I keep going out with my close female friend,(in touch practically everyday) we go to dinner, lunch together and for drinks in the evening. We’re ATTRACTED to each other, flirt with each other, we’re in touch practically everyday, can only open up too me, feels very comfortable with me, enjoys spending time with me,we trust each other etc.
She doen’t like it when I mention other girls that had caught my eye, she changes the subject ASAP.Recently she thought that I started dating a girl and she ignored me for a week.Was this jealousy or just a coincidence?My behaviour DID NOT change towards her+I'm not actually dating anyone.Was told she is happy for me,why wouldn’t she ask about this girl,seeing she’s a good mate?
I told her how I felt about her and her responses were:
1) "I can't imagine you not being in\a part of my life" MEANING???
2)"I don't deserve your feelings"? MEANING???
DID NOT SAY WE ARE ONLY FRIENDS.Does she love me??What did her answer mean??
2006-12-03 08:32:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I then told her a few weeks later that I needed some time away from her and she DISAGREED\WAS RUDE TOWARDS ME as a result---does it mean anything???WHY???
My reason was that she was behaving odd towards me and I thought it best we have some time apart.Especially for me to get over my feelings.
She’s gotten bck in touch—like nothing has happened.
Have said I value our friendship and I mean that. BUT I still have feelings for her.I miss her so much!What she thinking/feeling?
2006-12-03 08:33:11 · update #1
Said that us going out together "wouldn't feel right"-MEANING???
2006-12-03 08:59:40 · update #2
Just tell her everything you said here and how you feel and ask what she means because no matter how many people tell you what she means here on Yahoo answers, it is possible she meant something different. the only person that will know the true meaning is her so ask her.
2006-12-03 08:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is holding onto you until something better is going to come a long. Your true best bet would be to confront her and ask her if there will be a relationship. If not, then you both need to break it off as there is more feelings then just friendship, sounds like on both sides. It would be hard to walk, but you can't go on for years waiting for something that might never happen. You would also need to give your new relationship 100% without her involved, only fair to the new person. Good luck!
2006-12-03 08:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't like games, some play them though. In the case of this girl, since the two of you have spent so much time together, she has fallen for you. Deep down inside, it seems like you have too. For your questions 1. I can't imagine you not being in/a part of my life-like I said before, she has fallen for you. 2. I don't deserve your feelings- She wants you to show and tell her that you need her, as much as she needs you.
2006-12-03 08:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by Heartful_poet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deep down, I think this girls in love with you and scared to let her feelings be known, as she doesn't want to loose you as a friend. She would rather be your friend than nothing!! There are some serious emotions here, and if you feel the same way ... what are you waiting for??
2006-12-03 09:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by lynne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you poor thing , am with you on this - i to am/was in the same situation we were best mates , worked together and known each other for years it took me leaving the job and the thought of not seeing him everyday for me to actually do something bout it and say how i felt , intially it was great however it has not worked out for one reason or the other and my only only regret in this is that i have lost my best mate our freindship just aint the same as it was and that makes me sad. what ever happens good luck dont forget bout your freindship.
2006-12-07 03:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by masny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen chick.take the bull by the horns and ask her out right does she want to start something with you? or does she not.then if she replies she dosent you know where you stand .and you can move on.sounds like shes confused.the only way your gonna find out is by being direct.head games and arent good for any of us.x wish you luck x
2006-12-03 08:40:40 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, your feelings for her are natural. the reason she may act this way towards you maybe because she likes you as well but she doesnt know how to tell you how she feels.
she may be experiencing some awkward moments when shes with. her heart may want you like you want her or maybe she feels if you to start dating your friendship will deteriorate and not be the same as it once was.
2006-12-03 08:43:08 · answer #7 · answered by gellisa m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's acting much like a woman in love, who may not want to admit it to herself, or anyone else. (" I can't imagine not having you in my life") reveals the seriousness of this.
You maintain that you are FRIENDS, and if this is the case, why are you so worried bout it. Have you taken this lady to bed yet?
2006-12-03 08:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she gave you a non direct res ponce hoping you would do it for her go for it i say its more than likely that if she wasn't interested she would have made it clear as its easier, shes probably worried she will loose you altogether if it all goes wrong and its better to have you as a friend than not at all. us girls like to be a pain to you lads that's the way we are !! good luck
2006-12-03 08:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by daveslittlehoney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like she wants her cake and to eat it too.
i think i may be time to give her an ultimatium.
either she wants to be more than mates or stop being funny about you chatting about other girls as real mates wouldnt be funny about that sort of stuff.
good luck
2006-12-03 09:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋