even though my parents are seperated my dad is still always calling my mom asking her where she is and who she's w/ even if she's at home he's done this his whoel life and i can't belive even though my mom's on her own he's still doing! he has serious control freak issues! (his mom is messed up and has them too) and even if my mom doesn't like this she's not the type tp stand up for herself. and my other question is wut do i do about it cuz he even does this to ME. i feel like when i'm on my own he's gonna bother me liek crzy and not let me do wut i want and be free. and my dad isn't an easy person to stand up to. any normal person is afraid of him. he has such a bad temper and when he gets mad he gets mad! he scares the **** out of ppl older than him. he's only like this w/ me my mom and bro and faking mr. nice guy to every1 else so every1 likes him even though they know how he is (it's our messed up sexist culture) and no1 wud support me (as i said messed up culture) so wut do i do
2006-12-03 07:59:46 · 4 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Once you are on your own you can do as you please...if he calls you don't even have to answer the phone! :-)
But while you're at home (under 18) you have to appease the parentals. My suggestion is that you call him before he calls you. Bug the crap out of him with it. Every time you leave the house, even to check the mail or go to the corner store, call him and tell him. And then call him to tell him you've returned. I think after a while he'll tell you to stop..then you can interject your concerns with his always keeping tabs on every more you and your mother make. Not to mention that your mother's whereabouts are not any of his business.
Good luck!
2006-12-03 08:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by dancing_in_the_hail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you can do is look after you. if you do not keep in touch with your father then he is not going to be able to harass you, if he can not see you or talk to you he can't control you. as for your mother, support her but she is the one that is going to have to make the change, you can't do it for her.
best of luck
2006-12-03 17:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD SAY DAD GET OUT OF MY LIFE I MEAN GOSH COME ON I MEAN MY DAD SAYS IF STARTS TO DO THAT TELL HIM TO SHUT UP AND LEAVE US ALONE!!!
2006-12-03 16:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by whitney s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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