Other - Family & Relationships - 30 June 2006

Hey, I love too help people out who are confused over an emotional/relationship problem so if you would like too talk-email me.
It's hard of here, though I try hard- but alot of people are immature and asking perverted questions.

2006-06-30 23:48:34 · 5 answers · asked by tampabay5400 1

Hi. My boyfriend's mum died at christmas. I took a lot of rubbish from him before as she was dying and he needed support.
Since christmas, I have supported him and taken a lot of rubbish from him as he has been grieving and dealing with his feelings. he has quit work and sometimes ignores me for days. He looked after his mum for most of his life and I appreciate that he has lost a big part of his life.
However, I really don't know what to do for the best. He quit work in March and now seems to be sinking into a deeper depression and there's nothing I can do. He's not sleeping so I asked him to see his doctor but he got angry with me. He's not a bad person and I do love him but how can I help him understand that he needs to move on. My Dad and Grandad died 4 years ago so I am sympathetic to the greiving process.
I want to help him and don't want to appear selfish, but at the same time, I need to look after myself as his moods really upset me.
Any ideas or advice? Please help me

2006-06-30 23:33:14 · 10 answers · asked by 123456 2

Ok, so this last April this is what happened:

I had a gf who I loved very much
She got pregnant
I told her that I do not support abortions but if thats her choice I would pay for it/support her decision (I also stated that if she wanted too continue the pregnancy I would be there for her 100%)
She dumped me a week before the pregnancy
I told her I still wanted too go too the clinic with her because I felt it was my obligation
When I got there- she brought her new bf (who she started going out with the day of the abortion)

Now this all happened in April and I still get so upset by it, I do not know how I can get over it or if I should even be so upset. Lately I'm just not interested in relationships,sex,anything concerning it.

2006-06-30 23:32:36 · 9 answers · asked by tampabay5400 1

why do men hurt us then return when he realize that its you whom he really loves and cherish?

2006-06-30 23:26:53 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

A few weeks ago,a guy who said he got my ID from his friend who is in the same year in college as me,IM-ed me on the messenger.He said he goes to the same college but a year older and he liked me and wanted to chat.He seemed ok and i said yes.But soon i realized i made a mistake,he had no consideration for me...he didn't accept that for example i have to work and i can;t talk on the net.He left me offline messages all the time.And i said i didn't want to talk to him anymore ,i was as polite i could posibly be.But the guy just doesn;t get it,he keeps IM me,i have a tone of offline messages from him,and it's been 2 weeks since i've told him i don't wanna talk to him anymore.I never respond to those messages,but lately his begining to threaten me,like he's gonna find me,and i can;t ignore him forever.Plus the offlime messages his always mean,calling me names and stuff like that.he is on my ignore list now,but i'm scared.what do you think he is capable of?

2006-06-30 23:23:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-30 23:11:54 · 23 answers · asked by div_wat??? 1

" Friend"...are you soo preciousss??

2006-06-30 23:07:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-30 22:45:23 · 5 answers · asked by Dana 2

2006-06-30 22:43:30 · 11 answers · asked by andryanna27 1

I went out with this man 6 years ago... he was 29 i was 18... we were gonna be together untill he had to go back to Germany... he called me constantly for the first year or so... and we txtd all day long... he was meant to come back then i was meant to go meet thim there.... unfortunetly it didnt work out that way... then i got married... he got together with his former girlfriend... i had 2 kids he has one... we contacted each other for 2 years then lost touch due to jealousy from his partner... then found each other again.. lost touch again for another year and half.... due to jealousy from my husband( now ex). Now i found him and we are in touch again... i love him so much and i feel he feels the same way although we are so far from each other... do u think he cares at all? or just being nice to reply my e-mails? its been so long now....

2006-06-30 22:15:54 · 15 answers · asked by Chica Loca 2

I've never had a girlfriend or have ever met anyone who is compatible with me. I'd rather be a hermit. Why is marriage so important? It seems to be a draining business where both people lose money and have to work harder physically and emotionally especially when kids come around.

What's the point? Aren't there enough people living and breeding on Earth. I don't consider myself special enough to contribute that way.

2006-06-30 22:03:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

what are some of the things that would scare you off from a girl...cause i've heard some guys say commitment, so i just wanted to know what would scare you off???

2006-06-30 21:56:36 · 6 answers · asked by tanya m 4

2006-06-30 21:49:44 · 8 answers · asked by Aklas C 1

seems stupid to ask, but sometimes i'm blind. so, say you call and call and call. they stay on the phone a few minutes, tell you how much they miss you... tell you to call them back tomorrow and then they leave for the day.

2006-06-30 21:47:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We had our relationship two years ago, but we broke up because he had his gf that time.Months later,we started to talked and be friends again.After that, we became very close to each other and actingas if we didnt broke up.Recently, he told me that he and his girlfriend was over since last year and I proved it..The last time we talked he told me that he still love me.. How will I know if its true or not??? Im confused but I still and really love him..

2006-06-30 21:43:59 · 12 answers · asked by girl_10 1

Why is it okay for girls to say they love children, but not guys? I recently got called a pervert for saying I love children & am sponoring one in East India. I am a nice guy & I have not done anything that really hurt anyone. What is wrong with a born again Christian guy to say he loves children? I am studying to become a SUnday School Teacher for children. I really do love children & I want some of my own someday.

2006-06-30 21:36:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

a nice question for you in this summer Friday night...
well, it's a complex question...

2006-06-30 21:20:45 · 12 answers · asked by Theta40 7

2006-06-30 21:14:08 · 11 answers · asked by britny_spears2 2

i have had sex with my boy friend many a times..he says he loves me but always find ways to show me down n make me guilt..i want to get rid of him but he says first let ur parents know dat we r phy then i'll leave u.wot to do?

2006-06-30 21:12:25 · 18 answers · asked by mastgal_rite_here 1

I use to get a long with but they are the type that think that they know everything about raising kids and having a family

2006-06-30 20:54:14 · 6 answers · asked by HPEmomofone 3

2006-06-30 20:44:50 · 15 answers · asked by S_Dog 1

I have 3 children and living in a 2bd home. thinking in converting our garage into a room. we can buy a bigger house but that would mean no more vacations .. I'm a stay home mom for now. would probably mean me going back to work. What would you do?

2006-06-30 20:27:13 · 12 answers · asked by Angie29 3

I have known this guy for 4 years and he's sickly in love with me. Its really annoying!!! He wants to be around me all the time. When we hang out together with friends he always hanging on me like im his girl. I really dont wana keep making him look stupid when hes around other people. And whenever any other guy tries to talk to me he threatens to beat them up. What should i do?

2006-06-30 20:20:05 · 11 answers · asked by Janelle 2

2006-06-30 20:19:43 · 7 answers · asked by tcb396 2

My husband has lied too me so much that I can't trust him anymore. It hurts so bad when he does this too me. Why do people lie right to your face? We argue all the time about this because I call him aliar.

2006-06-30 20:18:58 · 29 answers · asked by happygolucky 2

My Grandfather is a cool guy except for his hatred towards Asians. He fought in Vietnam and Korean War and has some serious hostilities against Asians in genral because to him they are all "the same." I'm 26 and just found this out very recently. My fiance is Chinese-American and I want him to meet her but I don;t think it is a good idea. I don't know how to tell her yet either. I am very ashamed of him and feel so embarassed telling her this arcane way of thinking. What should I do?

2006-06-30 20:09:59 · 13 answers · asked by 46&2 2

2006-06-30 20:03:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-30 20:02:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-30 20:01:22 · 6 answers · asked by itsie-Bitsy 3

2006-06-30 19:59:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous