My husband has lied too me so much that I can't trust him anymore. It hurts so bad when he does this too me. Why do people lie right to your face? We argue all the time about this because I call him aliar.
2006-06-30 20:18:58 · 29 answers · asked by happygolucky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yeah he may be one of those pathological liars that can't help but lie and it's hard also because that means that your trust for him has broken down and that's pretty importnat in a relationship, have you asked him why he does it? the extreme would be to get marriage councelling. I think people lie because they are afraid of the telling the truth because they feel that telling the truth may make things worse
2006-06-30 20:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i had a man like that. They will never change and tell the truth, they cant. We have been apart for a year and a half now, and there is no reason for him to lie to me anymore but he still does, and about stupid stuff too. I think some people are pathalogical liars and my ex is one of them. I am so glad that I left him and I am so much happier in my daily life now. I used to hurt real bad from the lies as well. Either learn to deal with it, or leave him. He will not stop.
2006-06-30 20:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But after a while, You leave him. { if you have any sense}. Once you're out, you see things a lot clearer, Then wonder why you didn't leave him sooner. Don't feel like you are the stupid one. Having trust in someone you're committed to is the way it's supposed to be. He is the ****-up, And when you leave, He'll realize it and try to get you back..Hopefully by then, You'll know that you deserve better!! You do.
2006-06-30 20:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for how many times he had lied to you and for how many times you have accepted him? thats not the question though...you do love him thats why you cover your ears from his lying habits and open your eyes from his bad ones. give it a li'l time to work things out. Try to give it a break, have a vacation or separate for a while, vision what things went wrong and how did this things happen. Why he lies to you and why he keeps on doing it? And you, why youre still with him and why you cant leave him after all this things of unhappiness. Pray hard, talk with heart and work sensibly.
2006-06-30 20:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by shih 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. Initiate crisis management plan. Get help ASAP. Yahoo! Answers is well beyond the reach of advice for you. Chances are you've heard all the meaningless cliches before. Remember, a relationship is hard work!
2006-06-30 20:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by rattwagon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't!!!! you can not trust him any longer he knows your a sucker so he keeps doing it once that trust is broken in a relationhip something it taken away from your love and respect for him he will never gain it back if you stay with him is all you can do is live with it but you'll always wonder is he telling the truth or not so you must decide if you really want to live like that??????? i wouldn't that not love!!!
2006-06-30 20:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by Majenta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nevr. Two rules I have in a relationship.. never lie.. never cheat.
Do either and your out the door because the trust is gone.
2006-06-30 20:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is the most important thing in a relationship.u had tolerate him for so long that he get to lie over and over agin.No trust no realtionship.Think bout it urself
2006-06-30 20:23:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't trust a liar. Go and live your own life. You don't really need him. It's hard at first, but then you will be glad you left him.
2006-06-30 20:21:28 · answer #9 · answered by Karen L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u dont like liars before u call him a liar. explain it like this to him, u equate liars to thiefs, murders, and (..) whatever type of person he hates. If he still lies than, tell him his doctor called and he has 3 months to live. =) u can decide if u want to tell him the truth later on
2006-06-30 20:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by a_wuchang 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋