice versa for months and some of their conversations were very entising. I on the other hand, cut my ties with my ex and when I decided to move on, I found this man and am focusing on our future. I have to meet my ex to exchange children with him and my boyfriend accuses me of everything under the sun with my ex and I just don't understand. I have NEVER given him any reason to doubt my word or my love for him, although he has. Is this just his paranoia coming through because of his lies?

2006-12-22 09:39:12 · 6 answers · asked by Cali Girl 2

my mom and dad have split up and i said to my dad instead of getting me a xmas present can you give me the money to order them from the internet but he said no he doesnt want to get her a present, even though he technically isnt i am.
She really wants them and i really want to get them for her.

Any advice about how to get round my dad?
Please help!!!

2006-12-22 09:37:36 · 3 answers · asked by channy 1

2006-12-22 09:27:59 · 9 answers · asked by billy h 1

I must admit to finding people cute on the basis of their avatar. Have you?
I only loosely resemble mine - what about you?

2006-12-22 09:25:28 · 31 answers · asked by Kitty 2

A few weeks ago my sister brought home her new boyfriend for Thanksgiving. For some reason the guy have me a creepy feeling. When I found out she planned to bring him back for Christmas I decided to go online and see if I could find any info about him. Well, I entered his name into http://background-records.net/ and it turns out that he is a criminal!

He has been convicted of sexual assault and felony drug possession. If my dad finds out he will be very angry. I don't know if my sister knows about this guys past but I do not want him in our home. What is the best way to get her to leave her boyfriend behind when she comes home this weekend? I would appreciate any advice because I don't know how to handle the situation. Thanks.

2006-12-22 09:24:07 · 24 answers · asked by Kelly 1

I am 17 years old and i live in texas. Can i move out?

2006-12-22 09:21:36 · 11 answers · asked by answer_me 1

I had a friend on and off for 20 years who ended up marrying my old high school boyfriend. I stayed friends with her and even got together on doubledates with them with my husband. SHe always called to complain to me about how she hated this and that and if she had the money she would leave him.(she lived with him for 7 years)then she became pregnant with his baby and they were then going to get married. she basically wanted her kid to have his last name. then she asks me to be in the wedding. This was just too much/too weird for me. I didn't approve of her marrying him. I do not like how he treats her. So I mailed her a kind letter wishing her well and explained to her that I could not be in her wedding and that I hoped she understood. She never wrote back, never called me. she show at my house a year later with baby and husband like nothing ever happened. I couldn't talk with her then, she left and told my husband"I hope its worth 25 years of friendship!" what does that mean?

2006-12-22 09:18:43 · 14 answers · asked by karlee 3

How come Michael jackson's Kids are WHITE ! If they are part of him regardless if he has bleached his skin then his DNA is still black so his kids wouldnt be white they would be mixed . And why hasnt anyone ever mentioned this? Whose Kids are they did he buy them

2006-12-22 09:18:22 · 15 answers · asked by C 3

i work at a resturant as a chef. this job can be stressful and sometimes i get sick of looking at food, but my husband insists i cook him dinner before i leave for work each night. i want to hit him in the face and tell him to cook his own damn dinner, but i need a more obvoius way

2006-12-22 09:09:39 · 5 answers · asked by neff8684 5

i think she likes me but i cnt talk to her because im shy the only place i can talk to her is online need advice please..?

2006-12-22 09:07:48 · 15 answers · asked by craigytraynor 1

Well my problem is the fact that I care alot about what people think of me especailly women in particular.The reason for this is because in the past I've had some woman that just don't like me for no reason.For instance, at work, I'll speak to some of my woman co workers and they'll just look right past me,(I be like damn) but then on the otehr hand,I have some woman co-workers that will tell me I'm one of the nicest people they've met,so I just dont get it,sometimes at school too I have some women who won't speak , i even had one girl bump into me and didn't say sorry, so I think she did that on purpose.And even some of my current woman friendships that I have, one of my friends, came over to my house for a get together, and then when she left called me a hoe and after that when I call she doesn't return my calls.I'm like damn why do i have bad relationships with woman? is it something that I'm doing? And how can I stop trying to make people like me.,...I might need a therapist

2006-12-22 09:01:24 · 9 answers · asked by Misguided Woman 1

2006-12-22 08:49:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous