i have had sex with my boy friend many a times..he says he loves me but always find ways to show me down n make me guilt..i want to get rid of him but he says first let ur parents know dat we r phy then i'll leave u.wot to do?
2006-06-30 21:12:25 · 18 answers · asked by mastgal_rite_here 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just get rid of him u deserve bettter than this and chances are hell never change. hes probably really insecure himself cause most people that put someone down are.
2006-07-07 19:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to look in the mirror. By trying to bring you down he is bringing his self esteem up. Once you excepted it the first time him downing you there's no turning back. People only do to you what you allow them to do. Leave him and tell him no one person is perfect. Why does he think god gave up his only son. Even he knew we was going to make mistakes. It is to many REAL men out there.
2006-06-30 21:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it looks like he's just using you for sex. finding these little negative things about you will end in disaster. it goes to show that a relationship like this will not end peacefully... so you need to take control and leave. besides, a person like you can find better... the problem is when you don't think you can.
2006-06-30 21:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by digital321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he needs to 1 - grow up and 2 - learn to love himself. Leave him because he's just looking for someone to take things out on.
2006-06-30 21:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by vzhnri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, if your so called boyfriend talks down to you, makes you TRY to feel bad about yourself, threatens you, hurts your feelings or mentally & bodily hurts you. dump him! you must feel this way already, or you would not want to get rid of him. when you love someone, you will treat that person the way you want to be treated. since he dumps on you, sounds like he does not have a very good outlook on himself, or anybody else for that matter. you say he TRIES to make you feel guilty- NO ONE can do that, only YOU can make yourself feel guilty. sounds like he shows love the only way that he can or knows how to do and thats sex/ love is sooooo much more than sex. sex is a gift 2 people share AFTER they fully understand, honor, respect, charish, and trust one another. if he finds your mistakes not to his liking or coping or does not tolerate your actions, personality traits he will continue to be little you, because HE CAN. AND believe it or not it sounds like you are letting him dump on you. so really you are rewarding him with sex, even tho he treats you the way you hate to be treated. stand up to that weak boyfriend who finds it easy to make you feel less of a person, & dump on you on a daily basis!! IT ONLY MAKES HIM FEEL BETTER to pick on someone else because he feels inadequate as a person and it sounds he doesnt really like the kind of person he is, so he picks on someone that lets him get away with it. you deserve better.
2006-06-30 21:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by elizabeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dump him and let him tell your parents You must face the facts for what you have done and don't live up to his threats. If his threats are too much then please tell him that you will report him for raping!
2006-06-30 21:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be the one to break it to you...but he's only leading up to something you're not gonna wanna have to deal with. He's the exact stereo-type of a woman beater. you might ought to lose him...QUICK!
2006-06-30 21:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jaded 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your self down,if u love him try to tell him that u r not doing thoes mistakes perposlly.If you don't love him tell him to go to hell!!!
2006-06-30 21:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by yoni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SELECT ANOTHER BOYFRIEND JUST LIKE ME.I WILL NEVER TELL YOU ANYTHING.JUST KEEP YOU VERY HAPPY EVERYTIMES IN THE WORLD.RELPY ON subodhbabu@iqara.net
2006-06-30 22:22:05 · answer #9 · answered by LALBHAI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wish u to be the dream girl that he always weant....give him a chnce but if u really cnt stand it..then maybe it is time
2006-06-30 21:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋