Other - Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

Seems like women really enjoy complaining about how men are bad to them. It's like they aren't happy unless they're unhappy.

However, when a woman is with a man who is good to her, she takes him for granted, and mistreats him. Then she has the nerve to feel sorry for herself and complain that she can't find a good man.

Why are women so hypocritical?

2006-12-03 08:58:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

yesturday at the park i went and try'd to talk to him and he said hi.I still try'd to talk and he turned arould and keeped talking to his friends.I try'd to hug him and he let go of my hand.well when he walked away his friends said he is going through thing and he's been acting weird lately.can you help me!!!!!!!!!!!why do you think he is acting this way? do you think its me?

2006-12-03 08:57:08 · 7 answers · asked by girlygirl8 1

I got a great answer. let a girl have her space and realize if she loves you too. I've been very immature in a 4 year relationship tht i lost. it included a son, dogs, everything and now im 25. it started when i was 21 so you can probably believe how i lost it immaturely.(no hitting or cheating stuff)she said she is moving on because of our past and is meeting new people, has a boyfriend she is in love with, but is confused, been arguing about getting back together, told her i always and still want her to marry me, said i asked to much and ruined it. how do i know how, never did it before. problem is what can i guy do while waiting to let a girl figure things out for herself to show hes maturing so why she finds herself and becomes less confused how to think of me. I want to show her little by little not to overwhelm her anymore I'm really a good guy at heart and will always watch over her hoping one day she will look at me and see I was always what i said to be and always truly love h

2006-12-03 08:50:20 · 1 answers · asked by hizzer 1

He is 29 years old and we have been together for two years. I've bought everyone's present but his and I am really stuck.

2006-12-03 08:49:13 · 2 answers · asked by greatgurl 3

I keep going out with my close female friend,(in touch practically everyday) we go to dinner, lunch together and for drinks in the evening. We’re ATTRACTED to each other, flirt with each other, we’re in touch practically everyday, can only open up too me, feels very comfortable with me, enjoys spending time with me,we trust each other etc.

She doen’t like it when I mention other girls that had caught my eye, she changes the subject ASAP.Recently she thought that I started dating a girl and she ignored me for a week.Was this jealousy or just a coincidence?My behaviour DID NOT change towards her+I'm not actually dating anyone.Was told she is happy for me,why wouldn’t she ask about this girl,seeing she’s a good mate?

I told her how I felt about her and her responses were:

1) "I can't imagine you not being in\a part of my life" MEANING???
2)"I don't deserve your feelings"? MEANING???

DID NOT SAY WE ARE ONLY FRIENDS.Does she love me??What did her answer mean??

2006-12-03 08:32:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

im best friends with this guy at my school.......but ive known him for a while now and ive started to like him.....i dont know if i should tell him because if i do it might ruin the friendship but i also really want to tell him. he tells people that were not going out and stuff that he doesnt like me but we kinda flirt with eathother....does he know hes flirting????? should i tell him?????? advice??????

2006-12-03 08:31:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

so my fiance and i are about to get married...yet his mother is psycho. she basically says that she hopes he goes to iraq (in what she seems to hope he dies), yet at the same time she is saying that i am breaking up the family, when i didnt even do anything (his extended family acutally likes me). she also called me a liar and conniving, when i dont know what i did to be called that and she refuses to tell me as well. this was on thanksgiving and right before she said this i was at his familys hosue and they were joking that i should stay longer for i havent been there in awhile...she also has never supported his choice to be a marine and i was always there for him. the other night she said "who wrote you in bootcamp" and he replied "my gf" for i wrote him EVERY SINGLE DAY. i dont know how to deal with her or what to do...any advise????

2006-12-03 08:21:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Same post from hizzer before. Well like i said in the last 6 months weve been arguing about being back together. sometimes its almost like she says yes but backs away. shes dated other guys since then. i just had my kid back for a month and she said she missed me and wanted me back belive it or not and then when i brought the kid back she changed her mind. said she met someone and was in love and treated her good. couldnt understand since she said she always loved me and wanted to be with me. said she was confused. are past she doesnt trust me. now she has another relationship and i think its not real. what can a guy do to prove to a girl he always loved her and grew up. never hit her or anything just was never mature enough to not act like a kid and know im growing up but its to late i think. i just want to show her i really will always be there for her and sheis my number one priority wich she doesnt belive. now i have competition too.

2006-12-03 08:20:16 · 10 answers · asked by hizzer 1

even though my parents are seperated my dad is still always calling my mom asking her where she is and who she's w/ even if she's at home he's done this his whoel life and i can't belive even though my mom's on her own he's still doing! he has serious control freak issues! (his mom is messed up and has them too) and even if my mom doesn't like this she's not the type tp stand up for herself. and my other question is wut do i do about it cuz he even does this to ME. i feel like when i'm on my own he's gonna bother me liek crzy and not let me do wut i want and be free. and my dad isn't an easy person to stand up to. any normal person is afraid of him. he has such a bad temper and when he gets mad he gets mad! he scares the **** out of ppl older than him. he's only like this w/ me my mom and bro and faking mr. nice guy to every1 else so every1 likes him even though they know how he is (it's our messed up sexist culture) and no1 wud support me (as i said messed up culture) so wut do i do

2006-12-03 07:59:46 · 4 answers · asked by mamama 2

my fiance refuses to put me has his next of kin, in case he dies i would not be able to get his flag, he says that his mother is always going to be it (even when we are married) until she dies, but everyone i talk to says that the wife is the next of kin....i dont know is that right??? or should i be his next of kin?

2006-12-03 07:53:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well what happened was mother went to town and picked up one of those pole dancing kits from oxfam, it was for me to do a show for the family on xmas day (last year I did a live webcam from my bedroom, requests only). Anyway, mother couldnt wait till xmas and got it out. Brother was so excited, he stripped down to his knickers and went to get a suitable cd. Meanwhile, Aunty Dot was reading the instructions.
Brother returned and Marvin Gaye was on in the background. By then Auntie Dot had stripped naked and was gyrating on the pole. Brother joined in, i felt strangely excited and Mother was rubbing her chest and Llama was licking his teeth. Is it wrong for me to feel like this, i mean we usually do it at xmas anyway, its just because its early? sent

2006-12-03 07:45:55 · 34 answers · asked by fletch 2

My mom tries to find the smallest things to yell at me about. It was better before I went into high school but now it has just gotten worse and worse. I have been grounded for a month now and going on for two because I forgot to call her and tell her I went to the mall. She said I didn't forget and i just did something I didnt want her to know. I have never done anything in my life that has made her lose trust in me. When i get home she says if i have too much homework then i dont need to do chores and i got piled high with homework last week and she yells at me for not getting chores done. Then she yelled at me for doing my chores before homework. Stupid Stupid stuff like that. To add on to that she is an alcoholic and gets drunk pretty much every night and so i am scared to stand up to her. Really, really scared to. My sisters friends stopped coming to our house because of her and i just dont know what to do. i want to move to my dad's but i am to freaked out to tell her.

2006-12-03 07:45:46 · 8 answers · asked by Just wonderin' 3

2006-12-03 07:30:46 · 3 answers · asked by litz 3

I'm fed up of sleepless nights waking up frozen because he has rolled over an stolen the duvet. I don't really want two duvets on the bed and we have already tried swapping sides it doesn't work any tips...?

2006-12-03 07:30:24 · 18 answers · asked by shesaclevergirl 2

There's a guy that I am really fond of in my math class. He is really hot, but currently we are just friends. I am afraid if we start a relationship, we might end up hurting each other's feelings by a stupid fight or something. And at the end our friendship would be in shambles! what should i do? I really like the guy?! Help....!

2006-12-03 07:20:28 · 5 answers · asked by Kat 1

My boyfriend is coming over for dinner tonight, and my parents are going to be there. Now this wouldn't be such a big deal, if my parents actually liked people. They are very anti-social and can't stand to have people around. They have never spent time with any of my boyfriends. Michael is a great guy and deserves the best. So how do I make sure things run smoothly? Mind you I'm cooking, so I can't always be around them.

2006-12-03 07:13:32 · 5 answers · asked by Ellias 2

right now my ex is logged on to yahoo messenger, we havent talked much at all, and we broke up about 3months ago. We didnt break up on bad terms, so should i say hi or just 4get about him. oh by the way i still love him and i want him back, but i know thats not possible b/c he doesnt love me anymore. i said hi to him when he wasnt on the other day and he said hi 2. should i just wait for him to say somethin?

2006-12-03 07:00:37 · 6 answers · asked by sarah_gotdance 3

okay so there is this guy that i have liked for a long time. i am pretty sure that he likes me too. but i just wanted to see what your guys opinion on this situation is. we were at a basketball game yesterday because we are both in band and he surprised me by coming. the whole time we talked and when he went to go say somthing to our friend and i would look at the game for a minute, he would check up on me and ask if i was okay. then he would stare at me and smile and act really goofy. it was really funny. and laugh at everything i said but not when we were being serious. but i don't know.

2006-12-03 07:00:05 · 2 answers · asked by MaculaMaster 3

Hi im 15. im called ryan... for xmas i wanted my own pc or laptop as im not allowed on msn messenger etc cause it supposedly gives viruses which it so doesnt anyway. i was allowed one for xmas well kinda my dad was for it now my mum says no and im not allowed i wanna run away what do do?

2006-12-03 06:23:06 · 10 answers · asked by Ryan M 2

all the guys seem to think in just a "dude" in there gang how can i change that?

2006-12-03 06:06:28 · 6 answers · asked by alex c 1

what would you think if a guy you have a crush on talk to you on one day, and see you the next day and won't say anything?

2006-12-03 06:04:09 · 3 answers · asked by Kat 1

They keep snapping my pictures and they yell "Say Cheese!!" And my opposable thumbs ache from all of the autographs.

2006-12-03 06:00:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

im in the 10th grade and everytime i hang with the boys they alsways tell me their going to "rape me" or "one day im going to hang out with them and end up not being a virgin anymore." some of them walk down the halls and call me their baby mama. my ex said that he was going to malest me. And one boy called me at 12 o'clock in the morning and asked me what i had on!

I was talking to my older sister about this and she said that im must be very attractive and i should be happy that im getting plenty of attention from guys. what should i do♥

2006-12-03 06:00:11 · 10 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3

When actually it was someone else who should get the credit...

2006-12-03 05:57:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend Mark is in a really bad situation right now and I'm worried for him. Him and his girlfriend Sarah were deeply in love. They were going to be engaged after being together for four years. However, Sarah suffered from clinical depression and often threatened to commit suicide from problems with her family life. The other thing that kept her going was Mark.

Last month, she finally did it. She hung herself at home and her parents found her later. Like most suicides, she had written a death note. On the part that was addressed to Mark, it said something along the lines of "I promised you that I could handle this thing called life, but I couldn't. I love you Mark, and if you truly love me like you said you do, I know I'll see you on the otherside soon."

Sarah had asked Mark to commit suicide as well. I've been comforting him, but I don't know how much longer I can do it. He's currently seeking professional help. If you were Mark, what would you do? What can I do to help him?

2006-12-03 05:56:56 · 10 answers · asked by DSpite 2

2006-12-03 05:55:39 · 7 answers · asked by tinkerbell 2

go to this myspace page and tell what you is your impression of this girl

http://www.myspace.com/mz_ria216

2006-12-03 05:52:17 · 9 answers · asked by Miguel B 1

2006-12-03 05:51:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey omg this guy is really hot butr my friend asked him out and he said yes then later he told me it was a joke and then i asked him out and he said ya but i dont no if its real what should i do?????help

2006-12-03 05:49:53 · 4 answers · asked by alex c 1

My husband just brought me home flowers and it made me so happy. So I was wondering if anyone else loves those little gestures and what is your favorite?

2006-12-03 05:42:48 · 6 answers · asked by FaerieWhings 7