Just in need of some constructive advise. No BS! Thank you!
2006-07-20 16:02:51 · 19 answers · asked by jemesee_johnson2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he still does sweet little things for you.
He tries to please you whenever possible.
He encourages you and supports you in your interests.
He says, "I love you" at least twice a day.
Please do become comfortable in their relationships and forget to do some little things but it is the little things that are so nice. Don't forget to do plenty of sweet little things for him too.
I would only be worried if he is out with his "friends" all the time or spends hours upon hour zones out playing video games. Men are always little kids inside. We need a good women to remind us of our priorities from time to time.
2006-07-20 16:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
When he still grabs your *** during the day.
Just talk to him. After all, he IS your husband! I think we all have insecurities, especially when you've been married for a number of years.
I'm married, and I still wonder why we don't treat each other the way we did when we FIRST met. But now, it's a different, stronger love with mutual respect. (Should be, at least!)
2006-07-20 16:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jasmine Lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm 25 and I have been with my husband for 10 years now (married for 2)
Anyway, the biggest disappointment in my life right now is that I really don't know if he really loves me anymore. He says he does ... but that's all he does. I feel like maybe he just keeps me around because I'm all he has ever known. He always buys me dinner and brings me home jellybeans (i love them)... but I just don't see the love in his eyes!!! It breaks my heart, really. We are living in Germany and I've been visiting my family in Ohio for 2 months to give him a break from me. I'm hoping that he will miss me ...
I would be waiting all day to see him and when he gets home from work he doesn't even say hi :( stuff like that.
I'm still in love with him ...
I hope this lets you know you are not alone :)
2006-07-20 16:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by ilovedragonflies6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 9 years you should have some kind of idea. Bring it up and just ask him outright when he sees the relationship going.
2006-07-20 16:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by pamela_d_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what kind of relationship are you talking about? Marriage? Boyfriend/Girlfriend? If you two are not married by now, I don't think it's going to happen. Please be more specific next time so we can give you some better advise.
2006-07-20 16:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not paying attention or you wouldn't be asking this Q. Give him a warning! Wake up...or loss it! But don't set your heart on any big changes. You have to choose, live a dull boring life...or seek more. I don't like being ignored, neglected and rejected. I'm off to bigger & better things! Good luck with yours!
2006-07-20 16:10:27 · answer #6 · answered by Helzabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he still excited to see you when he comes home? are you still excited to see him? do you guys miss each other when you are apart?does he still tell you how beatiful you are and how much he loves and cares for you? ask these questions
Dont forget to keep love alive never fall into a rut... if you do get out of the rut asap do what ever it takes....dont forget about the bedroom time either... spice it up...
love your man and he will love you back just let him know that you love him
2006-07-20 16:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by gaagaala27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would assume he is still intrested in you if you've been together for 9 years. Is there something going on that is making you doubt his feelings? If not I wouldnt worry.
2006-07-20 16:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not married by now -- ask him!
If you are -- ask him to renew his vows. If he wasn't interested, that would be an opportune time to pipe up, or at least throw you some hints. If not, then have fun. Enjoy the extra romance.
2006-07-20 16:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by Deirdre R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah distinuishing between habit and true emotional motivation is a toughy. I'd say try to tempt him by introducing a beautiful woman in his life, get her to try and seduce him, and see what happens.
2006-07-20 16:06:27 · answer #10 · answered by Tired S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋