however,the person I'm with, has no job, no family, and no money and she's has blamed me for her situation,because I cheated on her three years ago and didn't tell her that, so the guy she was living with kicked her out. I have told her the last three years she needs to get over it and move on, but she refuses. She wants me to pay for her to move into a new apartment/house, pay her rent until she finds a job, by her a car and pay her bills. Am I wrong for saying she needs to get over it? My family thinks I should just up and leave her, and I would, but I'm attached to her dogs. I try to help her with her resume etc, but she feels since she hasn't work in so long no one will give her a chance. Compounding the situation, she lost her green card. There is no love in the relationship and a lot of hate and anger. We have fought, physically. I'm trying not to leave her out in the cold, but unless she decides to do something for herself I might not have a choice. I'm in NYC. Help!
2006-07-20
16:16:59
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greyts17
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