I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I love him very much. We are still both rather young... I'm 18 and he's 20. Anyways, when it comes to sex, I'm more shy and he... let's just say he watches a lot a porn... so he wants to alway stry out these kinky things. A lot of the time, it just goes straight against my character (not morals..kind.. how I act) and so I can never seem to feel comfortable pretending to be something I'm not. I'm not totally against the idea, but I always tell him "wait until we are older when we actually need that spark... ect" and that I am not comfortable doing it, but he still demands it. He even puts up certain dates for me to do it now... He will say "Okay you haven't done "x" in a while, so do it by next week". It's really frustrating because I feel like I can't please him, and I kind of feel selfish for not doing what he wants (because trust me.. he gives me more than enough "lovin"). What should I do to feel more comfortable??
2006-06-26
18:56:37
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