There's a guy that I am really fond of in my math class. He is really hot, but currently we are just friends. I am afraid if we start a relationship, we might end up hurting each other's feelings by a stupid fight or something. And at the end our friendship would be in shambles! what should i do? I really like the guy?! Help....!
2006-12-03 07:20:28 · 5 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just be his close, best, trustworthy friend. Spend a lot of time with him, be helpful as much as you can, do with him all that connects you both, I don't know... going to cinema or something. You don't have to start serious relationship by making it formal. If you match to each other then he will be the person to ask you to make yours relationship formal as a couple. Believe me. It works. What worse I loose one girl this way and I am afraid I will loose another because she is far away and she possibly has many other guys wandering around her. The best relationship is build on "addiction of someone presence" - I believe you understand.
2006-12-03 08:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Robert M Mrok (Gloom) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friendship doesn't last if your romantic relationship doesn't, then you really weren't friends to begin with. Examine your friendship with him and determine how stable it is. If itis not as good as it could be, work on that first. If you're already good friends, go for it! You'll have nothing to lose. All lasting romantic relationships have the base of a good frienship.
2006-12-03 15:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by sashromancefreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can think of no better way of dealing with it, than just being yourself. Treat him like a friend, the way you'd treat any other buddy. If he takes a shine to you, he'll find a way to let you know. If he doesn't, well, you have conducted yourself with intelligence, and dignity, and you've not lost anything, nor made a fool of yourself.
2006-12-03 15:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by sharmel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should tell him how u feel maybe he'll understand.
2006-12-03 15:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha162008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be good freinds.
2006-12-03 15:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋